u/The199Man

Why is our culture so hostile against wanting honesty?

I’m actually going to apologize because whenever I posted about this before it got taken down because it led into hostility.

I feel so very hurt, not only by how common lying and ghosting is by job recruiters, and employers.

I feel especially hurt by how many enablers there are who insist that I am the one who “needs therapy” because I want to confront dishonesty.

Why is the slightest little bit of pushback when pretended with potential ghosting so found upon?

Why is it so frowned upon to respond with “we will call you later”, why is it so frowned upon to address that you’re being strung along instead of being shown honesty?

“Is there already a scheduled next step, or is this more of a polite ‘no’?”
“When you say ‘we’ll follow up,’ what does that actually mean you will follow up?”
“Do you usually notify rejected candidates directly?”

As I said, I’m actually going to apologize because I simply may not be posting this in the correct place.

On /r/griefsupport I was mocked for wanting sympathy.

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u/The199Man — 13 days ago