u/Remarkable-Hyena2614

TL;DR: Drunkenly offered to drive my date home. Was left alone, called me a dumbass, told me to be better, then refused to hear my feelings at all said I deserved it while I apologized profusely. Proportionate?

I’ve been seeing a girl for about a month. We had a great night out together, drinks at nice spots, then a live show. Toward the end of the night she told me she was grabbing an Uber. I was drunk and stupidly offered to take her back to my place first and then drive her home so she can save some money. I immediately knew it was a bad suggestion and she was rightfully upset. She instantly walked off and avoided me until she left, when leaving called me a dumbass, and when we hugged she told me to ‘be better,’ then left without checking how I was getting home despite knowing I was drunk too. Mind you we are more than casual. When I texted to check in if she was alright, she doubled down. I apologized multiple times and genuinely meant it but she kept saying I ruined the night and that I’m essentially a bad person for the suggestion. I tried to explain that i was not arguing with her but acknowledging my wrongdoings and expressing my feelings at the same time since we are trying to become something more, but she said she didn’t give af. said my feelings should be hurt for suggesting it and refused to acknowledge any of my feelings during the call saying that im just trying to justify me asking if i want to take her home. Is her reaction proportionate or am I missing something?