u/SaltyShock7484

My brother who is 27 has tied his entire existence and meaning of life to a football club. He acts and says that it’s his soul his life and his mother. He is currently unemployed preparing for competitive job exams so I am wondering if this growing obsession because of this. He is a sweet kid but I am worried that this is not healthy.

Since my early twenties I dreamt of buying myself a Chanel bag. My first big girl job I started saving. But there’s always something or the other and on top of that my priority is clearing off the student debt that actually enabled me to get the job. Anyway with all the responsibilities and the ones I didn’t ask for I have I have come to the painful realisation that this will never happen for me. Yeah not the worst thing to happen to a person I know but just thought this might be the subreddit for it… just feels sad to let go of a (very materialistic) dream. Also the way these bags are priced now have really thrown me. Like five years ago it was a maybe if I save but now it’s literally an impossible.

I am unmarried and was in a relationship after the one mentioned above. I have been sick on and off for a while this past year now and everytime I fall ill I will eventually dream about my school and college days and about him. It was a painful breakup and leaves me distraught for hours everytime I wake up.

I don’t follow him on social media we haven’t been in touch for 7/8 years now so don’t know what might be the obvious triggers . My present life situation starts to seem so grey everytime this happens. Because there’s a pattern here where it happens when I am sick it makes me really worried…. That I am carrying this pain for so long.

I am in a job I love in a city I adore . Yet the dreams are so vivid I feel so so distraught for days after that

How do I save a copy of all emails that I received over the years apart from doing it individually? If you have any smart ideas please let me know!! Thank you.