u/SabiKitsune9

For the past for years I have been struggling with an extremely low libido, as in practically non existent.

I have a partner with a more average libido, and while he’s been understanding I still feel bad about this mismatch.

I would like to find a way to increase my interest, and I figure other people must have had similar experiences.

So, for those who have been in this situation, what have you done to “meet in the middle” so to speak?

Thanks is advance for any help

Basically what the title says - do you store them somewhere? Where and how? Do you just trash them? Attempt to sell?

I used to store them under my bed lol. But since I moved out of the family home and got a new bed, the big ones don’t really fit anymore. (My toes are pulling diamonds off sometimes if I step on them 😅)

So I’m curious what other people do :)

I (36F) am interested in trying a threesome, however my partner (37M) is likely to be unsure of the idea.

I suspect a fair amount of his hesitation comes from his own self esteem issues, made worse by the fact that his ex cheated on him.

I am trying to think of ways to tell him that it’s not a ”him” thing, but just something I have wanted to try for a long time. I would also, mostly for fairness, be willing to try one with a female third if he wanted.

But I am not always the best with words, and bringing up certain topics in general (mostly those related to sex and my complicated relationship with it 😅). So was hoping for some advice on the best way to broach the topic with him.

I (36F) am interested in trying a threesome, however my partner (37M) is unsure of the idea.

I suspect a fair amount of his hesitation comes from his own self esteem issues, made worse by the fact that his ex cheated on him.

I am trying to think of ways to tell him that it’s not a ”him” thing, but just something I have wanted to try for a long time. I would also, mostly for fairness, be willing to try one with a female third if he wanted.

But I am not always the best with words, and bringing up certain topics in general (mostly those related to sex and my complicated relationship with it 😅). So was hoping for some advice on the best way to broach the topic with him.

As you can probably guess, I (F) do not really enjoy giving oral to my partner (M).

I don’t like the taste, I don’t like the smell, O don’t like the feeling of it in my mouth. In fact, I have a hyper sensitive gag reflex and often throw up. (Sometimes for ridiculous reasons 😅)

My partner is mostly understanding, but does bring it up on occasion. And even if it’s not a regular thing, I would like to be able to do it on occasion.

I’m sure others have had this problem as well, and am curious as to how (and if) you’ve managed to overcome the distaste and learned to tolerate giving

Out of curiosity I was looking up both the largest painting, and the one with the most colors.

For the largest I found one of Van Goghs “Starry Night” at 31.5 by 21 feet!!! Apparently it took 15 people and more than 1000 hours to do.

I could not find any solid info on the one with the most colors, but google said it could go up to 250.

Does anyone know of bigger and/or the most colorful?

For the people out there who write law enforcement and/or secret agent type fics - how do you come up with the cases to set the characters on?

I have some characters for a secret agent type fic, but can’t think of any cases to have them work 😅

I need advice on choosing a career. I am currently stuck in a low paying job that I can barely support myself on. I don’t need to be some millionaire or something, just enough to be comfortable on.

I am 36, female, and high functioning autistic.

I currently have a bachelors degree in psychology. (My parents paid for me to go to school, so long as it was psychology. They want me to have a high paying job.)

I do not do well with others though and feel I would be a terrible therapist or psychologist of any kind.

I don't really have any special skills - I’m a pretty good vegetarian cook, and I understand animals quite well. That’s about it.

After the latest update, I can’t turn off the passcode requirement on my mom’s phone. (She doesn’t want it due to memory issues)

The option is faded out. I did read you have to have it with Face ID turned on, but I’m sure I turned it off

I sometimes (maybe often) talk in my sleep. This alone would not be much of an issue. However, I also yell in my sleep. Enough that I have on occasion woken myself up lol, and have had friends and family super concerned 😅.

Until now, this has been only a minor thing. But I am moving into an apartment soon. And while the walls of the place dont seem too thin, I worry about neighbors hearing.

Does anyone have tips on how I can stop shouting in my sleep?

I’m sure pretty much all of us know the feeling - you’ve finished your piece, hours, days, of hard work, and now you’re worried the diamonds aren’t fully secure.

Diamond rollers have come out now. (For the few who may not know, it’s what you’re probably thinking - a roller designed to make sure the diamonds are stuck down.)

My question is, are they actually worth getting?