u/TheArch-abald

I’m 36 years old, and I’ve gone to therapy over the last couple of years, which has helped me a lot. Through that process, I’ve realized that what I thought was a learning disability when I was younger may have been more connected to the very unhealthy home life I grew up in between my parents.

I remember internalizing a lot of hurt when I was younger. Growing up, I thought, and my family thought, that I had ADD. But now that I’m going to school for my bachelor’s degree, I’ve come across a lot of things that point toward the unsafe environment I was in being a major reason for many of my learning difficulties.

That, along with being emotionally stunted by my parents in different ways well into early thirties, has really painted me into a corner in life. That corner looked like not going to school for a long time, working entry-level jobs, and then feeling like I did not “amount to much.” In turn, that has also made dating harder.

Has anyone else been through something similar?

Is it possible that a my professor is impersonating a student in my async class. There’s just some weird coincidences that maybe best not to put on this haha but is this possible? When I throw the question into google, it says it’s possible and there’s one post from Reddit but a teacher referencing fake students in her class.

Anyone have a recommendation for a good quality microphone handle for the DJI Mic 2? Like the ones you can just clip the mic to and maybe a good pop filter. I went in Amazon and all the ones I look at look decent at first glance but then looking at the reviews it looks like hot trash. Appreciate any help, thx

I noticed from watching some Pokemon vendors on YouTube that they use a power bank to keep their Osmo charged. Any of you folks use one that you would recommend? Thanks for any responses

Feel silly asking this but where do people get sounds for their YouTube videos and graphics. Sounds being the ones of (and I feel cringey saying this) but the classic ones of a bunch of kids saying “yeaaa!”, or another one of like a fart noise that widely used for awhile.

With graphics, I see some people use like confetti graphic or lightening bolts. Sorry this one is more vague. But where do people get these from? For the noises part I usually go to YouTube and screen record and then place it in the video but wondering if there’s a better way

What’s a show that you didn’t watch until it was “off the air” or ended?

I have a particular show in mind and if I see it, I’ll upvote it haha

I got the medium wash Baggy Jeans and black Baggy Jeans. There was a lot more stiffness to the medium wash throughout the jeans and especially at the bottom. The bottoms of the medium wash almost had a bell bottom look due to the stiffness. Was wondering if anyone else noticed this

I was wondering if anyone else has been through the same thing. I was about eight when my parents divorced, and it was messy leading up to that point. Then the courts took my sister and brother away, and I was with my dad, which I was thankful for at the time.

My father went from being my hero out of my parents to becoming another bad influence. His anger was terrible. He wasn’t really emotionally available, and he was manipulative from when I was young until I left the house at 26. With my mother not being really in the picture from hurtful times that happened when I was younger but I’d see her during birthdays and holidays and was grateful for such times.

I’ve gone to therapy a handful of times growing up, and I’ve made some connections, like realizing that my anger came from the constant manipulation from my father. I also realized that my anger itself mirrored what I had learned from him. The amount of time I’d go to these therapists never lasted long, either because something would happen with insurance or because something just wasn’t clicking or meshing with the therapist. Eventually, though, I made a connection with one therapist. I saw her for a couple of years, and I felt my vision of my life changing for the better.

With that, though, I’ve come to realize that such an unstable and hurtful childhood, and young adult life, shaped my life in many ways. It affected my learning in school, which has taken a toll on where I am now in life, including jobs, money, and dating. It’s even more than that. I feel like these things have held me back mentally in my growth in general.

Being raised in such sadness, not knowing what a better day looked like, and having terrible role models left a lasting impression on me. In part, I feel like it contributed to why I’m not with the woman I wish I would have married.

Has anyone else felt like this?

So I’ve been looking at a couple of Levi’s and was wondering if anyone could recommend a styling for men’s jeans that’s close to the Abercrombie ‘Baggy Jeans’

Anyone got any recommendations for videos of color grading for non D Log M video captured on Osmo Pocket 3 using Da Vinci Resolve. Knocked out this video finally and didn’t do D Log M. Appreciate any help

Is possible to use to high of wattage for the small battery for the Osmo Pocket 3? I accidentally used the charger for the Osmo body for the small battery and now I don't think the small battery is charging anymore. Anyone seen this or heard of anything like it?

How do I make it so when I click on a larger window from a smaller one, that the smaller one doesn't fall behind the bigger one. I using Davinci Resolve and side by side isn't possible

What’s the easiest way to cut a picture from its background and put it in a video where use the ‘Tracker’ on the fusion page to stay on top of a person in the video. How do you do this? I know there’s multiple ways to remove the background that’s a solid color, I know you can cut it out from the back on the color page but doesn’t seem to translate over to the fusion page when I use that method.

Also, what’s free ways to use images like this in the future hopefully without a background without using ChatGPT?