u/Sania_Ulvenmane

People recommend me to try hobbies and everything I like is the exact same thing he likes.

I met him and found out that we have similar life, upbringing and interests eventho we came from the opposite side of the world it’s just really weird. Could say in spiritually term that he is my twin flame. And we didn’t end well I really want to forget him. But everything I like to do is remind me of him so when I started to do something I will end up thinking about him and being really depressed that I stop doing that thing. I can’t play video games I can’t enjoy watching movies I can’t do anything else but work. I can’t even come back to my old self before I met him.

What should I do then. I really want to do those hobbies without thinking about that guy. And it’s so unfair that the whole time he can distract himself from me by doing things he like but I can’t.

Hi guys so I was a student in Russia since 2022 and graduated in 2025 Everything is normal I didn't have any legal problems just until summer time when I was about to leave the country.

“Операция отклонена. Для того чтобы снять ограничения по операциям, обратитесь в территориальный орган МВД России по вопросам миграции." This is what I got when I tried to use sberbank ATM last year back in 2025. My Sberbank account had been locked and also I can't open new bank account with other banks.
They said I have to contact МВД which I didn't know where to go and I didn't have much time back then I was about to fly back home. So I called my country embassy, they said that the process to unblock the bank takes at least a month which my visa going to end soon I will have no time to do that process.
So in the end I decided to leave that bank account just like that.

Why did my bank account got blocked? I think it's because transfer money from online exchange money service. (I totally have no idea how that website works, I think it might be in grey area, do they use crypto or what idk... But I had been using this since 2022 with no issues until 2025 because my friends recommended me and also it's an only way for me to transfer money from my country to here.)

I still have evidence like receipts and sms messages everything, But there are limitations that I don't have any access to that bank account. Because my Russian number is expired.

Still until today I'm worried that in the future I would have problem for entering Russia. I have a plan to go back there for my friend's graduation in 2028. (I have 30 days free visa in Russia) I think I need to fix this problem somehow before it turns into a big problem.

Btw I have checked my status on the controlled person registry and Found out that my status still clean.
"Отсутствует в реестре контролируемых лиц" is
written there.

What should I do? Should I contact Russian embassy in my country? Do I need a lawyer for this?
Or if this has nothing to do with entering country?

Hi guys so I was a student in Russia since 2022 and graduated in 2025. Everything is normal I didn’t have any legal problems just until summer time when I was about to leave the country.

“Операция отклонена. Для того чтобы снять ограничения по операциям, обратитесь в территориальный орган МВД России по вопросам миграции.” This is what I got when I tried to use sberbank ATM last year back in 2025. My Sberbank account had been locked and also I can’t open new bank account with other banks.

They said I have to contact МВД which I didn’t know where to go and I didn’t have much time back then I was about to fly back home. So I called my country embassy, they said that the process to unblock the bank too at least a month which my visa going to end soon I will have no time to do that process.
So in the end I decided to leave that bank account just like that.

Why did my bank account got blocked? I think it’s because transfer money from online exchange money service. (I totally have no idea how that website works, I think it might be in grey area, do they use crypto or what idk… But I had been using this since 2022 with no issues until 2025 because my friends recommended me and also it’s an only way for me to transfer money from my country to here.)
I still have evidence like recipes and sms messages everything, But there are limitations that I don’t have any access to that bank account. Because my Russian number is expired.

I have check my status on the controlled person registry and Found out that my status still clean.
“Отсутствует в реестре контролируемых лиц” is written there.

Still until today I’m worried that in the future I would have problem for entering Russia. I have a plan to go back there for my friend’s graduation in 2028. (I have 30 days free visa in Russia) I think I need to fix this problem somehow before it turns into a big problem.

What should I do? Should I contact Russian embassy in my country? Do I need a lawyer for this?
Or if this has nothing to do with entering country?

I don't want to related anything to them. They are famous in my hometown and sometimes when I moved to new cities I still found ppl who knows my family. that's why I want to change my surname! and also my first name because it reminds me when they called me by that name. I don't want to remember anything about my past with this family anymore.
Has anyone here changed their names because of toxic family? What do you think about it? is there pros and cons that I should consider for? Like legal stuff.
And btw I still have zero idea how should I name myself. There's no name seem to fit me: ( this gonna be hard one.

I don’t want to related anything to them. They are famous in my hometown and sometimes when I moved to new cities I still found ppl who knows my family. that’s why I want to change my surname! and also my first name because it reminds me when they called me by that name. I don’t want to remember anything about my past with this family anymore.
Has anyone here changed their names because of toxic family? What do you think about it? is there pros and cons that I should consider for? Like legal stuff.

And btw I still have zero idea how should I name myself. There’s no name seem to fit me :( this gonna be hard one.