u/StrongSnowsuit014

My bfs uncle found my TikTok which had a post about me being bisexual. Me and my bf have been together for 5 1/2 months and none of his family really believes that we will stay together. I have never met this uncle but it’s his dad’s brother. His uncle found my post, shared with my bfs grandma, who shared it with his dad. His family is relatively conservative and has never cared much about me before. Apparently his grandma doesn’t care that much but besides that I have no clue how anyone else is reacting. I blocked his uncle on TikTok bc I think that it’s weird for him to go on my profile when he’s never met me and I’m under 18 and sharing my post with the family bc I don’t fit their mold. Now my boyfriend is saying we aren’t going to be calling much and hanging out for a while bc he is worried that his dad might really disliked me since he wasn’t that fond of me before. His mom knew the whole time I was bi and she doesn’t care, she’s a very sweet lady and I think she somewhat likes me. But my bf is worried that his dad won’t allow me at my bfs house anymore. My bf doesn’t like being at my house either bc of how loud my household is which is fair, I have a lot of dogs. I just don’t know what to do atp, I’m nice to his family, I try to make conversation and be nice. It’s really hurtful how they don’t like me that much and don’t care abt me and my bfs relationship bc we’re younger. My bf wonders sometimes if we should break up to “save me the pain”. He doesn’t want to end things obviously but he doesn’t know what else to do rn. I have considered reaching out to his parents but idk if I feel safe around them bc idk if they’ll treat me poorly. Any advice is welcome, everything has just been weird since this all happened last week and idk if I’ll have to let him go or not. I don’t want to bc I care a lot about him and he’s my best friend but idk what I can do to fix this.