Styling advice for a jacket/sweater

Styling advice for a jacket/sweater

Hi! I’m wearing this dress in November and want to find a jacket or sweater to wear over it. I’ll be in California, so it doesn’t need to be super heavy. How would you style this? What type of cover-up would you recommend?

u/SignificanceOk4994 — 4 days ago
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32, DOR/Fragile X premutation - great response one cycle, poor response the next. Looking for similar experiences/advice!

Hi! I’m 32 with DOR/low AMH and a Fragile X premutation. I just started my second IVF cycle, but we’re unfortunately canceling because of an international work trip.

My AFC is usually around 6-7. This cycle I did estrogen priming + a few days of Cetrotide, then 100 mg Clomid, 150 Menopur, and 150 Gonal-F. After 8 days of stims, I had ~6 follicles, but they were all still ≤6 mm and growth was extremely slow.

The frustrating part is that my previous cycle used essentially the same protocol (minus estrogen priming), and I responded really well... onsistent follicle growth, rising estrogen, and we ultimately retrieved 3 eggs.

Has anyone with DOR experienced a great response one cycle and a really poor/slow response the next? If so, did anything change that helped?

I’d also love to hear about mini-IVF/mild stimulation protocols that worked for you with DOR.

One other thing I’m wondering about: we started estrogen priming while I was still having my withdrawal bleed from my retrieval the month before. I’m wondering if we may have rushed into this cycle and if giving my body more time to recover could have made a difference.

Would love to hear your experiences, protocols, or anything you wish you had known! ❤️

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u/SignificanceOk4994 — 1 month ago
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Can’t stop thinking about this Danielle Frankel Mimi dress

I’m getting married in November and fell completely in love with the Danielle Frankel Bridal Mimi wool-blend minidress for my courthouse ceremony.

I actually purchased a size 4, but unfortunately it’s too big and I’m realizing I really need a size 2. The problem is that the size 2 seems to be completely sold out everywhere I’ve looked! I’ve searched Mytheresa, resale sites, and various retailers, but haven’t had any luck tracking one down.

Does anyone know of any retailers, boutiques, sample sales, resale sites, or other places I should be checking for Danielle Frankel pieces? I’d also love to hear from anyone who has experience finding discontinued/sold-out Danielle Frankel dresses.

I know this is a very specific hunt, but this is truly my dream courthouse dress, so I’m determined to find a way to make it happen!

Any leads or suggestions would be SO appreciated. 🤍

u/SignificanceOk4994 — 1 month ago
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ISO Danielle Frankel Bridal Mimi wool-blend minidress

Hi! I'm searching for the Danielle Frankel Bridal Mimi wool-blend minidress in a size 2. It looks like it is sold out online. I haven't been able to find it on any re-sell sites. Any ideas of where I can source this? Thank you!

u/SignificanceOk4994 — 1 month ago
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Flower preservation services?

Hi! I’m interested in preserving my wedding bouquet. Does anyone know of any local companies/services that do this?

Thanks!!

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u/SignificanceOk4994 — 1 month ago

Rabbi recommendations in Santa Barbara?

Hi everyone! My fiancé and I are getting married at the Santa Barbara Courthouse this fall and are looking for a rabbi to officiate our ceremony on November 20.

Our ceremony will need to take place before sundown on Friday, and we’re hoping to find someone who is available and comfortable officiating a small, intimate civil ceremony.

We’d love any recommendations for rabbis in the Santa Barbara area. Thank you!

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u/SignificanceOk4994 — 2 months ago
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Does mature / fertilization rate correlate with blast rate?

I’m curious if anyone has looked into the correlation between eggs retrieved → mature → fertilized → blastocyst.

I had a 100% fertilization rate among my 4 mature eggs (all mature eggs fertilized and became 2PN), and I’m wondering if there’s any evidence that a high fertilization rate is a positive predictor of blast development.

I know there’s a ton of attrition between fertilization and blast and that anything can happen — I’m just curious if there’s any actual science behind this or if anyone has personal experience with a similar situation.

For those who had a high/100% fertilization rate, what did your Day 5/6 results look like? 🙏🫶

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u/SignificanceOk4994 — 2 months ago
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Gift for sister-in-law on my wedding day

Hi! I’m getting married in November and want to do something special for each of my family members. In addition to writing a handwritten letter to each of them, I’d love to give my mom, sister-in-law, and mother-in-law a memorable gift.

My sister-in-law recently married my brother, so I was thinking it could be special to give her something that feels connected to my own wedding day. I’m considering getting us matching or complementary pieces of jewelry something like the piece below. I’d wear one on my wedding day and gift the other to her.

I’d like to keep the budget under $500 (for her gift, not including my piece) and am especially interested in designer jewelry or pieces that feel elevated, timeless, and special. I’d also be open to having something engraved with our shared last-name initial.

Would love to hear any recommendations for jewelry brands, specific pieces, or other gift ideas!

Idea (outside of budget): Holden Ying Yang Ring

u/SignificanceOk4994 — 2 months ago
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DOR + Irregular Cycles: Cetrotide Before Stims - Has Anyone Done This?

Hi everyone!

I’m 32 with DOR due to a Fragile X premutation. I don’t have regular cycles, have been anovulatory, and my estrogen levels are low. My recent labs showed:

LH 15.6 (higher than my usual)

FSH 23.85 (also higher than my usual)

My doctor has prescribed Cetrotide for the next 3 days before repeating labs/ultrasound and then starting stims. I understand the goal is to help manage follicle development, but this approach is new to me.

Has anyone with DOR, irregular/no cycles, or low estrogen followed a similar protocol (Cetrotide before stims)? I’d love to hear your experiences and how your cycle progressed.

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u/SignificanceOk4994 — 2 months ago

Mercedes SL 60-70’s

Hi! My fiancé and I are getting married in Santa Barbara on November 20, 2026. We want to rent a vintage Mercedes for a few hours. We’re ideally looking for an SL from the 60s-70s.

Does anyone have recommendations for local places to rent from?

Thanks!

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u/SignificanceOk4994 — 3 months ago
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Advice/recommendations for Greek cruise spring 2027

Hi! I’m helping my parents plan a cruise to Greece, targeting spring 2027. Their budget is $10,00-$12,000 all in.

Does anyone have recommendations on specific cruise lines to look into?

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u/SignificanceOk4994 — 3 months ago

Courthouse Wedding- Hair and Makeup Recommendations

Hi! I’m having a civil ceremony at the Santa Barbara Courthouse this November with my immediate family and am looking for recommendations for local hair and makeup artists.

I don’t typically wear much makeup, so I’m looking for something very natural, soft glam, and bronzy. I’m still deciding on my hair, but likely something simple and romantic.

Ideally, I’d love to find someone who can do both hair and makeup and either come to my hotel or has a local salon I can go to. Looking for someone reliable and reasonably priced.

Would really appreciate any recommendations!

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u/SignificanceOk4994 — 3 months ago
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IVF - stims response

Hi,

I’m currently doing IVF and had my first monitoring appointment today after 4 days of stims. They measured 4 follicles, all around 2.5–3.5 mm.

At my baseline scan, my AFC was around 7–8, so I’m feeling a little discouraged and worried that I’m not responding well. I’m trying to stay positive and remind myself that it’s still really early, and with DOR, things may just take a little longer to get going.

Has anyone else had a slow start like this and gone on to have more follicles show up or become measurable later in the cycle? I’d love to hear your experiences.
For reference, I’m 32 with DOR (AMH ~.3) and am currently taking:
300 Gonal-F
150 Menopur

Thanks in advance ❤️

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u/SignificanceOk4994 — 4 months ago
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Thoughts on NAD+

Hi!

I’m starting my a round of IVF in two weeks interested in potentially experimenting with NAD+. I’m currently taking CoQ10 and prenatals. A bit more about where I’m at:

AMH: .32
Age: 32
DOR / Fragile X Carrier

Has anyone added this into their pre-retrieval or transfer protocol? If so, did you do IVs, pills, or another form? What was the timing and dosage?

Thanks in advance!

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u/SignificanceOk4994 — 4 months ago
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Los Angeles Reproductive Center - what has your experience been?

Hi!

I'm about to start IVF treatment at LA Reproductive Center in Encino and would love to hear about others' experiences.

So far, I've had a very positive experience with the clinic. The team has been responsive, proactive, and willing to think beyond a one-size-fits-all approach.

For context, I'm 32 years old with DOR (AMH 0.23) and a Fragile X premutation. Because of my situation, it's important to me to work with a team that is thoughtful, individualized, and intentional in their treatment recommendations rather than following a standard protocol.

Has anyone here worked with Dr. Winkler or Dr. Kalan? If so, I'd love to hear about your experience- what you liked, what you didn't, and whether you felt your treatment plan was tailored to your specific circumstances.

Thank you!

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u/SignificanceOk4994 — 4 months ago

Santa Barbara Courthouse Wedding Looks!! Advice needed!

Looking for some outfit ideas for a Santa Barbara courthouse wedding in November!

We’re doing a small civil ceremony + dinner with immediate family, and then a bigger wedding later in France, so I want this look to feel really special but still simple, modern, and a little different.

Not into a traditional long dress or a pantsuit, thinking mini or midi, maybe a mini skirt + tailored blazer vibe. I’m obsessed with this Daniel Frankel dress (pic attached) and also a Cult Gaia look I’d probably shorten. I also love EF Bridal and similar designers.

Basically looking for something white/ivory that feels chic, not overly “bridal,” and still fun and elevated. Any designer recs or styling ideas are SO appreciated!

https://preview.redd.it/bvfq6ztvbd0h1.png?width=930&format=png&auto=webp&s=5a0c30826058b1a902025b6552055f7a0bbcb66c

https://preview.redd.it/lde8hytvbd0h1.png?width=854&format=png&auto=webp&s=ff8926f0d1d5a7e47a76cf75b0ddc2c529174cf8

https://preview.redd.it/vst3dztvbd0h1.png?width=842&format=png&auto=webp&s=e2259b4d1e2a04448a4456c3e357095e9d48e335

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u/SignificanceOk4994 — 5 months ago