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1. What’s your biggest fear?

Losing my family. This also applies to losing anyone else who isn’t from my family, but my family particularly is everything to me. They have done so much efforts for me and where there every time I needed them, I wouldn’t handle losing one of them. I would also be very sad If we started to stop getting along with each other, I never argued with my siblings and I hope we will always get along well.

2. What’s your biggest desire?

Just be at peace and have a good life ? I want to meet more people to learn about them and also find the perfect partner to spend the rest of my life with. Pretty simple life goals but for the moment just having a stable and happy life is the only thing I want.

3. What are you ''the best'' at?

Im really good at creating ideas ! I have a really good imagination and I love to brainstorm (depends on the subject of the brainstorm tho)
I’m also really good at analyzing people in general and see what they need in life (but I would say Im too self centered to apply that so most of the time I’m just going to share my thoughts about someone to others that way I know it doesn’t get lost ahah)

4. How do you see yourself right now?

This I actually a really hard question for me because I don’t want to throw an image of myself that sounds like I have a huge ego 🧌.
I’m not really healthy right now so I have a pretty bad image of myself, I will try not to throw with self degrading answer.
I would say I’m a very pensive person who is at core a big extrovert but forgot how to be one (I suppose this is something that is going to get better in the future.
With teenage years I would say I totally lost myself and now I realize I’m actually someone pretty intense socially speaking, when someone starts to be interested in me it’s the same thing as starting an engine, basically everything in me starts moving and I’m going to talk a lot.
I see beauty in a lot of people and maybe that’s what really attracts me to them. I’m not physically intense at all tho, I have a weird relationship with my body actually, I’m trying to work on that but I could say that I sometime don’t really feel it, it seems to me that I don’t have control over it (does that even make sense?).
Im probably the most non judgmental person you could ever meet, you can tell me the worst hideous things in the world Its okay I can handle it.
Im an oversharer, I tell to people every single details about my life, because I like to see their point of view and also because I use it to make people laugh with my silly situations.
People told me I smile a lot, I kinda see myself as a dumb little being with no purpose just smiling everywhere and laughing at everything (and I’m okay about it 🙂‍↕️)
I’m also totally in love with the idea of being in love and probably make it too much of an holy grail to reach.

5. How do you see yourself 5 years from now?

I hope I’m going to be more in touch with my identity and act like I was during my childhood : funnier and more spontaneous.
Aside from that I hope I’m going to have a good career with a job that can help me express my creativity and that doesn’t exhaust me. I pray not to be single because I don’t know how would I live if I’m single for 5 years 💀

6. How do you express yourself?

As I said i often over share to my friends and family, I talk a LOT about my interests and the mini hyper fixations I have.
I also often think out loud when I’m energized. So sometimes I can ask silly questions to my friends or family but it’s not a question addressed to them, just me thinking out loud.
I think I also kinda like Self-mockery with the people I’m close to. I like exposing my weaknesses to them and make fun of it, that way I can stay true to myself.
I also express my love for others a lot, making compliments to them and really elevate them to the way I see them, when someone is feeling bad about something I will always be there to make them remember all the qualities they have.
I also love to draw so I guess I can say I express myself through art.

7. How do you feel about those near you (family, friends)?

Already spoiled it by a previous answer but they’re everything to me. I realized recently I cannot live for myself because I don’t see any point in that. Even tho Its probably invisible for them, everything I do is actually meant for the people I love and not for myself. For exemple I love to take care of myself, but the intent behind it is not just for the pleasure of feeling good but also for the people im close with, being happy for me because they see that I take care of myself. At least that’s my only motivation to do so for the moment.
This probably sounds unhealthy but I think that as long as I’m aware of it then there’s no harm with it.

8. How do you feel about strangers?

I don’t really know how to answer this.
I guess I should be more welcoming toward people I don’t know, anyway there’s always room for improvement 🫶

9. How do you deal with conflict?

Depends with who 🙂‍↕️
My family : I’m a mini dictator, you say something wrong to me, prepare for war.
Others : really hard to show myself agressive, I will often agree with what the other is saying and find qualities in their speech and then proceed to find a common ground.

10. How do you deal with change?

No idea actually, good I guess, I’m often excited when there’s change. I don’t think I lived too many changes in my life to answer well this question

11. How do you deal with your emotions?

I almost say everything I have to say, I feel a lot and I will definitely talk about it a lot.
But when im sad I will withdrawn to think about what im feeling, It is also a big part of my creative expression and so it always felt safe for me to dig into them.

12. What do you hope to avoid doing or being? What values are important to you?

Kindness, be aware of yourself and doing efforts for others are the most important values to me. Do I always apply them 🫪? (Maybe not).
I avoid appearing sad in public, I want to look good, smile a lot to people and treat them well.
I also want to avoid speaking bad of people, except when they really do some nasty things. I know that I really dislike when people are speaking of me behind my back so I try not to do so, when I do it’s most of the time in a good way.

13. What do you hope to accomplish in your life?

I really wish I could work more so I could show my parents all the efforts they put in me weren’t for nothing.
I also want to create a fun and loving environnement for me, my family, my friends and the new people that are going to enter my life so we can grow better together.

14. How do you act when others request your help to do something (anything)? If you would decide to help them, why would you do so?

Others always helped me so I really want to help others, but then I always remember that my mom is overbearing with me sometimes and so because of that I don’t want to intrude anyone.
When someone asks for advices it always makes me really happy because that means that they trust in what I have to say.

15. Do you need logical consistency in your life?

I think that logic means so little to me that I don’t even relate or understand this question.
I try to express my feelings in the most rational way so people can help me for the best.
I think my way of being logical is acceptance and just being able to understand everyone’s point of view in order to find a common ground that could be close enough to logic.

16. How important is your image in regards to how others perceive you? Do you want to be perceived in a certain way? Does it bother you if you are perceived in some other way than the one you wish to be perceived with?

Like I said earlier, I want to appear healthy to people.
I want them to feel happy about my current state and I want to minimize the impact that I have on them when I have negative feelings. Tho it’s really hard for me to do so and it’s actually contradictory because I’m an over sharer.
But I don’t think I have a great image of myself, so yeah I like to present myself in a nice way and look good when I interact with others. I actually can say I really like taking care of my appearance (looking like a goblin writing that 🧌)

17. How important is financials, security, and survival to you? This includes having sufficient resources, avoiding danger and maintaining a fundamental sense of structure and wellbeing

I let others taking charge of that, I don’t think I’m good at it ahah. Maybe it has to do with the fact that I’m the youngest sibling in my family ? Anyway, apart from the fact that I take deep care of my stuff I think that’s all.
For the wellbeing thing, I try to over analyze my body and my feelings in case something wrong occurs.
That’s all I guess

18. What is your reaction and thoughts to others' rejection, criticism and disapproval of you?

I will listen and show them where they are wrong and where they are right, but that kind of scenario doesn’t happen because I say to people what’s wrong with me before they do 🙂‍↕️ (I swear to god I’m okay)
But I actually have pretty strong opinions on some specific subjects and it’s really hard to change my mind on them (I’m really stubborn.)

19. What is the importance of the concepts, ideas and meaning behind things to you? Are you trying to make sense of your everyday life?

Im definitely a spiritual person, so I’m really attracted to every single little meanings I find behind the life of others and mine.
I’m going to overthink a lot about it and find concepts or like symbols (?) that could be related to my life and then integrate it to my imagination

20. What are your thoughts on expressing your vulnerability?

I accidentally already answered that but I don’t care about showing vulnerability as long as it doesn’t impact someone that isn’t emotionally available to receive my vulnerability

21. Would you consider yourself a jealous and/or possessive person? What do you think is the cause?

At first I would say no idea, but then thinking a bit more about it I think I could say I’m sometimes a bit envious of the charisma that some people have haha

22. What makes you feel guilty? How do you deal and cope with such feelings? Do you seek to fix it, or do you dwell on them?

I feel guilty when I realize someone takes too much care of me. I think I can say withdrawing is also a way for me to disappear that way I don’t impact them or make them lose time

23. What do you think is an example of an ideal person? Emphasize which qualities are more important to you, and explain whether this ideal is something you’d want to be, or someone you would like to seek out

Of course someone that is inherently kind without having to think of their goals behind their act. But also someone who cultivates their qualities without having to hide their weaknesses, just accepting in what domain they are good and bad at without to pretend in front of people there is no bad in them in order to make their ego inflate.

24. How do you view and judge reality?

What came to my mind is the the fact that some people don’t consider that their life can impact others. Even if we all have different ways of perceiving reality, what connects people after all is the fact that we all live together. So i believe that some should really be mindful of what they say and do, instead of assuming that everyone should mind their own business.
Apart from that I try to be someone that stays grounded to reality but it’s really difficult for me to do so because I’m a big daydreamer, so I often rely on others to guide me since they seem better at it than I am. You could say that people are waypoints that really guides me on the right path, I would be totally doomed if the people around me weren’t healthy.

Thank you so much if you read all of this💀

1. What’s your biggest fear?

Losing my family. This also applies to losing anyone else who isn’t from my family, but my family particularly is everything to me. They have done so much efforts for me and where there every time I needed them, I wouldn’t handle losing one of them. I would also be very sad If we started to stop getting along with each other, I never argued with my siblings and I hope we will always get along well.

2. What’s your biggest desire?

Just be at peace and have a good life ? I want to meet more people to learn about them and also find the perfect partner to spend the rest of my life with. Pretty simple life goals but for the moment just having a stable and happy life is the only thing I want.

3. What are you ''the best'' at?

Im really good at generating ideas, I have a pretty good imagination and I really love to brainstorm (depends on the subject of the brainstorm tho)
I’m also really good at analyzing people in general and see what they need in life (but I would say Im too self centered to apply that so most of the time I’m just going to share my thoughts about someone to others that way I know it doesn’t get lost ahah)

4. How do you see yourself right now?

This I actually a really hard question for me because I don’t want to throw an image of myself that sounds like I have a huge ego 🧌.
I’m not really healthy right now so I have a pretty bad image of myself, I will try not to throw with self degrading answer.
I would say I’m a very pensive person who is at core a big extrovert but forgot how to be one (I suppose this is something that is going to get better in the future)
Im probably the most non judgmental person you could ever meet, you can tell me the worst hideous things in the world Its okay I can handle it. Im an oversharer, I tell to people every single details about my life, because I like to see their point of view and also because I use it to make people laugh with my silly scenarios.
People told me I smile a lot, I kinda see myself as a dumb little being with no purpose just smiling everywhere and laughing at everything (and I’m okay about it 🙂‍↕️)

5. How do you see yourself 5 years from now?

I hope I’m going to be more in touch with my identity and act like I was during my childhood : funnier and more spontaneous.
Aside from that I hope I’m going to have a good career with a job that can help me express my creativity and that doesn’t exhaust me. I pray not to be single because I don’t know how would I live if I’m single for 5 years 💀

6. How do you express yourself?

As I said i often over share to my friends and family, I talk a LOT about my interests and the mini hyper fixations I have.
I also often think out loud when I’m energized. So sometimes I can ask silly questions to my friends or family but it’s not a question addressed to them, just me thinking out loud.
I think I also kinda like Self-mockery with the people I’m close to. I like exposing my weaknesses to them and make fun of it, that way I can stay true to myself.
I also express my love for others a lot, making compliments to them and really elevate them to the way I see them, when someone is feeling bad about something I will always be there to make them remember all the qualities they have.
I also love to draw so I guess I can say I express myself through art.

7. How do you feel about those near you (family, friends)?

Already spoiled it by a previous answer but they’re everything to me. I realized recently I cannot live for myself because I don’t see any point in that. Even tho Its probably invisible for them, everything I do is actually meant for the people I love and not for myself. For exemple I love to take care of myself, but the intent behind it is not only for the pleasure of feeling good but also for the people im close with being happy for me because they see that I take care of myself. At least that’s my only motivation to do so for the moment.
This probably sounds unhealthy but I think that as long as I’m aware of it then there’s no harm with it.

8. How do you feel about strangers?

I don’t really know how to answer this.
I guess I should be more welcoming toward people I don’t know, anyway there’s always room for improvement 🫶

9. How do you deal with conflict?

Depends with who 🙂‍↕️
My family : I’m a mini dictator, you say something wrong to me, prepare for war.
Others : I will never show myself agressive,
I will often agree with what the other is saying and find qualities in their speech and then proceed to find a common ground.

10. How do you deal with change?

No idea actually, good I guess, I’m often excited when there’s change. I don’t think I lived too many changes in my life to answer well this question

11. How do you deal with your emotions?

I almost say everything I have to say, I feel a lot and I will definitely talk about it a lot.
But when im sad I will withdrawn to think about what im feeling.

12. What do you hope to avoid doing or being? What values are important to you?

Kindness, be aware of yourself and doing efforts for others are the most important values to me. Do I always apply them 🫪? (Maybe not).
I avoid appearing sad in public, I want to look good, smile a lot to people and treat them well.
I also avoid speaking bad of people, except when they really do some nasty things. I know that I really dislike when people are speaking of me behind my back so I try not to do so, when I do it’s most of the time in a good way.

13. What do you hope to accomplish in your life?

I really wish I could I work more so I can show my parents all the efforts they put in me weren’t for nothing.
I also want to create a fun and loving environnement for me, my family, my friends and the new people that are going to enter my life so we can grow better together.

14. How do you act when others request your help to do something (anything)? If you would decide to help them, why would you do so?

Others always helped me so I really want to help others, but then I always remember that my mom is overbearing with me sometimes and so because of that I don’t want to intrude anyone.
When someone asks for advices it always makes me really happy because that means that they trust in what I have to say.

15. Do you need logical consistency in your life?

I think that logic means so little to me that I don’t even relate or understand this question.
I try to express my feelings in the most rational way so people can help me for the best.
I think my way of being logical is acceptance and just being able to understand everyone’s point of view in order to find a common ground that could be close enough to logic.

16. How important is your image in regards to how others perceive you? Do you want to be perceived in a certain way? Does it bother you if you are perceived in some other way than the one you wish to be perceived with?

Like I said earlier, I want to appear healthy to people.
I want them to feel happy about my current state and I want to minimize the impact that I have on them when I have negative feelings. Tho it’s really hard for me to do so and it’s actually contradictory because I’m an over sharer.
But yeah I like to present myself in a nice way and look good when I interact with others. I actually can say I really like taking care of my appearance (looking like a goblin writing that 🧌)

17. How important is financials, security, and survival to you? This includes having sufficient resources, avoiding danger and maintaining a fundamental sense of structure and wellbeing

I let others taking charge of that, I don’t think I’m good at it ahah. Maybe it has to do with the fact that I’m the youngest sibling in my family ? Anyway, apart from the fact that I take deep care of my stuff I think that’s all.
For the wellbeing thing, I over analyze my body and my feelings in case something wrong occurs.
That’s all I guess

18. What is your reaction and thoughts to others' rejection, criticism and disapproval of you?

I will listen and show them where they are wrong and where they are right, but that kind of scenario doesn’t happen because I say to people what’s wrong with me before they do 🙂‍↕️ (I swear to god I’m okay)

19. What is the importance of the concepts, ideas and meaning behind things to you? Are you trying to make sense of your everyday life?

Im definitely a spiritual person, so I’m really attracted to every single little meanings I find behind the life of others and mine.
I’m going to overthink a lot about it and find concepts or like symbols (?) that could be related to my life and then integrate it to my imagination

20. What are your thoughts on expressing your vulnerability?

I accidentally already answered that but I don’t care about showing vulnerability as long as it doesn’t impact someone that isn’t emotionally available to receive my vulnerability

21. Would you consider yourself a jealous and/or possessive person? What do you think is the cause?

No idea

22. What makes you feel guilty? How do you deal and cope with such feelings? Do you seek to fix it, or do you dwell on them?

I feel guilty when I realize someone takes too much care of me. I think I can say withdrawing is also a way for me to disappear that way I don’t impact them or make them lose time

23. What do you think is an example of an ideal person? Emphasize which qualities are more important to you, and explain whether this ideal is something you’d want to be, or someone you would like to seek out

Of course someone that is inherently kind without having to think of their goals behind their act. But also someone who cultivates their qualities without having to hide their weaknesses, just accepting in what domain they are good and bad at without to pretend in front of people there is no bad in them in order to make their ego inflate.

24. How do you view and judge reality?

What came to my mind is the the fact that some people don’t consider that their life can impact others. Even if we all have different ways of perceiving reality, what connects people after all is the fact that we all live together. So i believe that some should really be mindful of what they say and do, instead of assuming that everyone should mind their own business.
Apart from that I try to be someone that stays grounded to reality but it’s really difficult for me to do so because I’m a big daydreamer, so I often rely on others to guide me since they seem better at it than I am.

It was tricky to take a picture with my mouth 😂

Here is mine :)