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Need advice regarding sadhana and worship

I've been going through a difficult period for quite a few years now and recently things have become much worse.

I've dealt with family problems, health issues and a lot of conflict in my life. On top of that, there are people in my life now who genuinely dislike me and have talked about physically harming me. Some friends have stepped in and stopped situations from escalating, but it feels like things keep getting worse with time.

Throughout my life I've tried to live according to dharmic values as best as I could. I've stood up for people when they were being mistreated, helped friends through difficult situations and tried to be loyal and fair to the people around me.

Unfortunately, it often feels like my kindness and willingness to help others have become weaknesses that people take advantage of. Sometimes it genuinely feels like the more I help people, the more trouble comes back to me.

Despite everything, I don't want revenge or to become bitter. I don't want to lose the values I've tried to live by.

What I do want is protection, courage, inner strength and the ability to continue walking my path without fear. And if there are people acting against me unjustly or trying to harm me, I pray that their harmful intentions and actions fail before they ever reach me.

For those experienced in Sanatana Dharma, which deity would you recommend worshipping or doing sadhana for in a situation like this?

Whatever you recommend please try to make it fast acting as im tired of physically and mentally defending myself since few years, im u18 so its not something easy.

Still I have the strength and courage to keep fighting.

I've heard people mention Narasimha, Kala Bhairava, Hanuman and others in the context of protection and overcoming hostile circumstances.

Which deity would you recommend and what would be a suitable beginner-friendly sadhana or daily practice?

Thank you.

Need advice regarding sadhana and worship

I've been going through a difficult period for quite a few years now and recently things have become much worse.

I've dealt with family problems, health issues and a lot of conflict in my life. On top of that, there are people in my life now who genuinely dislike me and have talked about physically harming me. Some friends have stepped in and stopped situations from escalating, but it feels like things keep getting worse with time.

Throughout my life I've tried to live according to dharmic values as best as I could. I've stood up for people when they were being mistreated, helped friends through difficult situations and tried to be loyal and fair to the people around me.

Unfortunately, it often feels like my kindness and willingness to help others have become weaknesses that people take advantage of. Sometimes it genuinely feels like the more I help people, the more trouble comes back to me.

Despite everything, I don't want revenge or to become bitter. I don't want to lose the values I've tried to live by.

What I do want is protection, courage, inner strength and the ability to continue walking my path without fear. And if there are people acting against me unjustly or trying to harm me, I pray that their harmful intentions and actions fail before they ever reach me.

For those experienced in Sanatana Dharma, which deity would you recommend worshipping or doing sadhana for in a situation like this?

Whatever you recommend please try to make it fast acting as im tired of physically and mentally defending myself since few years, im u18 so its not something easy.

Still I have the strength and courage to keep fighting.

I've heard people mention Narasimha, Kala Bhairava, Hanuman and others in the context of protection and overcoming hostile circumstances.

Which deity would you recommend and what would be a suitable beginner-friendly sadhana or daily practice?

Thank you.

Need advice regarding sadhana and worship

I've been going through a difficult period for quite a few years now and recently things have become much worse.

I've dealt with family problems, health issues and a lot of conflict in my life. On top of that, there are people in my life now who genuinely dislike me and have talked about physically harming me. Some friends have stepped in and stopped situations from escalating, but it feels like things keep getting worse with time.

Throughout my life I've tried to live according to dharmic values as best as I could. I've stood up for people when they were being mistreated, helped friends through difficult situations and tried to be loyal and fair to the people around me.

Unfortunately, it often feels like my kindness and willingness to help others have become weaknesses that people take advantage of. Sometimes it genuinely feels like the more I help people, the more trouble comes back to me.

Despite everything, I don't want revenge or to become bitter. I don't want to lose the values I've tried to live by.

What I do want is protection, courage, inner strength and the ability to continue walking my path without fear. And if there are people acting against me unjustly or trying to harm me, I pray that their harmful intentions and actions fail before they ever reach me.

For those experienced in Sanatana Dharma, which deity would you recommend worshipping or doing sadhana for in a situation like this?

Whatever you recommend please try to make it fast acting as im tired of physically and mentally defending myself since few years, im u18 so its not something easy.

Still I have the strength and courage to keep fighting.

I've heard people mention Narasimha, Kala Bhairava, Hanuman and others in the context of protection and overcoming hostile circumstances.

Which deity would you recommend and what would be a suitable beginner-friendly sadhana or daily practice?

Thank you.

I've been going through a difficult period for quite a few years now and recently things have become much worse.

I've dealt with family problems, health issues and a lot of conflict in my life. On top of that, there are people in my life now who genuinely dislike me and have talked about physically harming me. Some friends have stepped in and stopped situations from escalating, but it feels like things keep getting worse with time.

Throughout my life I've tried to live according to dharmic values as best as I could. I've stood up for people when they were being mistreated, helped friends through difficult situations and tried to be loyal and fair to the people around me.

Unfortunately, it often feels like my kindness and willingness to help others have become weaknesses that people take advantage of. Sometimes it genuinely feels like the more I help people, the more trouble comes back to me.

Despite everything, I don't want revenge or to become bitter. I don't want to lose the values I've tried to live by.

What I do want is protection, courage, inner strength and the ability to continue walking my path without fear. And if there are people acting against me unjustly or trying to harm me, I pray that their harmful intentions and actions fail before they ever reach me.

For those experienced in Sanatana Dharma, which deity would you recommend worshipping or doing sadhana for in a situation like this?

Whatever you recommend please try to make it fast acting as im tired of physically and mentally defending myself since few years, im u18 so its not something easy.

Still I have the strength and courage to keep fighting.

I've heard people mention Narasimha, Kala Bhairava, Hanuman and others in the context of protection and overcoming hostile circumstances.

Which deity would you recommend and what would be a suitable beginner-friendly sadhana or daily practice?

Thank you.

How do yall decant into smaller perfumes from the full perfume bottles, I have sene some products hut they have bad reviews, and if you fill one of those decants with one perfume how do we clean it?

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Hey everyone, we’re Élan, a student-led organization for teens aged 15–18. We started this because most teen communities either become inactive or unsafe after a while, and we wanted to build something better. We have a strict code of conduct, active moderation, and we genuinely care about creating a safe and welcoming space where teens can make friends, attend events, and be part of a good community.

We are all aged below 18

Its taking place in hydwrabad

We’re now hosting what is going to be one of India’s first teen prom nights, and we’re putting a lot of effort into making it properly organized, safe, and memorable for everyone attending. Everything is planned carefully with safety as a priority. We’re still growing, so it would genuinely mean a lot if you guys showed some support and checked us out :)

Im Nethan, The Head Of Operations

Here's the id:

https://www.instagram.com/elan.socials?igsh=MWdudXM5eWJ5cGpocQ==

Hey everyone, we’re Élan, a student-led organization for teens aged 15–18. We started this because most teen communities either become inactive or unsafe after a while, and we wanted to build something better. We have a strict code of conduct, active moderation, and we genuinely care about creating a safe and welcoming space where teens can make friends, attend events, and be part of a good community.

We are all aged below 18

And yes its in hyderabad

We’re now hosting what is going to be one of India’s first teen prom nights, and we’re putting a lot of effort into making it properly organized, safe, and memorable for everyone attending. Everything is planned carefully with safety as a priority. We’re still growing, so it would genuinely mean a lot if you guys showed some support and checked us out :)

Im Nethan, The Head Of Operations

Here's the id:

https://www.instagram.com/elan.socials?igsh=MWdudXM5eWJ5cGpocQ==

Ngl im just a lonely teen who has been fighting many things constantly since birth, even my family isnt much of a family to me maybe im just obliged to be there, no proper friends and not really any support socially or from god.

I have been fighting everything myself since childhood and characters like spider man, kratos and david goggins kept me pushing.

But hajime no ippo felt like family, the amount of times I cried out of pure emotion was wild.

(FYI I dont feel any emotions or dont get affected by things anymore after few events)

Ippo, takamura, sagi,mr kamagowa, aoki, kimura,kumi, umezewa, miyata, mashiba,sendo,itagaki,Ms hiroko makunochi, wanpo, volk, mr fuji,barf michi,mr nekota, hama

They are all my family

They make me feel home and emotions

Ippo is someone I will look upto to forever and get will shape me.

I want to know what it is to be strong..

I need to post smth really imp in another sub, can yall please upvote if you dont mind.

I just need 50 karma to post there so even 20 upvotes are enough.

Thank youuu :))

Can yall please lowk upvote, I need karma to post about something imp in a similar sub

Please dont mind me, Im on the process of getting my acc unbanned will help yall in return asw

Please help

Need some genuine helpful and advice

I grew up in a family where nobody really got along with each other. My parents never had a healthy relationship, and even the people around them were full of betrayal and resentment. My father was hardworking and righteous in his own way, but the house was still emotionally unstable. My mother struggled a lot too, and over time we all just became strangers living together instead of an actual family.

As a kid, I got bullied badly and beaten at home. I grew up lonely and scared most of the time. I didn’t really have proper friends until 7th grade, and when I finally started becoming popular in 8th and 9th grade, it felt like life was finally turning around for me.

I got into my first relationship and ended it because of how she behaved, but it still hurt. Then came the girl I had liked since 5th grade. She was my real first love. Life somehow brought her back into my city and we dated for two years. I genuinely loved her. But in the end she got close to my own friends, things became messy, my character got assassinated, and I lost both her and most of the people around me at the same time.

While all this was happening, I battled health issues. I was bedridden, exhausted, and my school even thought I was faking parts of it. Imagine trying to survive physically while your personal life and family life are both collapsing around you.

Eventually I moved back(nri) and things finally started looking up. I became successful in school, became president of a debating club, made good friends, got recognition, and started rebuilding confidence. For once, I felt like maybe God was finally giving me a chance to breathe.

Then life repeated itself again. One of the people I trusted turned out to be manipulative and dangerous. I distanced myself, and after that my reputation got damaged again and people slowly turned against me. Even the girl I helped and took side on went back to the same people.

After years of all this, something in me changed. I became emotionally numb. My stress levels got so high that I stopped feeling time properly. Days blurred together. My sleep got ruined, my appetite became weird, my body changed, and I started feeling exhausted all the time. It felt like life kept taking things away every time I tried to rebuild.

The pattern is nothing ever works out to me, everytime I go to a temple or god before I used to get strength, but now it turns the situation into something far worse

Everyone keeps hating me though I dont do anything and I am just a kind nice person.

The toxic relationship with my family keeps getting worse it's like they dont love me and they 3 are one and Im just a stranger obliged to stay with them.

I really dont know whats going on anymore because recently was the point where im starting to think I should give up.

Something can go wrong once but not constantly in a pattern for all the years.

In addition my parents health is also bad and we have constant fights as a family

Basically with no exaggeration the worst you can imagine.

Idk what to do anymore I failed in suicide 3 years ago aswell.

I suspect its BM or smth because my dads brother and him have been having bad fights and my aunts family comes from an area where BM is known to be performed.

If anyone can take some time out to help me I would be grateful.

Please help

Need some genuine helpful and advice

I grew up in a family where nobody really got along with each other. My parents never had a healthy relationship, and even the people around them were full of betrayal and resentment. My father was hardworking and righteous in his own way, but the house was still emotionally unstable. My mother struggled a lot too, and over time we all just became strangers living together instead of an actual family.

As a kid, I got bullied badly and beaten at home. I grew up lonely and scared most of the time. I didn’t really have proper friends until 7th grade, and when I finally started becoming popular in 8th and 9th grade, it felt like life was finally turning around for me.

I got into my first relationship and ended it because of how she behaved, but it still hurt. Then came the girl I had liked since 5th grade. She was my real first love. Life somehow brought her back into my city and we dated for two years. I genuinely loved her. But in the end she got close to my own friends, things became messy, my character got assassinated, and I lost both her and most of the people around me at the same time.

While all this was happening, I battled health issues. I was bedridden, exhausted, and my school even thought I was faking parts of it. Imagine trying to survive physically while your personal life and family life are both collapsing around you.

Eventually I moved back(nri) and things finally started looking up. I became successful in school, became president of a debating club, made good friends, got recognition, and started rebuilding confidence. For once, I felt like maybe God was finally giving me a chance to breathe.

Then life repeated itself again. One of the people I trusted turned out to be manipulative and dangerous. I distanced myself, and after that my reputation got damaged again and people slowly turned against me. Even the girl I helped and took side on went back to the same people.

After years of all this, something in me changed. I became emotionally numb. My stress levels got so high that I stopped feeling time properly. Days blurred together. My sleep got ruined, my appetite became weird, my body changed, and I started feeling exhausted all the time. It felt like life kept taking things away every time I tried to rebuild.

The pattern is nothing ever works out to me, everytime I go to a temple or god before I used to get strength, but now it turns the situation into something far worse

Everyone keeps hating me though I dont do anything and I am just a kind nice person.

The toxic relationship with my family keeps getting worse it's like they dont love me and they 3 are one and Im just a stranger obliged to stay with them.

I really dont know whats going on anymore because recently was the point where im starting to think I should give up.

Something can go wrong once but not constantly in a pattern for all the years.

In addition my parents health is also bad and we have constant fights as a family

Basically with no exaggeration the worst you can imagine.

Idk what to do anymore I failed in suicide 3 years ago aswell.

I suspect its BM or smth because my dads brother and him have been having bad fights and my aunts family comes from an area where BM is known to be performed.

If anyone can take some time out to help me I would be grateful.

Need some genuine helpful and advice

I grew up in a family where nobody really got along with each other. My parents never had a healthy relationship, and even the people around them were full of betrayal and resentment. My father was hardworking and righteous in his own way, but the house was still emotionally unstable. My mother struggled a lot too, and over time we all just became strangers living together instead of an actual family.

As a kid, I got bullied badly and beaten at home. I grew up lonely and scared most of the time. I didn’t really have proper friends until 7th grade, and when I finally started becoming popular in 8th and 9th grade, it felt like life was finally turning around for me.

I got into my first relationship and ended it because of how she behaved, but it still hurt. Then came the girl I had liked since 5th grade. She was my real first love. Life somehow brought her back into my city and we dated for two years. I genuinely loved her. But in the end she got close to my own friends, things became messy, my character got assassinated, and I lost both her and most of the people around me at the same time.

While all this was happening, I battled health issues. I was bedridden, exhausted, and my school even thought I was faking parts of it. Imagine trying to survive physically while your personal life and family life are both collapsing around you.

Eventually I moved back(nri) and things finally started looking up. I became successful in school, became president of a debating club, made good friends, got recognition, and started rebuilding confidence. For once, I felt like maybe God was finally giving me a chance to breathe.

Then life repeated itself again. One of the people I trusted turned out to be manipulative and dangerous. I distanced myself, and after that my reputation got damaged again and people slowly turned against me. Even the girl I helped and took side on went back to the same people.

After years of all this, something in me changed. I became emotionally numb. My stress levels got so high that I stopped feeling time properly. Days blurred together. My sleep got ruined, my appetite became weird, my body changed, and I started feeling exhausted all the time. It felt like life kept taking things away every time I tried to rebuild.

The pattern is nothing ever works out to me, everytime I go to a temple or god before I used to get strength, but now it turns the situation into something far worse

Everyone keeps hating me though I dont do anything and I am just a kind nice person.

The toxic relationship with my family keeps getting worse it's like they dont love me and they 3 are one and Im just a stranger obliged to stay with them.

I really dont know whats going on anymore because recently was the point where im starting to think I should give up.

Something can go wrong once but not constantly in a pattern for all the years.

In addition my parents health is also bad and we have constant fights as a family

Basically with no exaggeration the worst you can imagine.

Idk what to do anymore I failed in suicide 3 years ago aswell.

I suspect its BM or smth because my dads brother and him have been having bad fights and my aunts family comes from an area where BM is known to be performed.

If anyone can take some time out to help me I would be grateful.