u/Salty_kitten_14

So back when I was 13 I started having stomach issues out of nowhere went to the Dr and he just gave me something for my symptoms after a year or two was diagnosed with anemia so bad that my hb reached 6.4 after that life just was me getting iron transfusions and the anemia coming back after 2 3 months. With the anemia I also had calcium and suspected vitb12 deficiency. Went to multiple doctors for 10 years until one day I decided it's enough and researched for what could be the reason behind my recurring anemia. Got tested for every single cause and at the end got tired and went to a gi doctor. By that time my body has physically been so weak that I lost weight despite having a protein diet I lost like 4kgs,i had recurring infections with no cause, my veins would disappear and Dr's would have to find my veins to insert the canola in and during my infusion my vein would bruise up pretty bad. I went to the gi doctor and he suggested I get a endoscopy, results came back positive I had celiac marsh level 2 disease. I asked my doctor why didnt the antibody for celiac came back positive in my blood test and he said its because some people still have the celiac disease despite negative blood tests. 8 months and I don't have anemia anymore.

If you have recurring anemia and have gi issues it's worth getting tested and keep doing your research please.

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I am 23 female looking for someone who is like me like me se matlab having the same values /morals /thinking.

**My Details** :

**Age**:23

**Height** :5'3

**Weight** :skinny

**Education** : A levels (this has a backstory I was sick for 10 years jiski wajah se I couldn't focus on my education and recently saal Pehle I got to know that I have celiac disease so uske baad se I resumed my education I plan to become a psychologist for now lekin naseeb ka pata nahi )

**Any conditions**:celiac disease

**Family details**: my father is no more and my mother is a housewife, I have 2 other sisters one is married and one is unmarried and 1 brother who is married have 3 kids MA

**Location details**: I live in Islamabad and we have our own house MA

**Religious values** : I try to pray daily I am a god fearing person mujhe Allah ka dar hai dil mein but I can't fast because of my condition, I try to be content with the life Allah gave me and whenever something hurts me I always complain to Allah

**Hobbies** : I don't have specific hobbies because I feel like mera jab mood ho toh mein creative hojati jab mood ho toh active hojati so it's not really anything specific

**What kind of a person I am** : I personally feel like I am a emotional person I feel with depth it's easy for me to understand people. Although zyada emotional log Hurt bhi jaldi hojate. I have different personalities depending on who I am talking to so ig I want someone who would bring the best out of me. I am a jolly person mein bohat genz type hon mein memes dekhti rehti and logon ko tang karna mujhe bohat pasand hai. It's also really hard for me to do just anything in career or studies jaise log bas paise ke liye AI ACCA karlete I can't do that because jis cheez ka mera dil nahi woh mein sari zindagi karna imagine bhi nahi karsakti and I actually salute people who can. I am a average girl I try to be ambitious and I am learning how to cook. I think I will bring more emotional support and on the table rather than my skills or my income honestly😭

**My requirements** :

Koi bhi height ho seriously bas 5'2 se kam na ho

Weight mere se aas Paas ho darmiyani sa toh we will look like the same age so that mein Bachi na lago😭

**Education** : bachelors ho atleast ya toh parh raha ho ambitious ho hardworking ho provider mindset ka ho

**Work**: koi bhi ho bas he should be hardworking and have growth wala mindset. I wont do 50/50 tho as I don't earn lekin if I do earn I don't mind putting in money

**General requirements** :

He should be respectful, emotionally mature, strong enough to have his own opinions and stay firm on them, should have boundaries, have a healthy mindset or atleast is working towards making a healthy mindset everyone has gone through something lekin he should be mature enough to acknowledge he has some issues and is willing to work on them. I don't mind joint family as long as he is willing to take a stand whenever it's required. I would prefer someone with gluten intolerance or celiac over someone who isn't because yeh bimari mere ghar walo ko abhi tak samjh nahi ayi toh mere sasural walon ko kaise samjhaogi mein. But if you are understanding enough we can talk about it.

**Dealbreakers**:

\-smoking

\-someone who is not willing to change or adjust but expects me to do so

\-someone who wants to talk for months or years and then decide whether we should marry

\-someone who doesnt understand / take celiac seriously

\- someone who doesnt have a growth mindset/doesn't respect girls overall (makes memes, makes fun of girls, thinks all women just want to bash men for no reason)

\-someone who doesn't value my opinions

**Timeline**\- I would want to involve parents after few days and see if our family is compatible if so I want to commit officially in some way and then we get to know each other in a halal way and get married after 2-3 years (can be flexible if we are a match and my family decides to do so)

Thankyou for your patience because I feel meinne bohat random messy tareeke se sab likha hai.

Okay so funny thing I actually dreamt about asking this on reddit hehe so

I am 23 F and my amma asked me tumhara rishta karwa do? And I said okay amma Idc karwa do lekin ruksati tab tak nahi hogi jab tak I don't graduate and a little back story i will InshaAllah complete my A levels this jan and yes ik I am late it's cz I had celiac disease and it was undiagnosed toh I had no idea and I kept getting sick it's been almost a year to my diagnosis and I am getting better and that is why I resumed my education and I plan to do bachelors and then InshaAllah get married but the thing is na mujhe koi pasand karta na mein kisi ko karti na mere khandan mein koi hai so I basically have to do either arrange marriage or wait and go to the uni and pray ke mujhe koi mil jaye 😭 khair so Idk what to doo I am already almost 24 and I won't join uni until I am 25 and if I don't find someone in uni I will have to start searching when I am like 29 and also if I start searching now and find someone who is gonna wait for 4 years for the wedding?? And also I have celiac disease toh woh aur bhi masla hona mere toh chashme se mein reject hogayi thi Pehle so celiac disease might be a good enough reason to reject me WHAT SHOULD I DO??

PLEASE GIVE GOOD ADVICE 😭🙏🏻

Lately life feels really blank like I have no where to go nothing to do feels like I am empty inside I literally have started hating people around me I hate talking to them hearing them talk because I feel like no one can feel the depth of my pain everyone has a better life except me. I don't feel sad I just feel empty it feels like I should cry but Idk how to and honestly I don't want to cry anymore,this is something I feel from inside but outside I wakeup normal I sleep normal I eat normal I work normal I have even started learning a new skill but inside it just feels hollow.. Today it rained and I stood outside and let my body soak in that rain and I looked at my body and I couldn't identify myself like I was another being like this was my hell, this life was my hell.. Practically I should go therapy for feeling this way but at this point I feel it is physically impossible for me to hear another person say there is hope and I believe there is. I honestly feel like there will be no tommorow for me after a while not like I will k*ll myself it's just I think my body will just give up on its own. I don't want any advice I just wanted to express my feelings somewhere

So I was diagnosed like 7 months ago and it was when I went to a GI and he suggested biopsy because I had anemia from 10 years, the biopsy came back with a list of possible conditions that I could have and the first one was celiac marsh type 2 the doctor looked at it and confirmed I had celiac. I went on a GF diet and my anemia got better but my gut issues are still present, I went to a Different Dr and he said I won't confirm celiac just because you have marsh type 2 because the level is too low according to me, I also never had positive ttg test I got tested twice. Now the biopsy not clearly stating and the other doctor saying this made me get confused whether I have it or no. Also my gut issues are not getting better after going 100% Gluten free is this normal? If my gut isn't healing how are my iron levels normal now? And if it is healing why are my gut issues not resolving?

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What jobs could i get after bs psychology in pakistan? I want to do clinical psychology and i plan to do masters but i want to be able to earn after bs so i could do my masters with my own money so i want to know the jobs that i could apply into?

I want to know if doing bs psychology is better or doing bs clinical psychology is better ? I want to be a clinical psychologist lekin bs clinical psychology ke baad agar mujhe job na mili toh mein ms kaise karongi ? I am not from a wealthy household so suggest me something useful

Is it possible to have flare up symptoms for months? Like as long as i remember i started feeling depressed around 3-4 months back and strongly up until a week back and then suddenly i got better and now i dont? I used to feel depressed anxious fatigued and had a sharp pain on the back of my feet which i still do sometimes . Was it gluten or was i depressed about something because as much as i remember i am not stressed about anything and my blood test reports were normal but my cbc showed my lymphocytes were slightly elevated tho i didnt have fever infection etc.