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Hi guys! Is anyone heading out for Non-Mariners and has space for 2 or 4 on their boat?

Of course, we would be happy to contribute — money, vibes, alcohol, food, you name it!

Our lovely friends will be visiting over Cup Match and really want to experience it, but I haven’t been able to secure anything yet. If all 4 of us could fit, that would be amazing, but even if there’s only space for our friends, we’d be so grateful.

They’re a lovely Scottish/British couple, and my wife and I are local but have just moved back after 12 years abroad.

Please let me know if anyone has space or knows of anything!

Hi guys I’m newly relaxed like just had my second one exactly 6 weeks ago. I’m noticing right at the 6 week mark my hair starts to break off a bit.

Issue is, I have a sew in at the moment. What can I do with my leave out for the next 4 weeks to lessen the breakage before I take this out and get a touch up? The sew in has only been in for 4 weeks.

This is so random lol, but we don’t live in the US or any major country, so we basically never get concerts. We always have to travel for them, and the East Coast of the US is usually the closest option for us.

My wife and I each wanted to see Jill Scott and Usher, and somehow they both happened to be in Chicago the same week, so we got tickets. Then I noticed Chance the Rapper is in NYC two nights before, and NYC can easily work as a layover, so we got tickets to that too.

So now we have two nights in NYC and four nights in Chicago. And NOW Olivia Dean just announced NYC dates, and she’s playing the other night we’re in NYC. LOL.

Would this honestly be too much? I don’t want us to be completely shattered by the end of the week and not even enjoy the shows.

Ok I’ve been gay for a long time, 20 plus years. Married and with my wife for 12 years. I’m black, I keep hearing white lesbians say, she’s a top or she’s a bottom? I don’t hear this in my black community at all? I hear about touch me nots but what exactly do they mean in lesbian relationships as top and bottom? Is it just the dominant or in white relationships is it more normal to have a rigid giver and receiver?

My friends are coming to Bermuda to visit me for 10 days. What’s your fav cheap eat menu items or places?

I wanted to treat myself for my 35th birthday with a Cartier Panthère Medium. I had a budget of around $6k that I’ve been putting aside. I chose the stainless steel one, but truthfully I do prefer the two-tone. I just can’t justify the price.

I’ve now come across a second-hand medium two-tone (gold) one for $6k, but the issue is that it has diamonds in the bezel and they’re aftermarket.

I personally don’t care that much about value, and I also assume the value that has been lost is already reflected in the price, considering even the model without diamonds is around $11k. I'm also considering as I've seen the two tone with diamonds and its rose gold which I don't like that version but I'm also thinking a real watch person might assume its a rep because technically the gold two-tone doesn't come with diamonds.

Question is should I go for the second hand one?

Also possible could I find an original bezel and have that fitted at a later date? If so will cartier still service it then?