u/Souline_xx

WTF. Alright so I kinda figured this guy had a crush on me. He randomly texted me one time to ask me about my day and would get nervous all the time when we talked in person. One time I made a joke saying “you look scared of me and avoid me.” He told me likes to stay professional at work and doesn’t want people getting the wrong ideas.

He had asked me to go out for drinks once but I kept postponing it because of my busy schedule. We work in different departments. I bumped into him at work today and we chatted a bit. An hour later he texted me asking what I was doing tonight? We made plans to go out for drinks. I went to his office and he was super avoidant when I wanted to ask if we could carpool. I went back to my office and later texted me that he rather go on his own cause he didn’t want people getting the wrong impression. He told me there’s been rumors and would tell me in person.

We went to dinner and things were cool. He started getting vulgar saying he likes thick girls. He also said his coworkers from his department made vulgar remarks about me when I walked in with some tight leggings. He said they were asking him if we were smashing.

Long story short, he told me he has a 6 month old baby and he lives with his gf. He said his gf is chill and is aware he’s a flirt. I felt so awkward. He looked so drunk at that point. I told him it was best I left …I told him I was going to call a guy I like. (Trying to friend zone him here). He said “are you wet? Do you need me to f\*\*\* you?” I felt so uncomfortable and told him we should leave. He got super close to me and told me “alright i gotta tell you something. I think you’re so pretty and you got a nice little booty. I want to f\*ck you” I was livid.

He then called me almost like he was crying and kept apologizing! Before I hung up he said “I can give you good c0ck”

He texted an hour later asking if I got home safe and he enjoyed the company.

I’m soooooooooo petrified !!!!!!! wtf is wrong with ppl.

WTF. Alright so I kinda figured this guy had a crush on me. He randomly texted me one time to ask me about my day and would get nervous all the time when we talked in person. One time I made a joke saying “you look scared of me and avoid me.” He told me likes to stay professional at work and doesn’t want people getting the wrong ideas.

He had asked me to go out for drinks once but I kept postponing it because of my busy schedule. We work in different departments. I bumped into him at work today and we chatted a bit. An hour later he texted me asking what I was doing tonight? We made plans to go out for drinks. I went to his office and he was super avoidant when I wanted to ask if we could carpool. I went back to my office and later texted me that he rather go on his own cause he didn’t want people getting the wrong impression. He told me there’s been rumors and would tell me in person.

We went to dinner and things were cool. He started getting vulgar saying he likes thick girls. He also said his coworkers from his department made vulgar remarks about me when I walked in with some tight leggings. He said they were asking him if we were smashing.

Long story short, he told me he has a 6 month old baby and he lives with his gf. He said his gf is chill and is aware he’s a flirt. I felt so awkward. He looked so drunk at that point. I told him it was best I left …I told him I was going to call a guy I like. (Trying to friend zone him here). He said “are you wet? Do you need me to f*** you?” I felt so uncomfortable and told him we should leave. He got super close to me and told me “alright i gotta tell you something. I think you’re so pretty and you got a nice little booty. I want to f*ck you” I was livid.

He then called me almost like he was crying and kept apologizing! Before I hung up he said “I can give you good c0ck”

He texted an hour later asking if I got home safe and he enjoyed the company.

I’m soooooooooo petrified !!!!!!! wtf is wrong with ppl.

About 3 weeks ago my coworker texted me out of the blue. I’ve had his number for a while because I asked for it for work related stuff (I have almost everyone’s number).
I work in event production and he works in a department I work very closely with so we have to communicate pretty often.

The day he texted me, I was in office working an event. He texted me after the event ended asking how it went. We exchanged a few texts and then he suggested we grab drinks after work. I had already left and gone home so I told him I already left the office. He asked about Monday (the next day) but I told him I was off. I suggested Friday instead and he said he was open to it, but then never followed through. Turns out my other coworker told me weeks later that she had told him I felt so disappointed with how my event turned out and the lack of support I had. Now I feel like he was just trying to make me feel better. He was sending long comforting paragraphs. This is why I’m reposting this because of what my coworker told me….

I’m also not sure if he felt rejected when he asked me out for drinks the first time but I did suggest Friday.
He acts kind of shy and awkward in general so it’s hard to tell with him. He’s a shy guy over all.

He also randomly called me “sweetie” once lol. We exchanged social media too.

2 nights ago, he texted me asking for information on a vendor. Could’ve been an excuse to text me idk but it was so random. I gave him the info and we exchanged a few more texts. Then he asked if he was going to see me tomorrow or if I was off. I said yes and asked if he was scheduled too and he confirmed he was.

I made a joke and said “hopefully you say hi to me” and he said he will and hopes to see a smile on my face because I always look sad lol. Not sure if this was a bad thing cause he also said I look conceited. Seems like he’s pointing out flaws in me.

Yesterday I hosted another event and he worked the event. He preps food and I told him I was hungry. He snuck me to the back and asked if I wanted him to make me something. I told him anything was fine. I had some stuff he had leftovers and just chatted. He looked nervous honestly.

Our whole interaction feels kinda tense and he looks like he’s scared of me. Idk what to even think. I did post something on social media and he replied with something so random. I posted a cat and he replied with “he’s going to scratch you.”

I honestly can’t tell if he’s interested or just friendly bc we don’t text much except for that one time. Also I was the one who asked for his number … I’m feeling so confused about this. Just saw he looked at my tik tok profile. It notifies you

Thoughts?

About 3 weeks ago my coworker texted me out of the blue. I’ve had his number for a while because I asked for it for work related stuff (I have almost everyone’s number).
I work in event production and he works in a department I work very closely with so we have to communicate pretty often.

The day he texted me, I was in office working an event. He texted me after the event ended asking how it went. We exchanged a few texts and then he suggested we grab drinks after work. I had already left and gone home so I told him I already left the office. He asked about Monday (the next day) but I told him I was off. I suggested Friday instead and he said he was open to it, but then never followed through. Turns out my other coworker told me weeks later that she had told him I felt so disappointed with how my event turned out and the lack of support I had. Now I feel like he was just trying to make me feel better. He was sending long comforting paragraphs. This is why I’m reposting this because of what my coworker told me….

I’m also not sure if he felt rejected when he asked me out for drinks the first time but I did suggest Friday.
He acts kind of shy and awkward in general so it’s hard to tell with him. He’s a shy guy over all.

He also randomly called me “sweetie” once lol. We exchanged social media too.

2 nights ago, he texted me asking for information on a vendor. Could’ve been an excuse to text me idk but it was so random. I gave him the info and we exchanged a few more texts. Then he asked if he was going to see me tomorrow or if I was off. I said yes and asked if he was scheduled too and he confirmed he was.

I made a joke and said “hopefully you say hi to me” and he said he will and hopes to see a smile on my face because I always look sad lol. Not sure if this was a bad thing cause he also said I look conceited. Seems like he’s pointing out flaws in me.

Yesterday I hosted another event and he worked the event. He preps food and I told him I was hungry. He snuck me to the back and asked if I wanted him to make me something. I told him anything was fine. I had some stuff he had leftovers and just chatted. He looked nervous honestly.

Our whole interaction feels kinda tense and he looks like he’s scared of me. Idk what to even think. I did post something on social media and he replied with something so random. I posted a cat and he replied with “he’s going to scratch you.”

I honestly can’t tell if he’s interested or just friendly bc we don’t text much except for that one time.

Thoughts?

About 3 weeks ago my coworker texted me out of the blue. I’ve had his number for a while because I asked for it for work related stuff (I have almost everyone’s number).
I work in event production and he works in a department I work very closely with so we have to communicate pretty often.

The day he texted me, I was in office working an event. He texted me after the event ended asking how it went. We exchanged a few texts and then he suggested we grab drinks after work. I had already left and gone home so I told him I already left the office. He asked about Monday (the next day) but I told him I was off. I suggested Friday instead and he said he was open to it, but then never followed through.

Not sure if he felt rejected or if I’m overthinking it.
He acts kind of shy and awkward in general so it’s hard to tell with him.

He also randomly called me “sweetie” once lol. We exchanged social media too.
Anytime we bump into each other in the elevator he asks about my day.

Last night he texted me asking for information on a vendor. Could’ve been an excuse to text me idk. I gave him the info and we exchanged a few more texts. Then he asked if he was going to see me tomorrow. I said yes and asked if he was scheduled too and he confirmed he was.

I made a joke and said “hopefully you say hi to me” and he said he will and hopes to see a smile on my face because I always look sad lol. Not sure if this was a bad thing cause he also said I look conceited LOL

I honestly can’t tell if he’s interested or just friendly.

Thoughts?

About 3 weeks ago my coworker texted me out of the blue. I’ve had his number for a while because I asked for it for work related stuff (I have almost everyone’s number).
I work in event production and he works in a department I work very closely with so we have to communicate pretty often.

The day he texted me, I was in office working an event. He texted me after the event ended asking how it went. We exchanged a few texts and then he suggested we grab drinks after work. I had already left and gone home so I told him I already left the office. He asked about Monday (the next day) but I told him I was off. I suggested Friday instead and he said he was open to it, but then never followed through.

Not sure if he felt rejected or if I’m overthinking it.
He acts kind of shy and awkward in general so it’s hard to tell with him.

He also randomly called me “sweetie” once lol. We exchanged social media too.
Anytime we bump into each other in the elevator he asks about my day.

Last night he texted me asking for information on a vendor. Could’ve been an excuse to text me idk. I gave him the info and we exchanged a few more texts. Then he asked if he was going to see me tomorrow. I said yes and asked if he was scheduled too and he confirmed he was.

I made a joke and said “hopefully you say hi to me” and he said he will and hopes to see a smile on my face because I always look sad lol. Not sure if this was a bad thing cause he also said I look conceited LOL

I honestly can’t tell if he’s interested or just friendly.

Thoughts?

About 3 weeks ago my coworker texted me out of the blue. I’ve had his number for a while because I asked for it for work related stuff (I have almost everyone’s number).
I work in event production and he works in a department I work very closely with so we have to communicate pretty often.

The day he texted me, I was in office working an event. He texted me after the event ended asking how it went. We exchanged a few texts and then he suggested we grab drinks after work. I had already left and gone home so I told him I already left the office. He asked about Monday (the next day) but I told him I was off. I suggested Friday instead and he said he was open to it, but then never followed through.

Not sure if he felt rejected or if I’m overthinking it.
He acts kind of shy and awkward in general so it’s hard to tell with him.

He also randomly called me “sweetie” once lol. We exchanged social media too.
Anytime we bump into each other in the elevator he asks about my day.

Last night he texted me asking for information on a vendor. Could’ve been an excuse to text me idk. I gave him the info and we exchanged a few more texts. Then he asked if he was going to see me tomorrow. I said yes and asked if he was scheduled too and he confirmed he was.

I made a joke and said “hopefully you say hi to me” and he said he will and hopes to see a smile on my face because I always look sad lol. Not sure if this was a bad thing cause he also said I look conceited LOL

I honestly can’t tell if he’s interested or just friendly.

Thoughts?

There’s a coworker at my job that I see once in a while but we work closely together (if that makes sense). I work in a hotel and he is the chef so I have frequent email interaction. I don’t see him often though unless we need to coordinate special dishes together.

He always acts awkward around me. He is all around shy though so it’s hard to tell if he has a crush on me or is genuinely just nervous/awkward.

I asked for his number once because of easier communication. I have almost everyone’s in the department.

Last night he texted me asking how my event went. We were texting almost all night lol and added my socials after I sent him a reel. I told him to not laugh at my pictures and he said “I look conceited 🤣 jk.” He also said we should catch some drinks sometime. I said Fridays work best and he said he would be up for it.

He could be just friendly cause he genuinely is a nice guy!

This happened ALL so suddenly and not sure what’s going on. I need to be weary of this. To clarify I don’t mind keeping this platonic and professionally. I don’t intend to have a work romance

There’s a coworker at my job that I see once in a while but we work closely together (if that makes sense). I work in a hotel and he is the chef so I have frequent email interaction. I don’t see him often though unless we need to coordinate special dishes together.

He always acts awkward around me. He is all around shy though so it’s hard to tell if he has a crush on me or is genuinely just nervous/awkward.

I asked for his number once because of easier communication. I have almost everyone’s in the department.

Last night he texted me asking how my event went. We were texting almost all night lol and added my socials after I sent him a reel. I told him to not laugh at my pictures and he said “I look conceited 🤣 jk.” He also said we should catch some drinks sometime. I said Fridays work best and he said he would be up for it.

He could be just friendly cause he genuinely is a nice guy!

This happened ALL so suddenly and not sure what’s going on. I need to be weary of this. To clarify I don’t mind keeping this platonic and professionally. I don’t intend to have a work romance because it makes me super nervous.

There’s a coworker at my job that I see once in a while but we work closely together (if that makes sense). I work in a hotel and he is the chef so I have frequent email interaction. I don’t see him often though unless we need to coordinate special dishes together.

He always acts awkward around me. He is all around shy though so it’s hard to tell if he has a crush on me or is genuinely just nervous/awkward.

I asked for his number once because of easier communication. I have almost everyone’s in the department.

Last night he texted me asking how my event went. We were texting almost all night lol and added my socials after I sent him a reel. I told him to not laugh at my pictures and he said “I look conceited 🤣 jk.” He also said we should catch some drinks sometime. I said Fridays work best and he said he would be up for it.

He could be just friendly cause he genuinely is a nice guy!

This happened ALL so suddenly and not sure what’s going on. I need to be weary of this. To clarify I don’t mind keeping this platonic and professionally. I don’t intend to have a work romance

I posted on the wrong sub so it got deleted but here it goes:

There’s a coworker at my job that I see once in a while but we work closely together (if that makes sense). I work in a hotel and he is the chef so I have frequent email interaction. I don’t see him often though unless we need to coordinate special dishes together.

He always acts awkward around me. He is all around shy though so it’s hard to tell if he has a crush on me or is genuinely just nervous/awkward.

I asked for his number once because of easier communication. I have almost everyone’s in the department.

Last night he texted me asking how my event went. We were texting almost all night lol and added my socials after I sent him a reel. I told him to not laugh at my pictures and he said “I look conceited 🤣 jk.” He also said we should catch some drinks sometime. I said Fridays work best and he said he would be up for it.

He could be just friendly cause he genuinely is a nice guy!

This happened ALL so suddenly and not sure what’s going on. I need to be weary of this. To clarify I don’t mind keeping this platonic and professionally. I don’t intend to have a work romance

There’s a coworker at my job that I see once in a while but we work closely together (if that makes sense). I work in a hotel and he is the chef so I have frequent email interaction. I don’t see him often though unless we need to coordinate special dishes together.

He always acts awkward around me.

I asked for his number once because of easier communication. I have almost everyone’s in the department.

Last night he texted me asking how my event went. We were texting almost all night lol and added my socials. He also said we should catch some drinks sometime. Again, when we are face to face he’s super awkward …

Is this how coworkers flirt?