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You get what you vote for

I dislike seeing so many people denied any kind of benefits, but this is what you all voted for. This the sane administration you thought would make it “ better”. This administration is funding criminals yet taking food out of the people mouths who need it. Medicaid benefits for people who need it. I wasn’t fond of the other presidential candidate either, because all politicians promise things, yet do the very things they said they wouldn’t do. It is my hope no one goes without .

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u/QueenBoss1971 — 1 day ago

Gut wrenching pain

I loss my mom on July 3rd. Her funeral was July 18th, 2 days before my 55th birthday. My mother and I had an unbreakable bond. This hurts so bad. I try my best not to think about it, but I made that mistake with my Dad, not grieving his passing. My heart is crushed, my soul is shattered. Especially with things going on with my mother other children. I honestly want to block all of them from my life. My mother is my world, my joy. Now I no longer have that, how do I continue to live without her?

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u/QueenBoss1971 — 25 days ago
▲ 45 r/Indiana

NIPSCO

Great my bill is over $600 this is absolutely ridiculous! Sales taxes and delivery charges are high. I have no other choice but to pay it. Just a bunch of crooks.

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u/QueenBoss1971 — 26 days ago

Sister lied , she’s blocked from my life

I loss my mom on July 3rd . Her funeral was July 18th. My sister wanted me to have her cremated, because I wouldn’t do that she’s lying about having life insurance on our mother. I have videos of my mother saying she did not want to be creamated. My sister did the bare minimum for our mother. She came to the funeral screaming, crying it wasn’t because of the loss, that’s guilt. She didn’t come to our mother repast at the church, instead she had a few people come to her house, as if she’s really grieving. If they only knew she was a money hungry, shady person. She rarely and barely saw our mother. Yes she would visit her but occasionally. It was never a secret I had insurance on our mother, it was enough to get the job done. It’s not about the money, it’s about my sister lying about having life insurance on her, and not sharing funeral cost just to keep the money for herself, and that cost her any relationship we would have. She wanted to take the cheaper route and that went against our mom wishes. There is another sister I believe have insurance on our mom. My mother told me those 2 were in cahoots and I believe her now. The love of money will have those doing the very person who bought them into world dirty, even in death. I think the most hurtful part is my mother was right about them. It had been many times where my sister spoke on our mother passing away every time our mother went to the hospital, as if she’s was waiting for it to happen so she can cash out on losing our mother. Some may say that’s a bit harsh, but I know my sister and the way she would speak death over our mother is how I came to that conclusion. Everything is so fresh right now, my attitude is I hope our mother death haunts them for the rest of their life. Why because the love of money means more than doing what’s right by our mother. How did I expect them to do right in her death, when they didn’t do right by her when she was alive?

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u/QueenBoss1971 — 30 days ago
▲ 12 r/Indiana

Grief counseling

Hello . Does anyone know of grief counseling groups or services? I loss my mom on July 3rd. Any information would be greatly appreciated.

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u/QueenBoss1971 — 1 month ago

Am I wrong ?

My mom is in a nursing facility for physical therapy, before that she lives with me, I take care of her. She’s not mobile , on dialysis, epilepsy, dementia. She’s now in the hospital with several things going on. My siblings do not call her, go see her, they didn’t do any of this when she was with me. A few called for her birthday, she was with me for the day. A sister visited her on Mother’s Day. No one goes to visit or anything. I have not informed them she’s in the hospital, am I wrong? If it was anything they need to know I would tell them, if they cared they would visit her at the facility and or call to check on her. I no longer talk with my siblings because they live their lives, as if our mother does not exist. As stated I have not informed them, and if it was something they needed to know I would tell them. They go visit each other, attend a family member wedding, but can’t check on their mother? I have washed my hands of my siblings. I pray God allows my mother many more years on earth, but if something does happen my siblings will want to know who got what policy, who’s paying for what, who’s doing such and such. I’m just so appalled they have no care for a woman who loved, nurtured and cared for them. I’m learning to not worry about what my siblings don’t do, just do what I can and do my very best. Thanks for letting me vent.

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u/QueenBoss1971 — 2 months ago

Struggling yet positive

Here I am my family and I are struggling really bad but has positive words for strangers. That’s just who I am, but a small part of me feels so bad in some way. I need prayers yet here I am being so positive when it comes to someone else. I’m not regretting the way I am. I genuinely care about others and want them to be ok, but who can I turn to? Who’s going to help me? Never mind me I’m just “ venting”.

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u/QueenBoss1971 — 2 months ago

Siblings

I made the decision to not speak to my siblings. Our mother is in a faculty for physical therapy, a couple of them called her for her birthday. None went to see her for Mother’s Day , I’m just done! The woman who loved, nurtured , took care of. They drive and go where they want to go, but not to see our mother? I love my siblings but I really dislike all of them. How can they go on living their daily lives, and act as if our mother doesn’t exist? God forbid something happens then they’ll be crying, falling out and posting to social media for prayers and sympathy. Someone is getting married and I’m not going to fake smile and take pictures. My decision is made I don’t care to talk to them at all!! I’m upset because I know how it makes our mother feel and it’s sad.

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u/QueenBoss1971 — 3 months ago

ER

Back story: I was hit by a truck in 2021 rear wheels ran over ankles, lower extremities. Broke tibia ( no surgery), and fibula 2 screws in right ankle. I have post traumatic arthritis and neuropathy. It hurts so bad I can barely walk. I’m feeling throbbing in my ankle and electric shock in my ankle and toes. Urgent care /ER in the morning would be a total waste of time. If I go see an orthopedic doctor chances are they won’t X Ray it same day. It hurts to the touch. Urgent care will only X Ray it and tell me to see an orthopedic surgeon. I saw one previously and he wanted to do a surgery to move a nerve over or whatever he stated. Can screws move and poking me and that’s where this excruciating pain is coming from? I may just have to go to urgent care in the morning because this pain is really severe. There is an orthopedic urgent care.

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u/QueenBoss1971 — 3 months ago
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Don’t be so critical

I have a suggestion on what helped me pass the social studies test. It told me exactly what to study and also flash cards which I took notes, wrote down and passed! No many people doesn’t use AI I was saying what helped me pass which is the end goal correct? And Chat GPT and Get Sum Math helped me. *shrugs*

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u/QueenBoss1971 — 3 months ago

I have no friends. I am always at home. I’m content with being at home with my husband and children, but it gets boring. I’m so much fun. I just have no friends. Loyalty and friendship is very important to me. I love dancing, and reading. It gets lonely sometimes, but I’m a forced homebody because I have no friends. The friends I did have, my mistake was calling some of them my friends. How do I get over thinking I’m too old to meet new people and try to build friendships? I’m in my 50’s.

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u/QueenBoss1971 — 4 months ago