I dread my appointments already

So I went to my first UC appointment and Im dreading going back.

Im 18f and just finished film college I realised I didnt like it tho and have been looking for a job for probably a year and a half. My dad said I should go on UC just for the money since I obviously need something but I feel the work side of it will be too much. I look for jobs constantly get rejected constantly and would like to know if anyone's actually gotten a job through them.

What makes my situation more difficult is Im in London but would like to work and live in Newcastle so Ive been looking for jobs there more than here. Can they get me a job up there? Because having a job in London although great would limit me being able to go for interviews in Newcastle. The whole building honestly made me feel so negative because I dont want to be on UC forever and looking for a job is daunting enough as well as I see my bf in Newcastle once a month which the visit will have to be shorter since the meetings are every week and the visits are important to me. I need the money and this is my last option really but idk it's just a lot.

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u/Spider-Girly — 9 hours ago

Looking for work

Hi Im 18f and I just got out of film college end of May in London (where I live) however I knew this wasn't for me and just wanted to finish it of.

Ive been looking for a job in Newcastle for probably a year and a half (ive lost count haha) as I would like to live there. My current location is probably a main reason I get rejected from the thousands of jobs I apply to but I wouldn't know cus no one ever gives feedback. Ive had 4 interview only one being in Newcastle (i even got through to the last stage and still got rejected despite my motivation to travel there just for it) Im nit picky with what I apply for really other than care jobs Im mainly looking at retail admin and warehouse. I also apply to apprenticeships when I can but for me to be able to live there I'd have to earn 20k so apprenticeships are limiting.

Idk Ive just been trying so long for eternity I ask everyone for help do whatever I can and I just wanted to see if anyone had advice or anything.

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u/Spider-Girly — 4 days ago

Concave cut Sapphire??

So I'd love to have the Concave cut as a engagement ring i think its so unique and beautiful hiwever I want a sapphire instead of a diamond as its my birthstone.

I was wondering if this can be done or if it's too fragile as obviously id be wearing it a lot i wouldnt want it to break.

u/Spider-Girly — 8 days ago

Educate me on the 4a pro pleasee

I currently have a Samsung and have changed between phones in the company for maybe 6 years my contract is almost out and I was thinking of getting the 4a pro.

I know nothing about tech and would love to know what makes this phone different and what's the same. Obviously it's cheap which is great but yeah I want to make sure I get my moneys worth.

Also what does the ai features affect and can I turn them off. Lastly if any what companies do a contract with this phone as I dont think I'll be able to pay it all in one go.

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u/Spider-Girly — 11 days ago
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Wagamama Interview Confusion

So I have a interview for Newcastle Wagamama front of house staff they explain the process is a 30 minute call then 2 hour trial shift. But the interview they asked me to confirm is a 2 hour in person interview at a random hotel. So it can't be either of the stages and I'm just a but confused.If anyone can help I'd appreciate it as I dont want to get to the location then they end up calling.

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u/Spider-Girly — 29 days ago
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Wagamama Interview Confusion

So I have a interview for Newcastle Wagamama front of house staff they explain the process is a 30 minute call then 2 hour trial shift. But the interview they asked me to confirm is a 2 hour in person interview at a random hotel. So it can't be either of the stages and I'm just a but confused.If anyone can help I'd appreciate it as I dont want to get to the location then they end up calling.

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u/Spider-Girly — 29 days ago
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How to become a phlebotomist

Im 18f getting out of film school and I realise early on I didnt like it I've tried applying for a bunch of stuff with no luck and I got into researching jobs I may like since I have no clue. I found phlebotomy and I think it looks like a good job I dint need to do a bunch of med school (i hate school) it's not to high pressure, it's high paying, im not scared of needles and blood so yeah. The problem is I have no idea how to get into it. Im guessing I could work as a receptionist in NHS and express my interest to get training or something but im obviously having no job luck.

So my main question is what courses are actually good I know I cant do one day ones I cant find any longer ones tho or ones I think are legit (for some help i live in London but wanna move to newcastle so courses in either areas would be good) any help id appreciate:)

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u/Spider-Girly — 2 months ago

Idk what to do about my boyfriend

Im 18f and been with my long distance boyfriend 19m for about a year and a half. We've gone through a lot with my depression and ive been trying to move out due to the main reason im depressed being my mum. We almost broke up cus he couldn't handle it basically a lots been happening for a while.

Im happy for us to grow together being young and everything but he takes my patience for granted and there's been so many scenarios where it felt like he didnt care about me like getting confused on my long periods of emotional change (im autistic so I dont get out moods quick) he gets defensive in arguments and literally cannot see other people's perspectives if he hasnt gone through it. He know ive lost so much trust and recently he told me he gets what ive been saying now he's sorry (which he always says although i said it means nothing) and hell change. It sounded different than the last conversations so I decided to wait and see if in whatever new situations he reacts differently. After 2 weeks he's back to being careless and all that and idk what to do ive been patient, yelled insults and more ways to somehow get to him and it never goes through. I'll he struggles with change and stuff (undiagnosed adhd) but its gotten to far he refuses to help himself or change no matter how much he says he will and idk what to do.

I wanna know if there's anyways I can actually get through to him. I was thinking of faking a breakup idk I feel like that maybe to harsh i just need any help.

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u/Spider-Girly — 2 months ago

Idk what to do about my boyfriend

Im 18f and been with my long distance boyfriend 19m for about a year and a half. We've gone through a lot with my depression and ive been trying to move out due to the main reason im depressed being my mum. We almost broke up cus he couldn't handle it basically a lots been happening for a while.

Im happy for us to grow together being young and everything but he takes my patience for granted and there's been so many scenarios where it felt like he didnt care about me like getting confused on my long periods of emotional change (im autistic so I dont get out moods quick) he gets defensive in arguments and literally cannot see other people's perspectives if he hasnt gone through it. He know ive lost so much trust and recently he told me he gets what ive been saying now he's sorry (which he always says although i said it means nothing) and hell change. It sounded different than the last conversations so I decided to wait and see if in whatever new situations he reacts differently. After 2 weeks he's back to being careless and all that and idk what to do ive been patient, yelled insults and more ways to somehow get to him and it never goes through. I'll he struggles with change and stuff (undiagnosed adhd) but its gotten to far he refuses to help himself or change no matter how much he says he will and idk what to do.

I wanna know if there's anyways I can actually get through to him. I was thinking of faking a breakup idk I feel like that maybe to harsh i just need any help.

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u/Spider-Girly — 2 months ago

Does anyone have any random ways they got a job?

Im 18f and ive been looking for a job for probably a year and a half now. I've tried changing my cv going in person everything I could think of and I only got 2 interviews.

I got a interview recently for Lner I was super excited and got through to the last stage but I got told I didnt get it im very upset because the main reason I need a job is to get away from my mum ive had terrible suicidal ideation and was just shocked when they said no since I thought it went well and I traveled for the second and last round from London to Newcastle (where I want to live) so I thought they'd be impressed.

So does anyone have any out of the box ways they got something??

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u/Spider-Girly — 2 months ago