u/Temporary_Fishing550

I (26F) knew this guy (29M) through social media for about 3 years. We talked on and off, and after I moved to his city, we became friends and started hanging out.
He’d pick me up, open doors, pay for everything, and even sing songs to me on calls. After about five months, he asked if he could flirt with me over the phone, and I said yes. Eventually, he asked if we could make it happen in real life, and I agreed.
The first time we made out, I told him no kissing, and he respected that. The second time, I reminded him again that kissing was off-limits, but he kissed me anyway., he asked, “You’re not going to block me, right? Aftee that.. I told him no. He hugged me and said, “Maybe this is the last time we’ll see each other.”
The next day, I blocked him everywhere. He tried reaching out twice over the next six months, but I never responded.
Now, about a year later, I see him almost every week because he’s my boss’s cousin. We make eye contact

Work in a gym but my goal is to move to gulf countries

I’m a female personal trainer and usually very reserved with men at the gym. My focus is mainly on my female clients, so it’s rare for me to feel this way about someone.
I’m trying to understand my crush’s behavior. Over about 5 months, he slowly started talking to me, with eye contact, teasing, and warm interactions.
There is another female trainer who is very approachable and friendly. When she approached him, he was friendly with her too, so I’m unsure if this is just his personality.
He also approached the male videographer at the gym. After the videographer took a picture with me, my crush stopped looking at me and stopped talking to me for more than a month, while still interacting with others. When I finally broke the ice and offered him ice cream, he became warm again.
Now he has left for London, and I found out through someone who works with him.