u/Qlowquest

exorsexism aimed at intersex and nonbinary ppl from the wider trans community is so rife its so tiring

i wish we didnt live in a reality where a great chunk of the trans community you see in this current day is filled with transmeds who are straight up the terfs of the trans community whilst they claim that they hate terfs and their ideologies. its so ironic i wish they’d see that they are literally word-for-word terfs themselves, straight up excluding the hyperinvisible section of the community and more-often-than-not not even considering the section to be trans themselves. as if transness is only a thing limited to the most hypervisible, and everyone else is cis or some shit, when ppl with these views dont even have trans view-points and beliefs as a core part of their identity. they see transness as an aesthetical identity, not one that comes with it the need to have these strong beliefs, which means unconditional support for all trans ppl whether binary, nonbinary, intersex trans ppl, and strong understanding of intersectionality as well.

they’ll call themselves transfeminists while not even being familiar with the foundational cores of feminism, it feels like a label they just adopted thinking it gains them more proximity to womanhood, when in fact it should be the bare minimum knowledge for trans individuals in general, one in that they somehow still managed to fail. if what transmeds/trans exorsexists practice is still called transfeminism, then maybe only aimed at transfems at best (where even that is debatable given how much the sphere throws their own under the bus with 4tran culture and such), not a type of feminism that even includes trans ppl of other identities. they’ll call themselves marxists/communists while frequenting sites like 4chan and throwing 4chan slurs towards marginalized ppl like water, completely oblivious of how that is completely hypocritical to their identities, yet they *say* they are that. they are completely performative in every action.

i wish the community didnt just allow ppl like this to be platformed and got together more to give them a reality-check on what theyre doing. terfmeds are living in their own echo-chambers as can be seen here in reddit, twitter, everywhere and why are we just allowing these ppl to be the face of the trans community, when they don’t even have trans beliefs themselves to begin with? similar to the “gay, but not queer” thing, except thats the motion being observed in the front-lines of whats supposed to be from a *queer* community

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u/Qlowquest — 4 days ago
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is there a term to describe “a fan of media that is centered around women”? is there a gender-neutral version of the term?

the closest i have found is “joseimuke”, which means “media targeted towards women”, but i’m wondering, is there a term to describe “a fan of media that is women-centered”? meaning it puts women as the focus of the media, not men (so no yaoi and doesnt necessarily include straight romance, or if it does, it is such a small aspect of the media), and can be absolutely anything from yuri, women-centered anime/manga, women-centered games such as style savvy, rhapsody: a musical adventure, etc

currently i just call myself a himejin (gender-neutral term for himejoshi which means yuri fan, as i am nonbinary) but im also a fan of media all to do with girls and being centered specifically around them. for such a term i described above, is there also a gender-neutral version of it?

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u/Qlowquest — 6 days ago

feeling like the whole world is against you and despite that staying strong and unmoved despite all the shit constantly thrown your way, god you guys are so fucking strong it makes me aspire to keep persisting too. i just wanted to let you guys know how much i appreciate you truly, in times that feel like the bleakest since ever, i admire how insanely strong your patience is, despite it all.

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u/Qlowquest — 21 days ago

like wdym i saw a post about b*ttplugs just casually sandwiched between other posts here, posts constantly demanding hooking up/sex etc. its the wild west (asia) here and not even a good one moreso feels like an abandoned one where all that remains here rlly are chasers

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u/Qlowquest — 22 days ago

hey peeps !! im wondering what does your own transneu fashion look to you? i’ve always been interested in pursuing fashion from transneutral peeps and how that looks like from one person to the other as im obsessed with neutral styles but its so rare to find neutral fashion in the first place! so im curious how yall like to present, and it that can be in any form: whether thats irl, how you dream to present/ideas you have, how you present virtually for example online or like in games, whatever way that is for you as a transneu person! also if you have any resources for ppl’s own neutral styles/tips they made that would be amazing !!

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u/Qlowquest — 1 month ago