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I need to know what perfume you guys wear, every time I walk past an Arab woman she smells so heavenly. Idk if it’s oud or layering, etc. but I really need to know before I leave. Do tell me and where do you guys buy from? ❤️❤️ thank you

I know I know there’s a post like this every week but I’m genuinely just tired?? I’m not a teenager going through a phase anymore, I feel the same exact way about her. She’s so mean to me. I’m 22f I got an internship outside of my home country and she HATES the fact that I’m going. I was so excited and proud of myself because I was kinda unemployed since my last internship (FAANG) and I finally got one in a field I’m really interested in. She goes “why are you wasting your life, you should’ve just found a full time job in home country” but the WLB and laws are so bad here, the working environment is TERRIBLE. Everyone I know gets shouted at or abused. Typical Indian management, so idk why’d she want this for me. She tells me it’s normal and I should just get used to it, like no I don’t want to get used to that.

How am I wasting my life if I’m gaining experience and going to be living in a new country. I understand it’s not full time but a job is a job. I was so excited but now I feel behind and so unconfident in myself.

I saw a post where someone said do you guys think your mother is jealous of you. I commented no she wants the best for me, she just wants me out of the house. Now I think she IS jealous and wants me to live the same miserable life she had to deal with. I just don’t get it. I’m so sick of feeling like this, I’ve never been appreciated or congratulated for my accomplishments.

What have I done so wrong? I really need advice to cope with this. Because It’s hard to ignore

I’m a fresher and had most of my experience from working in Europe, but more recently unemployed. I’ve been interviewing for multiple place, some over Europe, some gulf countries. Today I had the worst interview ever, and it was a predominantly Indian management but a big bank in the UAE. They were so hostile and so unprofessional. They didn’t switch on their cameras, didn’t introduce themselves or their position, didn’t ask any valuable questions, didn’t even ask me if I had any questions, and they were asking questions for a role I didn’t apply to (recruiter told me it was a system analyst position and they kept saying you do know this is a business analyst position?) like no I didn’t know that and they were being so aggressive about it. I’ve heard really bad stories from my friends who’ve worked under Indian companies and had to resign immediately. They don’t have any etiquette and I’m genuinely so Bamboozled by the whole situation. Is this normal??? Because this is just so unprofessional from my lens and I don’t think I want to apply to anymore companies in the MENA region.

At the start of this season, I saw so much discourse about how last year’s sympathy voting ruined the finale, and that Amaya didn’t deserve to be the finalist with Bryce. And this year during the Caleb and sol voting, everyone got so annoyed about “sympathy voting” so can someone please tell me why we NEVER see such with Melanie and Sincere. Are we serious? I love Melanie too but we’re feeding delusions to her AND sincere about them being both liked. She deserves so much better, and sincere is draining the life force out of her. I love her down but guys she’ll still get all the brand deals if she isn’t top 4? They all know we love her. But I can’t stand to see sincere on my screen anymore.

Or is it just me? I feel like I need something to blame so is it just wired in our culture or is it just my parents? I just don’t fit, I don’t like my family. I’ve always been treated like ass and naturally I rebel or fight back. Now neither of them talk to me ever as much and I usually only ever fight with them. I just wish I was born in a normal family. It stings a lot, the way my brother got treated vs me is just so completely different. We literally have two different parents and we naturally argue because of this as well. I’m tired of this. I ofc moved out at 17 and left the country, but i recently had to move back after 5 years and it’s just been the worst. Trying to move back asap, I hate feeling like this, do any of you guys relate. I need advice I need something. I don’t want to feel like I’m crazy anymore.

Mother’s Day and Father’s Day just suck, I hate seeing people post about their lovely parents. I wish I was wanted.

Or anywhere I can get nerd stuff in general other than kino, or online. Do let me know! Or Sonny angels too not for a ridiculous price of 90-120 dhs.

Unfortunately throughout my life, every single guy I’ve dated has either coerced me or has SA’d me. One of them has even taken some pics from my hidden folder without my knowledge or consent before we dated and I found out while dating him. So I’ve recently and unfortunately become very repulsed to anything sexual, I really can’t handle it anymore. And so when it comes to dating, I cannot do anything physically until I truly get to know someone which will take months or maybe even a year.

I’m not sure what to do going forward for dating, I don’t even feel like I’ll be able to find someone who won’t cross boundaries and do something to me. I’m scared to trust anymore and I obviously need time to heal but what if I won’t be able to, I feel asexual althought I don’t think that’s the right term. Another thing is I really hate porn, I really think it meddles with relationships and skews your brain, it’s another big boundary. So I’m not sure if anyone would be willing to have no sex for that long while not watching, obviously it won’t be nothing at all but idk I really just need some judgment and advice.

I’ve been the kid with the parents that hated them growing up. I’m done, the amount of posts I see about people hating their kids is abominable and their reason being oh i have to deal with their screaming, crying, etc etc and it’s the basic starter pack of knowing what you’re going to deal with by having kids. I know parenting is hard, but why have kids if you can’t take care of them. Kids know that you hate them, they know if you don’t want them and ykw that’s probably why they’re shy, so shut off, so quiet. I was a good kid, I only started “rebelling” at 13 because I was tired of the way my parents treated me, they cussed me out like crazy when I was just a kid. Not to mention, the insane physical abuse. They didn’t teach me shit, nothing really I taught myself everything and they were NEVER there for me ever. Not once, they’ve never come to my sporting events, or school shows, etc. btw my brother has dyslexia because they thought he’d turn out like me because they didn’t teach him ANYTHING, how to read, write, literally nothing. I moved out at 17 but I’m back again and I just hate being in their presence. Like they clearly hate me and I just don’t want to be here anymore. DON’T HAVE KIDS IF YOU AREN’T PREPARED TO RAISE AND LOVE THEM.

He was good until I turned 12 ever since then, he’s become the worst person to me. He swears at me every chance I get even as a kid, I wanted a doll from an amusement park “you’re a bitch”, I shaved my arms “randi saali”, he’s even spat at me during arguments etc. He literally is the most miserable person ever he’s such a bad husband and a bad father. The atmosphere revolves around his mood and he’s always been so fucking rude and mean to me, my mom is the same but I guess she’s a little less mean now but she would annihilate and beat me up so much until I turned 17. Now I’m 22, unfortunately unemployed. I’m in tech, I recently graduated and I had an internship at a FAANG company and I thought I could convert that into a full time, but unfortunately they were going through a hiring freeze + layoffs and I had to come back home, but that was genuinely the best one year of freedom and independence I had. I didn’t have to ask my dad for money nothing I paid my own rent and everything and I called my parents once every 3 months? And it was genuinely so peaceful and I was happy.

Now I’m back home miserable and the tech job market is horrible and everyday I have to sit in this misery and share the same home w my father as he ridicules and swears at me for doing nothing, if I had a job I wouldn’t even be here bro my dream is to move out I dont WANT to be here I want to leave. I hate this place so much I get cussed out by him so much, I cuss back but a girl can only do so much I’m still financially dependent on him. I just can’t, I hate this so much.

I don’t wish to have a good dad anymore, I just wish to not even be around him or in his presence.

Thank you for reading this, I just wish this wasn’t my life rn.

I feel like after they’ve been attained by elf that it’s fair to assume they’d go international. It’s kinda odd only the western countries can buy rhode and I usually have to depend on my friends/family travelling to so n so countries before I can get my hands on them. I want the bronzers so bad but I fear I won’t be able to get them for a long while:/ I really love the consistency of the blush, and a bronzer of the same would be so good.

At least Reddit has strict moderators and people keeping others in check. x is disgusting, the most vile shit happens on there with no repercussions, racism, cp, everything bruh. People are SO miserable, truly the worst of the worst

I have extreme body dysmorphia, and one of my biggest boundaries is porn. I’ve told every single person before I date them that porn is an absolute no go. So tell me why all of them have betrayed me. I genuinely thought my bf was the one and come to find out he’s been watching porn the whole relationship, lots of it. He knew how bad it hurt me with my exes. It broke me to my core, i found out April last year. He knew what he was doing, with full intention knowing it would hurt me and he still did it. He knows I have BDD and how badly it would affect it. He still did it. I hate him I have so much resentment for him but I still love him, idk how. Maybe because our entire relationship he was an absolute angel and I saw him as my future husband. I’m in such disbelief. I’m just happy there’s others like me, who can understand the pain one has to go through. It’s hard to believe this is what I deserve in life, it’s hard to let go.

I don’t really trust at-home places and I can’t seem to find a decent place to get a lash lift done, it’s usually just lash extensions. Anyone know a place or have any recommendations? Thanks!

I don’t have any insurance or anything like that, so I’m asking for the raw cost. I really need to be diagnosed, I need the medication, I have symptoms and it affects my daily life by a lot. And recommendations on where to go?