u/South_Appearance_370

Its easy to assume by telling her I planted it in her fresh subconsious so easily would've trigged her dreaming of what I told her. But the fact she gave great details on areas I had not mentioned. I only told her about the shops, the sleeping dorms & bathroom. She described so much more of what ive visited 100 times.

I speak to them, listen to them sing, they show what’s going on around them. There never seems to be many people watching or supporting their lives.

Tattoo being done by Balinese tattooist. There is a phrase I love while I’ve been travelling here but do not want to be disrespectful if not ok.

They met on dating app. 2 dates were platonic, no romance yet, and now chatting frequently getting to know each other more. Mentions he wanted to share more personal info about himself, that he has 2 kids to 2 woman. I see it as a red flag, this should be transparent as its a deal breaker for some woman without kids, it shouldve been on his dating app or mentioned when they hung out so she could decide to continue or not before getting more attached.
Others could see this as a Green Flag, that its good he kept his personal info private until knowing her better. Thoughts?

I accidently depostied double what I intended as it was slow to approve. I cannot withdraw it either. It was recommended on redit as Sunrise. But only Sunrise33.com exsists. Im a complete newbie and amatuer! Can soemone help me identify if its legit?

It was recommended on Reddit and this was the link, can't find any info on google. Sunrise does seem to be a legit site, but it always auto converts to Sunrise33.com Is there anyway I can know for sure if this is a real legit site or if Ive been scammed?

How to you deal with it? Still trying to wrap my head around what happened to me and what it all meant. Together nearly 4 years, stepmom to his kids, had a beautiful life, house, animals. Supported him through family court against her nearly the entire time. Ended up breaking up with him when he had a bad alcohol/drugs relapsed. Wanted him to go to detox before we continue. Within a week he was living with his ex playing happy families & they’re still together 8months later.
Feel like I was used, it wasn’t a short fling, we were building a life & together a long time. Was I the place holder as he couldn’t have her? Was I requiring him to grow & she wasn’t? Was it all fake. It felt genuine.. it felt like he really loved me & showed that, everyone around me thought so too.

We were together nearly 4 years. I played step mom to his 4 kids and supported him through the family court system the entire time against her. During the time he became clean of drugs/alcohol and always credited me for providing a supportive safe calm space for him to overcome these things. He would say he would be lost without me. He genuinely seemed to really love me & show that always. He would often talk of how horrible his life was with ex & how he could’ve never got clean with her n known how happy his life could’ve been. He would say if we weren’t together he could never be with her again.
When he relapsed & went dangerous fast , I had him moved out & said he needed to go to detox/rehab before we could continue. This backfired as she swooped in to ‘“look after him as I had l hurt him so bad by enforcing boundaries’ they were back together, living together playing happy families within a week of the police taking him away. 8months later they are still together. He did continue to stalk me, send me gifts even though he was living with her. I have never responded since.
I’m grateful the relationship ended or this could’ve happened to me years down the line.
I feel he was at a crossroads, keep growing with me, keep levelling up which means walking away from toxic past entirely or resume back into old ways that don’t require growth. He took the easier, more comfortable option.
What I can’t understand, was the whole relationship fake? Was I a place holder until she would take him back? It wasn’t 6months or a year, it was nearly 4 years with a house, animals and a life together.. what happened to me? I’m still confused.