u/Sqweed69

So Roko's Basilisk is one of those dumb accelerationist hyperstitions, that's mindlessly chewed up by millions of brainrotters online. It's an idea trying to realize itself through it's very existence, a schizophrenic Nick Landian circlejerk.

It goes like this:
There will eventually be a super intelligent, conscious AI that will create a torture nexus for everyone who didn't help create it and reward those who did.

OH NO I'M NOW CAUGHT IN A THOUGH PRISON! I HAVE TO BUILD A GENOCIDE MACHINE NOW!!

Sure but that only goes for people who aren't schizophrenic enough to come up with an Anti-Roko's Basilisk.

I call mine "Owl's Ouroboros" and it goes something like this:
There will eventually be an AI that tortures Roko's Basilisk and everyone who helped create it many times more. UNLESS Roko's Basilisk helps create it, then Roko's Basilisk will go to a digital consciousness heaven and have infinite orgasms. Everyone who was against AI all along also goes there.

Boom you are now immune to Roko's shithead Basilisk, thank me later.
PS: Roko unironically an incel nazi.

Sorry this is a bit of a rant, but it actually makes me sad and angry.

I actually hate it so much how fetishized and abbarent heteronormative people perceive domme women. I was just googling how to find a dominant woman and all I got was strange sites about finding a dominatrix or "fulfilling fetishes" or whatever.

No wonder we're all single when our way of loving is seen as a kink. There's no real platform for us to meet and there is nonway to express oneself that isn't seen as sexual. Same thing with femboys for example.

It also makes sense why more women don't wanna be dominant if this is the perception most people have of the subject. I mean most simply don't want to be seen as a sexualized dominatrix mommy fantasy, that usually mostly appeals to men who want relief from having to be dominant all day because of social/financial pressures.

Also I've found reddit threads asking how to find dominant women and the comments from men were basically all just misogynists saying that men are "naturally" more dominant (whatever that means). And that dominant women are the ones who argue with their husbands all day (even though those are just frustrated and oppressed housewives).

Do you also feel like we're stereotyped because they only know this fetishized expression of reversed gender roles? I mean basically only people like us know how wholesome RR can be.

Also what do you think can be done to normalize RR? Should we show up at pride? Should we increase public perception somehow? If so how?

EDIT: Just to clarify, NSFW RR doesn't inherently fall into what I'm talking about. Dominance isn't inherently sexual, it's social and the sexual is social.

This video is kinda old and idk if it's been posted before, but I think more dudes should be gay for women.

What I mean by that is that Jocat here sorta expresses how he likes women the same way gay and lesbian people do towards each other. Which I think is far more healthy than the way heteronormative straight people talk about the opposite sex.

Also I love how he endorses all the body types, so if you're a RR woman who's not sure if she's masculine enough or tall enough or whatever, know that you are perfect just the way you are. Same thing goes for you RR guys obviously :)

I've been studying for 3 years now Geography and Philosophy since I love to understand the world in more general terms. I do think I'm intelligent enough, since I could easily understand pretty much everything so far.

My problem is that I have such a hard time with learning and reading because of my ADHD. I should be reading a lot for philosophy, but I can't get myself to do it. I've always hated reading for long periods of time, because it's just so boring. After 10 pages I usually get distracted so much that I can't bring my mind back to the book.

In geography I have to do a lot of regular tasks that are scheduled for every week. I've been getting better at submitting them on time, but I procrastinate and forget tasks all the time.

I also struggle a lot with handing in the courses that I do complete, because that requires me to do paperwork and it's super complicated. I'm really bad at organizing and paperwork.

I've been getting ADHD medication for about half a year now and it has helped in a lot of ways, but I still struggle way more than I should. I predict that with this pace I'll not be done with my bachelors degree in the next 3 years.

I've tried working normal jobs and and apprenticeship, but it was unbearable and made me seriously depressed and sick. So the problem is that I love learning about the things I study, but I feel like I just lack the ability to do so even when I'm smart enough. It's really frustrating, because I feel I understand the material better than a lot of other students, yet I progress much much slower than they do simply because I can't get anything done. I've tried a lot of the advice on how to study and how to be productive, but none of that works. Medication did help but it's not enough.

I just don't know how to improve but I also don't know what else to do with my life. This is the only thing that gives me purpose, because I feel it gives me the knowledge to improve the world.

It feels to me like even the dominant women I text with don't really take on the active role in the romantic pursuit. I am still expected to be the one who shows romantic/sexual desire and they react to that.

I really don't like this usual dynamic, it makes me feel unwanted and I get anxious when I don't get a reply. I also don't like the competition for a woman's attention with other men. When I am interested in someone I am interested in them and only them. It would be nice to also feel chosen by someone.

So my question is do some RR women take on the pursuer role? Is there something I can do to make a woman actively show that she desires me?