u/QuietCaprisun

Preferably queer friends. Sometimes straight women almost make me feel predatory. Like damn now I can’t help you zip up your dress because you’re afraid I’m gonna want you?? Girl please😫

And I loveee my online friends🫶🏽 but I also want a friend in person and I haven’t found one yet. I moved to this state a few months ago and quickly realized no one really lives near me.

All I do is work and come home and go out from time to time. I have EXTREMELY social anxiety like past introverted so it is hard for me to make connections lmao.

I’m in my early 20s. And it really is harder to make friends as an adult. People don’t talk about it enough.

I wanna be with my friend(s) and just chill in the house watching movies and eating snacks🥹I’m also okay with getting cute and going out sometimes (when I’m with another person or other people my anxiety is not as bad lol) or legit just doing anything you like to do that I also would be comfortable with. I like to get an inside on people’s world and the best way in doing so, is seeing what interests them. I love it!

Ugh sometimes I think I should’ve stayed in my hometown where my people are😫😂

Hi! So I usually get just a regular brazilian wax but my waxer’s service is down for a few months :( there’s this place that I go to for skin treatment that also provides sugar waxing!

I wanna try sugar waxing down there but how efficient is it really? Does it get all the hairs like regular wax does? Does it hurt more or less? More or less ingrowns? Does it last as long as well?

Have you also tried sugaring your underarms too? I’m just curious before I book this appointment so anyyy answers will help :) thank you

I want friends I can cuddle with. I would like to feel comfortable with rubbing on you if we’re chilling watching a movie. Or tracing your skin with my fingertips because I know how relaxing it feels.

The thing is women find this behavior strange :( and you guys might think this is irrelevant, but I’m black lol. And most black women find affection like this between two women, when it’s platonic, odd. And it makes me feel weirder to even want to because I am attracted to women, but that doesn’t mean I want every woman I come across. But in their eyes wanting this type of just comfortable friendship, it might look that way. But I really do like affection! I haven’t had a friendship like this yet because I’m always scared to be looked at as a weirdo.

I watch asmr videos of white girls tracing their friends backs and massaging them or playing in their hair and they just both look sooo comfortable! I love it😭 the receiver is always relaxed and accepting and the giver seems to be enjoying making their friend feel nice.

Idk maybe it’s kind of a fantasy of mine? I feel like I’m so carefree with things like this but I’ve never met another girl who was.

My question is, is this weird? You guys can be completely honest with me if these are lowkey unrealistic expectations but I feel like they aren’t idkkk😭

I’ll go first. Mine is when I actually say something fluently and they didn’t hear me so they ask me to repeat it and now my anxiety is heightened because I know for a FACT I’m gonna stutter saying it the second time 😔

What are yours?

Sooo I want to go to a bar/ club by my self (only because I don’t have friends) but it scares the living CRAP out of me. I’ve done it ONE time and I was having an anxiety attack so bad that I had to go home shortly after. The thought of walking in alone, being alone, having to blend in with the crowd ALONE. Not knowing where to look, sit, stare, wondering if I’m looking awkward. Then I have a fear that someone is watching me silently across the room waiting to take me or something because they see me alone so I panic about that. It’s just the worst frfr. I want to live the social life, go out, meet people. But my fear of being judged, and being so scared of the public literally stops me from doing that. It sucks.

Theres not much to do at work right now. Just curious on how everyone’s night is going? What are y’all up to and share a cool fact about yourself! I’m gonna be wide awake reading alll of your comments🤭

How this goes:

You HAVE to share what you’re doing at this very moment alongside a fun fact! If you want your fun fact rated from 1-10, drop a 🐥 emoji after so I know who to rate :)

If you would not like a rating but still wanna share a cool fact about yourself, that’s okay too!😁 I’m reading them all!

This happens when I’m dozing off to sleep while watching a show or something and when I catch myself, I turn off the light, put on my “falling asleep” show, get comfy, plug my phone into the charging port. And nowww that I’ve prepared myself for actual bed, I’m not even tired anymore💀 what is that? Is there like a rebellious feeling thats comforting when you’re accidentally falling asleep versus when you’re ready for bed?