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I work from home, so technically I don’t even have a commute, and yet I still feel completely drained by the end of the workday.

I’m in my 30s and I’m wondering: what do you guys actually do after work on a regular basis? Gym, hobbies, seeing friends, going out, cooking… or do you mostly just go home and recharge?

Because sometimes I feel like I think something is wrong with me...

It's the last Sunday of the sales, but I can't find any information online. :(

I'm referring to city 2 or rue neuve stores...

I'm curious because everyone seems to have a different approach. Some people reply immediately, while others might read a message and answer hours...or even days later. I was part of the ones who replied inmediately ... As I get older, I have moved to the other group...

What's your habit and why?

I'm living in Belgium and I'd love to discover more local food. Besides fries, waffles and chocolate, what's your favorite Belgian dish that every newcomer should try?

For anyone unfamiliar, it's based on the 2012 Brazilian case involving Elize Matsunaga and the murder of her husband.

I had already watched the 2021 documentary Elize Matsunaga: Once Upon a Crime, but this film focuses much more on the emotional and psychological dynamics of the relationship.

Do you think this approach adds important context... or does it risk making viewers sympathize too much with the perpetrator?

Since this is the last show of the tour, do you think he'll do something extra special?

A special guest?

Or do you think it will be just like the previous shows?

Also, what surprise song are you hoping for?

Are you ready?

One of my closest friends of 10 years has been always supportive throughout my health issues (I'm currently going through an autistic burnout). She cares about me, and I know everything she says comes from a place of love. The problem is that every time I update her, the conversation turns into advice about faith, staying positive, talking to my body, ask my body for forgiveness or believing that God can heal me magically.

She recently recovered remarkably well from a serious autoimmune disease, so I understand why she believes those things helped her. But after listening to a long voice message full of suggestions, I found myself thinking, "I wish I hadn't said anything. 😮‍💨

It also triggered comparisons. She was able to return to work after a few months, while my own recovery has been much slower and more complicated.

Has anyone else experienced this? Did you stop talking to certain friends about your health while keeping the friendship?

I was honestly surprised to see there was going to be a second season, but here we are!

So far, my favorite couples are Matías & Eugenia and Agustín & Caro. I'm definitely rooting for them, but we'll see how it goes.

Gabriel "El Chapa" doesn't seem that into Anabel... at least that's the impression I'm getting.

I also feel kind of bad for Eric. It really looks like Paula isn't interested in him, and I think it would be kinder if she were honest with him instead of dragging it out if there's no chemistry.

As for Wanda and Brian... something just doesn't add up for me. Wanda seems genuine, but there's something about Brian that I can't quite put my finger on. Hopefully I'm wrong.

Those are my first impressions! What do you all think?

Just like the title says. I've been singing out loud a cappella (even though I'm not a singer or an expert) for years. It simply feels good on the inside. I do have to admit, though, that sometimes a song gets stuck in my head for hours or even days afterward.

Sensory-wise, it just feels really good and leaves me with a sense of well-being. The music I enjoy brings me peace..it simply feels right. Thought of sharing because it might be useful to someone else...

Does anyone else experience this?

Hey everyone! I’m going to the DTMF tour show soon and I’m trying to plan my ride back. Does anyone know what time the concert usually ends? Thanks!

By Friday I feel it already in my body.

Monday I’m okay. I act okay. I smile when I should, I talk “normal”, I try to keep up.

Tuesday and Wednesday I start watching myself more. My face, my voice, how I sit, how I react. Constant adjusting.

Thursday I’m tired but still pushing. Still functioning. Still “on”.

Friday is different.

I don’t crash. I just… drop.

Everything feels heavier. Noise is too much. People feel too close. My brain keeps replaying small moments from the week like I did something wrong. It’s not dramatic. It’s just what happens after holding yourself together too long.

I feel like masking gets me through the week and friday is when it hits what it took from me.

Anyone else?

When I spend many hours socializing (especially in groups or back-to-back without breaks), I feel a very specific kind of exhaustion afterwards.

For me, it shows up physically rather than just mentally: tension in my neck, shoulders, and upper trapezius sometimes migraines.

Edit: I forgot to include: noticeable temperature shifts (feeling suddenly hot or cold), specially in my hands and head like if I had fever.

Do you experience physical symptoms like mine, or something completely different after intense socializing?

Just finished The Testaments and I need to talk about the Agnes & Becka kiss.

That scene didn’t feel “random” at all… but I can’t fully pin down what it was. It’s so intentionally ambiguous.

Was Agnes starting to realize something about Becka? Or something like expressing trauma-bonded affection? or just overwhelmed by extreme emotional pressure?

How are you all reading that moment?