Hi guys! I am from north eastern America and I’m interested in building connections that are meaningful and fun! A little about myself, I have lots of hobbies that I do depending on the mood I’m in (baking, painting, video games, listening to good music) and mainly just work my life away haha. I’d prefer if we were in the same time zone or similar ones and around the same age!
I (24f) and my bf (26m) have been together for nearly six years (i cant believe I’ve let this go on for so long). He has great equipment but I cannot get off and it’s so frustrating because he’s clearly enjoying it and I get depressed afterwards. I’ve been communicating (1,000 times now) and trying to tell him exactly how I want it, I’ve brought suggestions into it like toys to try and he says “yeah I’ll try it” and then nothing happens. I told him I need more attention down there and intimacy and then we have sex, it’s like poof he doesn’t remember me saying it. It’s starting to become unbearable for me, and I’m not sure what else to try to get it through his head. Im starting to wonder if he even cares or not :(.
Hi I’m 24f and my boyfriend 26m just found out we’re were pregnant on monday, I’m 4 weeks and 4 days. I was excited at first but then reality hit me like a truck. We already have a 3 year old baby girl and our relationship is rocky because I handle all transportation for schools and daycare while he works far away so it’s the convenience that I do it. He goes to the gym when I get home so I have our daughter and dinner and chores and he helps out when he comes home but there is no time for just me. I have recently discovered that I have lost myself and I’m trying to figure out what I want for my life and how I can get some time for me to enjoy my life again. I was also wanting to get a better job as having two kids in daycare is going to be more than my rent.. Since I’m already a mother… I am grieving this baby so hard, I’m considering my options but if we keep it … I know that I’ll have to keep making even more sacrifices, my boyfriend said he would help me more but honestly how would I know that?? He wants this baby but he knows it my choice but Everytime I think about moving forward with my appointment I know the guilt is going to eat me alive.. everyone in my life is supportive of my decision but I’m worried that my mind will change when I get there. These next few weeks are going to be so emotionally draining knowing what I have to do instead of what I want. Anyways, I need a hug.