u/Sitaura

My relatives have suddenly started bringing marriage matches out of nowhere. My parents are also looking into them now and actively trying to convince me.

I honestly don't know what to do. I'm confused about whether I even want to get married right now.

I'm currently preparing for competitive exams and that itself is already giving me enough anxiety. I always thought I would get a job first and then think about marriage, but now suddenly there are so many matches coming and everyone is asking me to consider them.

Can someone please look at my chart and tell me about marriage timing? Like, is there actually a possibility of marriage happening soon, or is it more likely to happen later?

I mainly want to know if there are any indications of marriage during this period because the timing of all these proposals feels so sudden. I actually don't want😭

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Hi everyone,

I'm a 2023 ECE graduate and currently looking for a job in Hyderabad.

After graduation, I spent the last few years preparing for UPSC. I'm now trying to get back into tech and looking for opportunities where I can start working and build my career.

I have experience with Python, full-stack development and AI tools, and I've attached my resume here.

If anyone here is hiring or knows of any openings that might fit my profile, please let me know. Even if you have suggestions on where I should apply, I'd appreciate it.

Thanks.

Yesterday morning I woke up to what sounded like someone saying my name(like whispering in my ears). I looked around expecting someone to be there, but nobody was. I asked my family later and they said nobody had entered my room.

Then it happened again this morning. Same kind of voice/sound whispering my name in my ears. I got a really strong déjà vu feeling, and when I woke up fully, I saw a kid standing there and he was calling me. He was not there yesterday.

What could be it mean?

Yesterday morning I woke up to what sounded like someone saying my name(like whispering in my ears). I looked around expecting someone to be there, but nobody was. I asked my family later and they said nobody had entered my room.

Then it happened again this morning. Same kind of voice/sound whispering my name in my ears. I got a really strong déjà vu feeling, and when I woke up fully, I saw my nephew(kid) standing there and he was calling me irl. He was not there yesterday.

What could be it mean?My question is..was it a glitch in the matrix like I heard yesterday what was going to happen today!?

Yesterday morning I woke up to what sounded like someone saying my name(like whispering in my ears). I looked around expecting someone to be there, but nobody was. I asked my family later and they said nobody had entered my room.

Then it happened again this morning. Same kind of voice/sound whispering my name in my ears. I got a really strong déjà vu feeling, and when I woke up fully, I saw my nephew(kid) standing there and he was calling me. So, is it a glitch in the matrix that I heard what was happened today!?

What could be it mean?My question is..was it a glitch in the matrix like I heard yesterday what was going to happen today!?

https://preview.redd.it/cm6v78xekhmh1.png?width=621&format=png&auto=webp&s=8adff639a258e7a6deb9ffd1a3ea2a2b201a6887

I previously posted my chart and someone suggested getting my birth time rectified.

I was born right on the Sag-Cap rising cusp. If I move the birth time 4 minutes earlier than the time noted by my parents, I get Sagittarius rising.

This is the chart for that adjusted time. When do you think I’ll get married?

https://preview.redd.it/8wzcfo4hkhmh1.png?width=621&format=png&auto=webp&s=62029214ff1d1c7e57162fa6b936b61e35f1b134

I previously posted my chart and someone suggested getting my birth time rectified.

I was born right on the Sag-Cap rising cusp. If I move the birth time 4 minutes earlier than the time noted by my parents, I get Sagittarius rising.

This is the chart for that adjusted time. When do you think I’ll get married?

I previously posted my chart and someone suggested getting my birth time rectified.

I was born right on the Sag-Cap rising cusp. If I move the birth time 4 minutes earlier than the time noted by my parents, I get Sagittarius rising.

This is the chart for that adjusted time. When do you think I’ll get married?

https://preview.redd.it/6yvma2mfkhmh1.png?width=621&format=png&auto=webp&s=f073500d6523e82015bcddc99a11286629c863f4

I previously posted my chart and someone suggested getting my birth time rectified.

I was born right on the Sag-Cap rising cusp. If I move the birth time 4 minutes earlier than the time noted by my parents, I get Sagittarius rising.

This is the chart for that adjusted time. When do you think I’ll get married?

https://preview.redd.it/7r1jdkz207hh1.png?width=1024&format=png&auto=webp&s=071b1c72d7c86fd60a9ac0c5cacdc781e6a6e120

Hi everyone,

I finally updated my resume after spending the last few years preparing for UPSC.

I'm now trying to get back into tech and have started applying for some roles.

I'd really appreciate it if you could review my resume and point out anything I should improve whether it's the projects, skills, formatting, or anything else.

If there are any recruiters, hiring managers, or anyone whose company is hiring for any-level roles, I'd also be grateful if you could let me know or consider my profile.

Please be honest. I'd rather fix my resume now than keep applying with mistakes.

Thanks!

In the dream, I was at a place that felt like a temple or a pilgrimage site. There was a water tank nearby, and next to it I saw a building that looked like a church. I went inside.

As I walked in, I noticed schoolchildren rushing to their classrooms. While I was going up the steps, I kept seeing people who looked younger than me, almost like different versions of myself at different ages. They would look at me as if they knew me. I felt a strange connection to them.

Then a girl who looked like a younger version of me came up to me. Together, we found more people who resembled us, each looking like a different stage of my younger self.

After that, I hurried into one of the rooms inside the church. It was a children's classroom, and I was searching for someone else. Some of the kids were playfully hiding something. When I looked, I was shocked, it was me as a very young baby, maybe around one month old.

I picked the baby up, and I instantly knew it was me. I started crying uncontrollably while holding her. I walked out of the classroom still crying.

Outside, I noticed something that looked like a mosque. I video called my mom and showed her the baby. She didn't excited. It seemed like it was nighttime and there wasn't much light, so maybe she couldn't see clearly. But I felt completely certain that the baby was me.

When I woke up, I realized there were actual tears in my eyes, which means I had really been crying in my sleep.

Does anyone have any thoughts about what this dream could mean?

I got a compliment recently. It was not the best one I ever got, but it made me remember my favorite compliment.

Some compliments stay in our mind for a long time.

What's the best compliment you have ever received?

And come on... remembering it made you a little happy, didn't it?😊

I graduated in 2023 with a B.Tech in ECE from a Tier-3 college. Since graduation, I've been preparing for UPSC and have given a couple of attempts, including this year's attempt. Unfortunately, I couldn't clear Prelims.

As time passes, I keep wondering whether I should have started UPSC preparation only after securing a job. Because of overconfidence and poor judgment, I rejected the campus placement offers I received, and I regret that decision a lot now.

My family situation is not very good at the moment. If I stay unemployed and continue living at home for a few more months, I genuinely feel like I'll lose my sanity. I want to move out, become financially independent, and start earning.

Right now, I feel completely lost and don't know which direction to take.

What career opportunities should I consider at this stage? (Apart from SSC.)

I know Python, have done some Full Stack projects, and completed a Full Stack internship during college. Apart from that, I don't have much industry experience, but I'm willing to learn whatever is needed.

My immediate goal is to get a job, earn money, become independent, and continue UPSC preparation alongside work.

As for a Master's degree, it would take another 2 years, and by then I'll be 26. The thought of being unemployed at 26 honestly scares me.

I've also thought about State PSC exams, but notifications are unpredictable and often depend on the election cycle.

I haven't given up on UPSC. I still want to pursue it and have attempts left. The only thing that's changed is that I don't want to remain unemployed anymore. I'm trying to find a job so I can become financially independent and continue preparing alongside work.

Has anyone been in a similar situation? What would you do if you were in my place? Any practical advice would be greatly appreciated.

TL;DR: 24 year old, 2023 B.Tech ECE graduate, UPSC aspirant, currently unemployed and feeling stuck. Need practical career advice on getting a job, becoming independent, and continuing UPSC preparation alongside work. Have basic Python and Full Stack experience.

I graduated in 2023 with a B.Tech in ECE from a Tier-3 college. Since graduation, I've been preparing for UPSC and have given a couple of attempts, including this year's attempt. Unfortunately, I couldn't clear Prelims.

As time passes, I keep wondering whether I should have started UPSC preparation only after securing a job. Because of overconfidence and poor judgment, I rejected the campus placement offers I received, and I regret that decision a lot now.

My family situation is not very good at the moment. If I stay unemployed and continue living at home for a few more months, I genuinely feel like I'll lose my sanity. I want to move out, become financially independent, and start earning.

Right now, I feel completely lost and don't know which direction to take.

What career opportunities should I consider at this stage? (Apart from SSC.)

I know Python, have done some Full Stack projects, and completed a Full Stack internship during college. Apart from that, I don't have much industry experience, but I'm willing to learn whatever is needed.

My immediate goal is to get a job, earn money, become independent, and continue UPSC preparation alongside work.

As for a Master's degree, it would take another 2 years, and by then I'll be 26. The thought of being unemployed at 26 honestly scares me.

I've also thought about State PSC exams, but notifications are unpredictable and often depend on the election cycle.

I haven't given up on UPSC. I still want to pursue it and have attempts left. The only thing that's changed is that I don't want to remain unemployed anymore. I'm trying to find a job so I can become financially independent and continue preparing alongside work.

Has anyone been in a similar situation? What would you do if you were in my place? Any practical advice would be greatly appreciated.

TL;DR: 24 year old, 2023 B.Tech ECE graduate, UPSC aspirant, currently unemployed and feeling stuck. Need practical career advice on getting a job, becoming independent, and continuing UPSC preparation alongside work. Have basic Python and Full Stack experience.

In the dream, my dad and I were traveling in an auto-rickshaw to visit a place. When we arrived, the area was crowded. I noticed several people wearing lion masks that reminded me of Lord Narasimha, so I felt like it might have been a Narasimha temple or a place associated with him/we're visiting that temple.

After some time, I realized I had forgotten my phone in the auto-rickshaw. I didn't want to tell my dad right away because I thought he would scold me for being careless. Instead, I used his phone to call my number multiple times.

At first, nobody answered, and I started worrying. Thoughts of filing a police complaint even crossed my mind. Eventually, the auto driver answered the call. He told me that he would be back in that area in about an hour and could return my phone then.

He also asked whether it was an emergency and said that if it wasn't urgent, he could return it the next day instead. He then asked if I had an exam or something important coming up.

I lied and told him that I had an exam and that important study material was stored on my phone, so it would be much better if he could return it after an hour. He agreed and said he would bring it back.

What does this mean?

Actually I completely resonate with this dream in real life. I have been thinking of some results and anxiety of disappointing my dad. I don't want to disappoint him.

what does that ending in dream mean in my real life to the above situation?

Today afternoon I felt sleepy and took a nap. The dream felt incredibly comfortable like I was being wrapped in a warm, safe hug the entire time while dreaming.

In the dream, I was in my classroom sitting at my bench. A person (looked like a lecturer or someone in authority) sat on the bench where I keep my books and gently told me to close my books and sleep. I couldn't fall asleep, so I kept writing my leftover notes and asked him to wait. Once my notebook was full, I even started writing on his sweater shirt! He didn't mind at all. Throughout the whole dream I felt so peaceful and cozy irl, as if I was physically hugging someone warm and safe. Later we went to a cafe together. The dream continued for sometime, but I forgot what happened after this.

Even after waking up, I still felt happy, refreshed, and wrapped in that warm hugged sensation even though I didn't hug anyone in the dream. His face is not clearly visible or I forgot, but when I was with him in the dream, it felt like a warm feeling in irl.

What does this mean?

In the dream, I was studying books at home and preparing for some competitive exams. Then I came to know that some relatives had visited our house. I was sitting on the slab/terrace area of my home when a bureaucrat(who cracked the competitive exams I prepare) arrived with his wife.

He introduced himself to me like a brother and called me “sister.” Then he asked me to introduce myself to their baby. But at first, I didn’t even notice the baby. Instead, the first thing I noticed was that his wife was holding medical reports mentioning fibroids.

A moment later, I suddenly realized the baby had been in her arms the whole time. I then held the baby and asked whether it was a girl or a boy, but I strongly felt it was a baby girl.

What could this dream symbolize?