Help me please
I’m 20 years old. I went to college for a year but left, not because I’m incapable. But just due to the lack of attention I gave it, along with the classic family issue excuse. I work around 29-30 hours a week making 20 an hour. But I need to progress my career. My dad’s 24 years active army and he keeps pushing me to join. Not to hate on him but I don’t exactly want to be him in the future. I’m really lost right now and I’m wondering if I should go back to school, trade school. Or join the Air Force. I have a GF of 4 years and we’re very committed to eachother. She is honestly one of the reasons holding me back from joining the service. I’ve talked to recruiters, the pay just doesn’t seem worth it going for 4 years, and I’m really open to anything. But seeing my dad’s experience firsthand just makes me not want to join. Any advice would be helpful