u/RealisticStage2075

I commented on my previous post and said how I don’t want to quit playing bc I’ve been playing on and off for like 13 years but they’re making shit impossible… like it’s to the point where people that use TPs still somehow have to use real money, just paywall after paywall after paywall.
IM TIRED OF THIS GRANDPA!-🫩

Context: I’m AuDHD, my partner and I are both 23.

I’m not even gonna get into all the reasons why bc we’ll be here for days but to keep it short, I hate America, I’m not thriving here mentally, physically, emotionally, spiritually and financially. Healthcare is shit and I need somewhere where that takes healthcare seriously, I have a bunch of ailments/disabilities and I can feel myself mentally dying.
I can’t work bc of these disabilities and I don’t have support for it, it’s hard to get anything done while trump is in office. I was thinking of moving to Canada for right now just to get away really fast and take a breather and heal myself some mentally bc I’m in Autistic burnout and I can’t think straight, I need sanity and routine like NOW. We both don’t have family to guide us on everything and we’re struggling tryna make it. Me and my partner have money saved up around 6k but I know we need more money… and I’m in the process of getting my passport and after mine we’re gonna be getting out cats’ passports. What else should I be doing?

I genuinely need kindness and compassion rn, I’m on the brink of tears but don’t hold back on honesty. We have no clue wtf we’re doing and just need a way out. 🩷

I’m in a an interracial relationship and interracial topics and subs make me UNCOMFORTABLE bc everything is abt fetish. I was recommended the interracial dating sub by Reddit then I went on there to see what it’s abt fr and I was turned off. Majority of the post and comments were giving weird asf and fetish. Like where are the normal people who date because the person is a good human being? Why is every post “I only date Asians”, “I’ve never dated inside my race and don’t plan to” or “how can I only attract black women”???

I’ve always wanted to talk to other couples, especially older couples (Black woman, Mexican man) abt their experiences with each other/cultures just to get a better understanding because even tho me and my partner have been dating for a long time we’re only 23, still young and we don’t have family we can go to for dating advice in general.

I hope what I said makes sense 😭

This Black girl on the ask(my city) sub was asking about which neighborhood she should move to and one of the neighborhoods is predominantly white and very racist. How do I know this? Idk, maybe because I lived in that city my entire life… but anyways, the other neighborhood she mentioned is more black and diverse and closer to her job apparently. She said she visited the white hood and it was “nice”. Majority of the people that were telling her to move to that racist neighborhood were either white or not from the city. Even two black girls were saying that they visited there and it wasn’t racist, which has to be a lie or they don’t know what micro aggressions look like. Being FROM and visiting a place is two different things and most likely are going to be two different experiences. So the OP was literally responding to every comment about moving to that white neighborhood, but everybody that was telling her to move to the black neighborhood was very much ignored so evidently she had her mind made up before asking the question.
The reason why I’m irritated by all of this is because I really don’t want Black people to experience racism in any form, also I’m Autistic and sometimes I take things personal if it’s not right (I know I shouldn’t, so don’t drag me😭)

But seriously, wouldn’t y’all trust a person that is from that city to tell you about the city and not a visitor or somebody that just recently moved there? Bc they don’t know how that place really is. I know wtf I’ve seen from that fucking neighborhood and its residents all the way from tiny micro aggressions to overt racism like people calling u the hard R and/or having swastika tattoos etc. Also, it’s very gentrified so why would anybody wanna live there anyway?

EDIT: Like I said before I’m Autistic, so I’m not too sure if I’m being rage baited in the comments or if people genuinely can’t read. I’m not saying this to be shady, this is so genuine…