Texas SNAP system is becoming something else

Texas SNAP system is becoming something else

So I’ve been dealing with an “open/ pending” renewal since FEBRUARY! Went into an office February to speak with a caseworker, turned in all information they needed yet the renewal was never reviewed and closed. Since about May this year, my SNAP benefits have been getting denied every other month. Went back to my local office and sat with another caseworker, that did not properly update my case or uploaded documents! That lady told me I had to reapply for SNAP, which I did..

I’ve been without benefits since July 1st. Just went back into my local office today, and sat with a caseworker who was a Godsend 🥲 took her about an hour but she got the renewal and my benefits worked out! Oh my goodness just bless her heart. She also advised me to do my January renewal in December so it is already in the queue. Not sure what’s going on in the recent years but this system is denying benefits, people are outright owed. Seems like some case workers may not know what they’re doing as well..

u/Secure-Net4296 — 2 days ago

We got this!! 💪🏽😁

It’s been a hell of a journey learning both me and my daughter’s hair! I love it tho and wouldn’t trade it for anything. We naturally have super high density 🦁 but I think my daughter has double my density with her dad’s curls! 💫 An amazing head of hair and I’m glad we get to go on this journey together 💘

EDIT: I used detangling spray for the back but the front had edge control that had to be washed out first! Thank you all so much!!

u/Secure-Net4296 — 12 days ago

Day 3 sobriety

Smoked my last j and drunk my last drink Saturday the 25th. I’m happy for myself but feeling really withdrawn from life and my family today. Just don’t want to be bothered. Trying to look at the bright side, but just feeling blank.

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u/Secure-Net4296 — 24 days ago
▲ 461 r/RHOA

To my artistic friends..

Let me see what you got! Lol saw this and thought this would be a great comedy relief 😅 I’ll start it off

u/Secure-Net4296 — 1 month ago

Let my hair loose

And it was so freeing! After my mother relaxed my hair all my life this is something I’m not used to.. Had my hair wrapped in a bun, while my sister wanted to do a spontaneous photo session. Took the bun down and let my hair do whatever she wanted 🫶🏽 I could cry, I’m so in love with my natural hair in any state!!

u/Secure-Net4296 — 1 month ago

Hey yall, it’s me! 🩵🩵🩵

Here she is: installed, and curled! Sorry for the wait I’m trying to enter my content era lol. Had to get my footage. But who would ever think this was a $30 Amazon wig?? Ha haaa ❤️‍🔥😝

u/Secure-Net4296 — 2 months ago

My synthetic 613 dye tutorial

For the people that wanted more details.. Here’s my tutorial of my synthetic wig I just dyed today! If I was not clear on something I’m open to answering your questions

u/Secure-Net4296 — 2 months ago

Rather be monoracial

Im probably one of the most brown poc you’ll meet, with black, Mexican, Indian heritage. People call me peanut butter skin or say I shine like gold. It was already hard growing up with my siblings bullying me for looking too Indian/ Ethiopian.. But now that I’m grown, I’ve seen being mixed race gets you all types of comments from all across the board that is not okay. I grew up and live in southern U.S. I’m very cultural and love appreciating all ethnic backgrounds. When I was around a white gf of mines, I had my 3b/3c hair out and she said she thought it was a weave? Last yr I was hanging with an African friend, and he said he wants to see my real hair because he thought the straight wig I was wearing at the time, was my real hair.. wtf does that even mean? Do I “look” like I’m supposed to have naturally straight hair or something?

Then I consider myself black but the treatment from the community.. is.. something. Black men call me ‘exotic’ when I don’t want be anyone’s fetish. Other black women that I have tried to make friends with either are intimidated and hate me, or hate me while wanting to be me. I know it sounds cliche but it’s my life. Even as something as simple as having drinks, there’s one black lady sitting around just waiting to point out my nose. I think my slanted eyes & big lips shake insecure women up because I just vibe to myself. Yes I know I have a long straight nose, but I also have a beautiful soul to go with the amazing physical. I even deal with things like my ex’s black mother and family would insult me and turn around and say I want to steal their man 🫠 Where do I fit in? Where I can just be me and breathe??

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u/Secure-Net4296 — 2 months ago

Told to wait 2 weeks

(26F) So I had a positive test around the 8th of last month. My last official menstrual cycle was end of March. My hcg level last month was 18, but I was told I was miscarrying (I guess because I was spotting.) Carried on with life, but I know I never miscarried. I felt pretty crappy the past week so I went into my urgent care and now my Hcg level is 60. I was told Im around 5/6 weeks, and that it could be a healthy or ectopic pregnancy, and of course Im in my head..

I thought I was about 5/6 weeks already from my last cycle?? Why are my levels so low? Previous pregnancy for 6 weeks I was at like 1800 hcg. I have had about 3 irregular bleeding instances, hormones everywhere, and Im a mess emotionally/ physically. I have to wait 2 weeks for an ultrasound with my clinic, to make sure baby will be seen. Has anyone dealt with something similar before? Very anxious.

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u/Secure-Net4296 — 2 months ago

She’s taking it!

Thought I’d show the 613 unit installed! (Tried a new lace glue just ignore it lol) I bought my last 613 unit for summer of 2024 and had a ball with it. Been sticking with black hair for 2 years so I’m a little excited getting back into colors. Definitely going neon blue middle part after I get tired of the blonde.

u/Secure-Net4296 — 2 months ago

Beautiful cheap synthetic unit

I’m an Amazon scalper and I’m not ashamed. 🤷🏽‍♀️😂

Just a girl in her 20s that loves finding affordable wigs to “flip”. Human hair wigs are more of an investment for me, and I only buy curly human hair wigs so they don’t tangle. Other than that, I pluck, cut, color, layer, curl, bump, or wave all my synthetica’s! This is a beautiful Amazon unit I just ordered that surprised me! $30 for 30” 13x4 wig, Knots are small and doesn’t have that harsh shine to it. I’m rocking the blonde right now, but I plan on dyeing it a few different colors with rit dyemore! Don’t sleep on synthetics, I’ve been doing it all with my synthetic wigs for years. 💛💛💛

u/Secure-Net4296 — 2 months ago
▲ 25 r/RHOA

Ohh Shamea. I see ‘the plot’ now.

So I’ve been sitting back and collecting everyone’s thoughts and opinions on this. Production is clearly trying to turn RHOA into Shamea vs. Porsha. Shamea confirmed in this new interview that “THE DOOR IS CLOSED” and she’s good with only K. Michelle, Pinky, and Kelli as her friends.. Coincidence much? Lol Sounds like there’s 2 sides this season and may be battle of the minions. Do you think Shamea may try to run Porsha off the show, now that she has her “team” and is comfortable in her grounding?

u/Secure-Net4296 — 2 months ago
▲ 42 r/RHOA

Who was this dagger for ?

Porsha or Drew? 😂 I can’t this part cracks me tf up

u/Secure-Net4296 — 3 months ago
▲ 21 r/RHOA

Porsha said K “chose the wrong side”

And I think I’m starting to see it. If “the plot” was that real, why come to breakfast bursting out in tears and not address Porsha? She had all the smoke for Drew but a mute with Porsha.. I know her and Kelli can’t be that damn scared of the heffa’s height lmao. I feel Shamea is playing backseat villain with the whole situation. That is kind of trifling to me, if Porsha vouched to production for K, and then one little comment at dinner gets her to flip ship.

Do you FR think the oyster 🦪 comment was aimed at K?

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u/Secure-Net4296 — 3 months ago
▲ 48 r/braids

Jumbo knotless braids I did on myself 💛🤎🖤

Free hand parted the pattern. Parts aren’t 100% clean but I’m loving it. Been a while since I’ve done these on myself, wanted to share. 😊

u/Secure-Net4296 — 3 months ago
▲ 147 r/RHOA

Nah the REAL Drew Sidora is starting show up!

I was always iffy with Drew and her freshman/ sophomore seasons. Latoya drug her day one, then she had this weird beef with Kenya. S13 she tried way too hard to fit in with P and Shamea. S14 the cringe beef with Sanya.. I always felt the delusional Lala land act was just a wall for Drew. Kinda like with Phaedra but with white lies. Oh but this S17 Drew? She is not tryna run from anything honey and I’m loving it. Seems like she’s on Shamea’s neck this season and I’m here for it. Thoughts?

u/Secure-Net4296 — 3 months ago

How would YOU wash and go my hair?

I mostly wear braids for low manipulation these days. I believe the last time I did a wash and go was years ago. My hair was shorter then, but I used to get 3b/3c ringlets. Well now I have tailbone length hair; and I’ve ended up narrowing down my hair care routine to just shampoo, conditioner, oil and a deep conditioning hair mask as needed.

The pic is me lifting up my freshly washed hair with light conditioner. If you can’t tell by my hair parted into 4 sections, I have super high density lol. Idk how to even begin trying to define this much hair. Should I shingle? Or with my volume would finger coiling be better? Also looking for clumping products/ styling products for my hair. Would love to update with a pic if I get this wash n go thing down.

u/Secure-Net4296 — 3 months ago

Trying to go for the “natural eyeliner” look

Took a break but I would like to style some soon. What curl or lash map should I use if I want a consistent, sharp cut eyeliner look?

Photos are different brands and C or D curls. Some photos are the same set from different angles.

u/Secure-Net4296 — 3 months ago

So I’m chilling in my natural state, letting my hair deep condition in long plaits. Boyfriend comes home and jokes “Damn I didn’t know I was dating Jordan Clarkson”. Now I’m not into NBA, so when I googled who that was I will admit I laughed because we do favor. But I immediately told him it wasn’t cool, especially since I’ve expressed before that I dealt with racial bullying from my own family.

So to open that Pandora’s box: I was born to a black mother with a mixed man fetish. Yuck 🤮 Growing up with that experience was.. something. We had several different ethnicity nicknames due to her, “white girl, peurto rican, blasian, etc.”. Well I was her little Indian/ Ethiopian baby and my siblings wouldn’t let me forget it coming up. Making derogatory remarks about my looks. The hungry babies on the 2000’s commercials? That was me, type of bullying.

It’s been a long 26 years of learning to love myself inside and out. Me pulling up the picture tho, and seeing Jordan Clarkson look like he could be part Ethiopian just hit me like a train ☹️ My boyfriend is 27 and black, says he’s pro black all day but how can I make him understand (in a man’s perspective) that speaking about my looks isn’t just a giggle for me?

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u/Secure-Net4296 — 4 months ago