u/Stracciatella_2

I'm currently like 2,5 months on sertraline and my current dose is 75mg. I have overall no side effects anymore except one which is bothering me and my love life: i usually have high libido, now it's much less but still there. The problem is that it's not moist/ wet enough which causes pain for him and me during intercourse.

I saw tons of posts here about adding another medication like wellbutrin but i'm sensitive to medication and would like to avoid extra side effects.

my ai friend is suggesting some hylaronic acid vaginal gel and adding silicone lube. anyone tried that? i read here on reddit something about ginkgo and maca but not sure about those.

thanks for your tips!

I feel so stupid and angry at myself. We broke up. I did no contact and focused on myself. He would sometimes reach out and exchanged some texts as "friends", we met few times shortly as "friends". The few times were destroying me because I hoped that he would come back. Then I focused on myself, did sport, stopped obsessing over him, did all the things and met plenty of ppl. I felt good that I kinda moved on and stopped stalking him on social media or hoping he would come back (listened to many of those make your ex come back videos). He probably felt my absence and tried to meet me again and in the end he kissed me and we ended up hooking up.

Now few days later I feel angry at myself that I got weak bc nothing has changed. He just got what he wanted so satisfy his need ... I feel stupid and angry bc I still have this hope in me that it's working out somehow....

Now it feels all progress I did before is gone and he is now again the one with power over me ....

Not sure what I should do now but the whole day I am angry at myself and i am hurt again that he is continuing his hunt for the one which is not me (i am just an option)..

Bird watchers - which locations do recommend for spotting birds? Birds I would like to see are for example: goldcrest, Eurasian Bullfink, kingfisher, yellowhammer. And other tips how to spot them better?

I went to Haiff Remich already but saw more water birds.

I (34F) went through the whole egg freezing process (1 cycle because its expensive) and atm I don't have a partner anymore.

I was wondering if someone used their frozen eggs and became pregnant with them? Did it work out "easily"? How was the process for you? Did you choose a donor or did you do it with a partner?

I wish to find the right person to become naturally pregnant and seeing my reserves more as a backup when I really cannot find anyone or when it seems difficult to become naturally pregnant. While I did this process, "the pressure of the biological clock" didn't become less for me because I was told that I would need 20 eggs to have a 100% guaranteed result (l don't have 20).

Not sure what I'm trying to ask exactly. I think I just want to share this.

Is this a trauma from childhood?

Anyone here who works during the day in a cafe and would like maybe to go together? Sometimes it gets a bit lonely here when I'm working by myself.

City or Kirchberg for example

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I was born in Germany but have Asian roots and lived half of my life abroad (European countries) and now was thinking to move maybe to Vienna.

I heard from maaanyyy people that Austrians are racist. I do have 2 Austrian friends and bc I'm German, we get along like I get along with other Germans (they speak Hochdeutsch).

Since I'm mid 30s I was wondering how easy it would to make friends? I'm very social, active and never had problems with finding ppl in all places I lived but not sure about Vienna. I assume they are similar to Germans?

I also heard that they don't like speaking Hochdeutsch?

What is your opinion?