u/Tacit_Ronin99

Hello there, I hope your week has begun well. Just about nice and quiet for me. Parents out of town so I'm just relaxing by myself

Alright so, I(26,F) have a few of my relatives stay in the same city as me. Though most of them are constantly nagging my parents to get me married. My parents are chill enough and have given me the freedom for it though. But they constantly badger my parents about it, even though their own kids are not married or even unemployed. My parents are cool enough to give them money whenever they ask for it, without any expectations of getting it back. They come to our place without informing, eat expensive stuff for free, make my parents shop and pay for stuff, etc. Sometimes even when my parents are out of town for their work, these guys show up expecting free stuff from me as well.

It has gotten really annoying since my parents want me to go along and forgive them. No idea how to process it all

Hello there, I hope your weekend was good. Just about alright for me so can't complain much. Nice and quiet all to myself just chilling

Now just drinking up some whiskey and smoking up, chilling quietly. Just looking to gossip about random stuff so if you got something interesting, we could talk about it.

Feel free

Hello there, Just venting out on the weekend. I(26,F) have just been tired of the mess going on around with everything. Mostly, just personal stuff.

My parents travel a lot throughout the country so I get to enjoy time to myself. However, my relatives who live around the city and some far away, are usually aware when they travel out. Sometimes they just show up to my house out of nowhere without invitation, usually just to eat for free. I do that, no questions asked. However they also try to intrude on my life, constantly nagging my parents to get me married, even though their own kids are older than me and unmarried and unemployed. They constantly borrow money from my parents, make them buy stuff, even use our house to host family events. My parents are chill enough to let me select my partner and time, just no luck in that area. So I'm just focusing on myself, working away and spending time to myself. My friend circle has gotten smaller and smaller over the years so I'm just used to the quiet.

No idea how to proceed with it ahead with my parents after knowing how the rest of the family is

Hello, Have the weekend to myself. Any suggestions a girl could just quietly enjoy the weekend all to myself. Hopefully at a quiet bar, with good drinks and food

Hello there, I've been working for almost 6 years now, got a good steady job. My parents have their own business so they travel around a lot so I'm left to myself which I tend to like.

Now, my relatives are somewhat rather petty and jealous. Since a year or two, they are basically just constantly bringing up topics of my marriage to my parents. Now the thing is my parents have given me freedom of selecting my time and partner. However, my relatives constantly nag them about it, even when my parents ignore it. Now luckily my parents don't bring it up with me, they're rather chill that way. Now my work keeps me busy, plus I usually have the house to myself and my friend group has been getting smaller over the years. I like it and have no hurry in it.

Just not sure how to proceed and talk to my parents about my relatives. Considering they're the ones being nagged and not me

Hello, I(26,F) don't have a lot of friends left anymore. My circle has gotten smaller and smaller over the years. Just a handful of friends that I still talk to.

A school friend(27,F) of mine is dating a guy (27,M) since a few months now. Majority of the times they go out, they invite me to hang out as well. Now I get to spend a lot of time to myself since my parents travel a lot for dad's business stuff, so I'm usually chilling after work. I've told her multiple times that you guys should just hangout together and no need to invite me for it. They've tried setting me up on a few dates as well but nothing went great so I asked them to drop that too.

What would be the best way to deal with this situation

Hello there, I hope your weekend is going good. Just about alright for me.

About me, I'm 26 working for about 6 years now since the chaos of Covid. My parents travel a lot for their work so I'm usually just to myself in the house. Though my routine is just going to work and coming home and watching tv. My friend circle has gotten smaller and smaller over the years so I'm just used to staying by myself.

So the thing is, my relatives are the most annoying people I've faced. They constantly try to interfere in my life, nagging me and my parents about getting me married off, which to my parent's credit they've given me the freedom to choose my partner and time. Though they're gonna have to wait since I've got nothing going on lol. They show up at our house out of nowhere, stay for free, get my parents to buy stuff for them and also free dinners at expensive restaurants which my dad does without any complaints since he thinks family bond is the greatest, even thought everybody can see they're taking advantage of him. They've even shown up a couple of times at my house when my parents weren't there just to see what I was upto in my own home. One time, I didn't even open the door and lied to them that I was in the office and wouldn't come home before midnight.

At this point, it has gotten away too annoying. They have sons older than me, unmarried and working basic jobs and trying to control my life. Even my parents are just telling me to ignore it at this point lol

Hello there, so I'm(26,F) just looking for suggestions where a girl could have some good food and alcohol. Done with a rather hectic work week so looking to relax by myself this weekend after having the place to myself as well but don't wanna stay home for dinner. Preferably in West since I don't want to go too far and just wind down.

So I (26/F) have got the long weekend all to myself. Any suggestions as to any good place to enjoy a quiet solo evening with good food and alcohol. Preferably in or around Andheri. Just looking to unwind after a long week

Okay so a bit of a long rant, I(26,F) have been working for about 6 years in an import export firm. My parents run their own business so they tend to travel around a lot in the country so I get the place to myself a lot. I was born and raised here, it's just my family living in the city with others living pretty far away or in other states. Most of my relatives are always egging my parents to get me married as soon as possible even though I am in no hurry to.

Also credit to my parents since they have given me that much freedom to select my own partner and time frame about getting married. They usually just ignore or dodge the questions when they come up. Even when my relatives visit Mumbai, they usually stay at our place, eat for free, make a mess, have us pay for their shopping and then they have the audacity to tell my family what's best for me.

They also don't like that I get to stay home while my parents travel around, I've had a couple of unexpected relatives visit me while my parents were out just so they could basically spy on me. I was just working away both times. An aunty tried a third time as well but I just didn't open the door and when she called, I told her I'm in the office and I won't come back before it's midnight.

I mean sure, I'm struggling for a relationship myself, no luck in that area mainly because I'm stuck with work but they just try to insert their controlling paws into my life. Should I just tell my parents about it or handle it myself?