Vent: encountered a elite vegan group and got censored for calling them out.

Hi guys,

I am a 25-year-old Delhite who turned vegan last year. Need to vent, so kindly hear me out.

I joined this WA group a couple of months back. It's a group that claims to be vegan, but it's just elite socialites of Delhi posting about their plant-based product businesses mainly and some peripheral discussions on cruelty-free FMCG products. They hold Vegan potlucks, where the highlights are usually businesses providing free samples of the products that they otherwise charge for.

They are so myopic on the whole vegan debate that I had to speak up today. Here is what happened.

A couple of days ago, a business owner posted an 'accepting orders' post that slated a single piece of ladoo to be for 67 rs per piece. Someone politely posted that it is expensive, as it is. Then came a barrage of messages from other business owners shaming this person for being concerned about the cost. I ignored things until this point, thinking "chalo, small businesses h, expensive hoga". This even though I too go vegan cooking (check my previous posts on this sub) and they are very accessible - both in terms of labour hours spent and cost.

But but but, then comes this comment from the tone-deaf admin Ki**n B S*a*I - "we are proud to be exclusivist". And implied that the other lady is poor. That triggered me big time because she was just validating the stereotype that veganism is only for Western White rich men and that it's too elitist and no one can follow it. Is that the purpose of that Vegan group? Or any Vegan group for that matter? Isn't it to educate and make veganism more accessible?

So I responded with a long message explaining how their expensive and elitist stance is defeating the purpose of this group. Then she proceeds to say that people who can't afford expensive things don't have the will to buy them? (Logic left the chat 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️). When I responded with some educational articles about Classism and Veganism, the admin, Sha****k, censored it. I mean, what even? Living so high up in your ivory tower that their almond flour and avocado toast is not reaching the masses.

Maen it was a wake-up call. Not all vegans are educated on veganism. Some are here only to promote their businesses. To gatekeep recipes. They call themselves "Vegan Ally's".

The irony of the matter is that they kept their last potluck in JNU.😂😂😂😂 One of the most non-elitist spaces in the country.

It's not the first time, even. Last week, on another group, a lady was posting about the adoption of the Dachshund puppies she had bred. She was from Panchsheel Enclave. When 1 person objected that pedigree breeding is antithetical to veganism, she retorted by saying that it's bullying and dictatorship and that the other lady was being "classist". (WTF even 😂😂)

Man, I have learnt that I will have to choose my circles more cautiously. Can't be a part of these "vegan-washing" circles anymore.

TL;DR: I learnt that not all vegans are there to care for the environment and the voiceless. Some are here just for the business and the elite vibe of the "trend". They will ban-censor any difference of opinion.

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u/Slothbearfrizzyhair — 5 days ago

General Public Info: Independence Day: Kite casualties: bird rescue

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(SHARING AS RECEIVED, in Public interest)

This Independence Day, People for Animals Gurugram and Angel Eyes are coming together to organise a specialised Bird Rescue & Surgery Camp for birds injured by kite-flying manja.

Every year, thousands of birds are slashed by kite-flying manja (kite string coated with crushed glass). They suffer deep cuts to their wings, necks, and bodies, often bleeding for hours. Many bleed to death, while others lose their wings or feet, leaving them permanently disabled and unable to survive in the wild without receiving medical attention.

We request each one of you to share this poster as widely as possible—across rescue groups, RWAs, schools, veterinary clinics, friends, family, and social media. Every share could help an injured bird reach us in time.

Thank you for standing with us and for always being the voice of those who cannot ask for help. 🕊️❤️

#safeskies

#saveourbirds

#saynotomanja

#peopleforanimals

#angeleyes

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u/Slothbearfrizzyhair — 7 days ago

Urgent Adoption Appeal: Delhi NCR: 2 month old Kitten: rescue case

Urgent adoption appeal.

A lady found this baby on the road. She is inexperienced. We need to find a home for this baby urgently.

Age: 2 months old

Location: Delhi NCR

Medical History: Unknown

Vaccination status: No

Contact number:+91 97111 52015

Guys, please come forward to help find this baby a home.

Thank you

u/Slothbearfrizzyhair — 8 days ago
▲ 25 r/delhi

Lost three-legged cat: Need help searching: CCTV shows dogs chasing it: Location - Virender Nagar,Janak Puri Gali no.9 New Delhi

Hi guys,

I am posting on behalf of the feeder. IDK the cat personally.

So this baby went missing on the 29th of July, and after daily searching, they have not been able to find it. But recently they discovered CCTV footage of 7-8 dogs chasing the poor three-legged baby. They are biting her and pulling her. This was until some person chased the dogs away. Since then, we don't know where she went. She is a friendly cat.

The feeder has been searching for it since the 29th and is very distressed. If you live in West Delhi and can help in finding her, please come forward. I am attaching her pictures and video.

(P.S. Don't tell me what the feeder did was careless; I have already given them an earful, gently. Now we need help with this baby)

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u/Slothbearfrizzyhair — 14 days ago

Lost three-legged cat: Need help searching: CCTV shows dogs chasing it: Location - Virender Nagar,Janak Puri Gali no.9 New Delhi

Hi guys,

LOOKING FOR VOLUNTEERS TO HELP FIND THE CAT IN WEST DELHI

I am posting on behalf of the feeder. IDK the cat personally.

So this baby went missing on the 29th of July, and after daily searching, they have not been able to find it. But recently they discovered CCTV footage when 7-8 dogs chasing the poor three-legged baby. They are biting her and pulling her. This was until some person chased the dogs away. Since then, we don't know where she went. She is a friendly cat.

The feeder has been searching for it since the 29th and is very distressed. If you live in West Delhi and can help in finding her, please come forward. I am attaching her pictures and video.

(P.S. Don't tell me what the feeder did was careless; I have already given them an earful, gently. Now we need help with this baby)

u/Slothbearfrizzyhair — 14 days ago
▲ 49 r/southdelhi+3 crossposts

Adoption Appeal: cruelty case: Cat baby needs home: Kotla Mubarakpur Delhi

Hello, kind folks.

This is a baby we rescued from Kotla Mubarakpur, near South Extension, South Delhi. As Haryana neighbours Delhi, I thought of posting here too. We are quite desperate to find a home for this baby.

He lived in a temple, but the temple priest was a monster. He beat the baby up and left him to die in the Delhi monsoon.

We picked him up from there and nursed him to health, but we are overflowing with rescue cases. We need a home for the baby by End of Day.

Please come forward to adopt the baby; we'll provide you with every support needed.

Please note that cats are obligate carnivores, so the parent should feed it either homemade non-veg (cheapest and the best option) or store-bought cat food.

Please PLEASE PLEASE give a forever home to this baby.

If interested, kindly message on 9667937509

Thank you

u/Slothbearfrizzyhair — 14 days ago

27 y/o Indian Economics student: considering Yale MPH: need scholarships: Guidance please

Hello folks,

My Background: I am an Econ graduate, and now I am looking to expand into an MPH. I want to pursue a PhD on the intersection of Public Health and Climate change. I have not studied Physics, Biology, or Chemistry in the last 10 years (since after high school). For any Indian student in this sub, I chose humanities with maths in my 11th grade. So I have knowledge of Maths, Stats, and Eco, but none whatsoever in Physics, Chemistry, and Biology.

My Question: I am considering an MPH in Biostatistics with a Climate Change and Health concentration from Yale School of Public Health. Coming from India, would you suggest I pursue this? I will need a scholarship for everything, ofc.

Is the current political climate conducive to an Indian student? I am sorry, but I am hearing horror stories. So my parents are truly concerned.

I would be grateful for any guidance and leads.

Thank you

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u/Slothbearfrizzyhair — 16 days ago

Stray cat bite: do I need a booster after Feb booster?

Hi guys, a stray oldie cat that I feed bit and scratched me today.
My rabies injection case is as follows:
- May 2025 - all rounds of vaccines
- ⁠Feb 2026 - booster shot when my own indoor cat bit be brutally

So do I need to get another shot for this latest bite?

u/Slothbearfrizzyhair — 19 days ago

Made Vegan Kadha Prasad for Guru Purnima

IT WAS HEAVEN. I replaced ghee with coconut oil and it was delicious. Light and soft and supple. Uff. Missing it already.
Moreover, it was soooooo easy.
Try it out guys.
Recipe:
1 cup wheat atta
1 cup sugar
1 cup refined coconut oil (I used 100% pure wala parachute oil, yes you can cook in it)
2 cups water

Add atta in a Kadhai and immediately add coconut oil. Flame should be low. Keep stirring. Let the atta become aromatic and biscuit-brown. After around 7-10 mins add some cardamom powder (optional).
Separately, alongside this, in another vessel add water and sugar and put it on the flame. Let the sugar dissolve.

Then after around 7-10 mins of cooking Atta-oil, add this sugar water. Stir continuously. The atta will increase in volume and well cooked kadaprasad should not stick to the kadai.
Add dry fruits if you like.
And your vegan kadaprasad is ready.

u/Slothbearfrizzyhair — 22 days ago
▲ 82 r/delhi

Reporting from Jantar Mantar live: Unnao survivor here

Hi guys, I am at Jantar Mantar rn. Unnao survivor came to show solidarity.
One random guy walk to me to claim that the people who are showing support are getting suitcases full of money. Hahahahhaahha. Mujhe bhi chahiye tha yaar.
Kaha mil rha tha.

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u/Slothbearfrizzyhair — 1 month ago
▲ 55 r/AdoptDontShopIndia+2 crossposts

ADOPTION APPEAL: 8 adult cats: current parent in coma: CR Park, Delhi

Hello lovely folks,
These 8 babies need urgent homes. They were under the care of an elderly couple. Unfortunately, uncle got a brain stroke and now he is in coma. They have to set up an ICU at home. So the cats need to be moved to a new home within 4 days.

Information:
Age:4 to 8 years old
Vaccination status: up to date
Neutralisation status: all yes
Location: CR Park, New Delhi
Health: all healthy
Temperament: kind and loving
Litter trained: all yes
Dewormed: all yes
Contact: Devhuti Bakshi (+91 97111 52015). She is the adoption co-coordinator. Alternatively, use the number provided on the poster

PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE spread the word.
Please.

Thank you
Best,
Noori’s mom

u/Slothbearfrizzyhair — 1 month ago
▲ 118 r/Haryana+1 crossposts

Looking for charitable vets/ kind vets in Bahadurgarh, Haryana

Hello folks,

I am an independent animal rescuer, I am currently looking for a vet in Bahadurgarh. Our current Vet is looting us because he knows we bring him severe cases and he is charging 5 to 6 times the ongoing prices. like for amputation he is charging 12k. In Delhi, it’s around 2k.

So we are looking for a new vet who will consider our cases with kindness and maybe some discount. the Govt Vet hospital is plain bad and useless.
thank you guys.

attaching a video of our latest rescue. Our current vet is charging 12k for the baby and we don’t have that much funds.

u/Slothbearfrizzyhair — 1 month ago

Can Himalaya Erina anti-tick powder kill a puppy?

I applied Erina on this one month old baby, because Spot On is not suitable for a month old baby.
It was an hour ago, now it is dead with blood around the mouth and dry stool from behind.
Someone also said that there are car-tire marks around it. It lived in the open parking lot, next to a sewage.
(P.s I am travelling rn and he was near my hotel).
I am devastated. Why did it happen. I did it with the best of intentions. He was covered in fleas. They were crawling all over him.
I couldn’t find his sibling either. I don’t know. What were his final thoughts. Was he scared? Did he curse me? Why did I do it? I could have just left after feeding him. Why did I have to kill it.
Please tell me if this Erina powder is fatal for puppies?

Edit 1: I asked the hotel to check the cctv. A grey Ertiga ran over the baby while it was sleeping under it. It was NOT the powder.
Thank you

u/Slothbearfrizzyhair — 1 month ago

Fundraiser: maggot ate dog eye: Bahadurgarh sanctuary

TW: graphic
Hello guys, reaching out to you for financial support for this baby with maggot eaten eye. He has been provided with primary medical treatment on credit. As we have directed most of our funds for the foods needs of our other babies, we could use some financial help.
As the title says, maggots have eaten away his entire eye. He is blind from one eye.

Additionally, if you would like to adopt or foster him, you can do that too. As the monsoons have arrived and the sanctuary is a high infection area, we are concerned about his survival.

If you would like adopt him/ foster him or support his medical treatment please consider reaching out/ donating at 9667937509.

About me:
I am Lavanya, a 25 y/o independent rescuer based out of Delhi. I have coordinated 50+ adoptions across the NCR region and regularly support the animal shelters here.
If you need any authentication about my work, you can reach out to me or Dr. Majumdar (FRIENDICOES). He knows me as a three legged tripod kitten’s mom who brings in injured cats and dogs ( my name might not ring to him).
So yeah guys, trying to make this world a better place, one baby at a time.
Thank you

u/Slothbearfrizzyhair — 2 months ago

Indoor tripod cat wound healing but she keeps licking

Hi guys, this is my own Noori tripod baby’s leg. 2 weeks ago she got into a fight with another community cat that I feed. Took her to the vet, got the dressing done and the vaccinations.
But the problem is she keeps licking it. It’s been 7 days.
I have put a e-collar on her but when I open it for food and water, she manages to lick it and undo whatever progress has been made so far.
I am concerned her healing is very slow.
Can’t go for vet dressing everyday. They are charging 400 per visit. Should I go but?
I am applying the white powery thing, like betadine powder for animal wounds.
But it’s taking so long. I am concerned.
Please suggest something.

u/Slothbearfrizzyhair — 2 months ago

Abandoned Persian Up for adoption: Delhi NCR

Hi lovely folks, I am the last person to condone pedigree breed adoptions, but this little baby was is being abandoned by its family. Please note I am not the primary foster, I received a request from one of my co-rescuers. So I am just copying the message that I received. Please contact the number provided.
The message reads as follows:

“Hello All

Pls consider giving this loving baby a home!

1 yr old male, sterilised, vaccinated, litter trained, super loving and friendly fur baby.

Family needs to put the baby up for adoption to a loving home as they are no longer able to care for it due to very long working hours and lots of work related travel.

Adoption possible anywhere in NCR.

age: 1 year

location: Dwarka, Delhi NCR

Reason : original family abandoned

medical history: None

Pls msg/watsapp on 9654982969

Pls spread the word🥰🙏”

u/Slothbearfrizzyhair — 2 months ago

Fundraiser: 40+ community babies : food and medical needs: Bahadurgarh, Delhi NCR

Hello kind folks,

*Heavy trigger warning. Graphic images.*

I am writing to appeal for funds for our Bahadurgarh rescue center that we aspire to expand into a full time sanctuary. Currently we have over 35 dogs under our care who were subjected to animal cruelty at different times and many have been provided with the necessary medical attention at our own expense. But we have hit severe crisis of funds in this hazardous heat wave in the Delhi NCR.

WE HAVE RUN OUT OF ALL FUNDS, EVEN FOR FOOD.

Over and above we have 4 babies needing urgent medical attention.

Additionally, we also rescue cats but the cats live in my co-rescuers’ rented home. We currently have 2 cat babies whose limbs were chopped off. Need medical expense for their surgery too.

Please come forward to donate even a token amount for the dog and cat babies meals.

We have currently paused the expansion of our santuary due to the paucity of funds. But your donation (even a penny) will go a long way.
Please donate at 9667937509

I assure complete transparency and regular updates. We are fighting fires again.

(For some reason cruelty in Bahadurgarh is much higher than other main cities - sorry if I sound judgemental, it’s just my observation).

Hoping to rescue as many babies as possible

-Noori’s mom

u/Slothbearfrizzyhair — 2 months ago
▲ 262 r/FundRaise+1 crossposts

Fundraiser: heat wave: medical and food needs: 35 dogs + 4 cats : Bahadurgarh, Delhi NCR

Hello kind folks,

*Heavy trigger warning. Graphic images.*

I am writing to appeal for funds for our Bahadurgarh rescue center that we aspire to expand into a full time sanctuary. Currently we have over 35 dogs under our care who were subjected to animal cruelty at different points of time and many have been provided with the necessary medical attention at our own expense. But we have hit severe crisis of funds in this hazardous heat wave in the Delhi NCR.

WE HAVE RUN OUT OF ALL FUNDS, EVEN FOR FOOD.

Over and above we have 4 babies needing urgent medical attention.

I have attached the bills.

Additionally, we also rescue cats but the cats live in my co-rescuers’ rented home. We currently have 2 cat babies whose limbs were chopped off. Need medical expense for their surgery too.

Please come forward to donate even a token amount for the dog and cat babies meals.

We have currently paused the expansion of our santuary due to the paucity of funds. But your donation (even a penny) will go a long way.

I assure complete transparency and regular updates. We are fighting fires again.

(For some reason cruelty in Bahadurgarh is much higher than other main cities - sorry if I sound judgemental, it’s just my observation).

Hoping to rescue as many babies as possible

Please donate at 9667937509

-Noori’s mom

u/Slothbearfrizzyhair — 2 months ago

Fundraiser: animal cruelty: cat skull injury: NOIDA

Heavy trigger warning.
I am fighting fires today.
This is the second baby in a critical condition.
Someone threw boiling hot water on him and then he met with an accident.
We have already incurred around 20k on this baby as well. I am coordinating with my fellow rescuers for the bill.
Until then, please share even the smallest penny you would like to. This baby needs it.

Edit 1:
Thank you so much guys.
We raised over 10k. Rest we managed.
If you like to support a pregnant cat who lost all her foetus due to crash run over, please check out my other post from yesterday. Her spine is broken and she is paralysed now. She is on ventilator.
Thank you.
Godspeed guys.

u/Slothbearfrizzyhair — 3 months ago