u/The_Male_Fujoshi

So basically I pulled the full mono-rem team (only missing Cyrene lc) and I just got Evernight's E1 and with Robin coming as the powercreep queen I'm just wondering which team is the new best variant for Evernight? Obviously she and Hyacine are staying but if I wanted to run Evernight as the main DPS would I replace Cyrene or Castorice?

I was going to post a photo but I can't, oh my god I'm so pissed. I've been applying Cortic and everything but my face is still fucking red! At first I thought it was just my skin barrier but now I have no clue

This was a long time coming so it needs a fair bit of context:

- My parents got divorced when I was 5 and my brother was 10. It was extremely messy and my dad was depressed for a few years after.

- My mother is in the late stages of multiple sclerosis, which is why she never had custody.

- my father kicked my brother out when he was 14 because he wanted to go see a family friend and my brother didn't want to go. He just intended for him to stay with my mum for a day but they haven't been on speaking terms since.

- He insisted on doing something for my 21st birthday.

-On the night of my 21st, we saw that the car had been robbed. Someone cut into the soft top and took out the valuables inside. My dad also has surgery coming up for his eye. For some reason the sclera is red and they don't know why.

I want to put all this out there so whoever is reading can get a less biased version of events.

So this story starts last Friday during my birthday dinner. I invited my brother but was sure to tell them about each other. My dad swore he wouldn't try to talk to my brother. And after everyone left and it was just me with dad he went straight into what I've dubbed "manchild mode" where he starts grumbling and muttering under his breath about whatever is upsetting him.

He has this thing where when he's stressed everyone around him gets stressed by proxy. So by the time we got home I was stressed out and upset too.

Saturday was neutral but he got upset on Sunday again seemingly out of nowhere.

Today was seemingly fine at the start. I came with him to the hospital for the pre surgery check up, then he called me on the way home that his surgery had been moved up from Friday to Tuesday. But other than that he was nice, I thought it was getting better and I even bought dinner. He was in a good mood when I got home so I thought I could calmly ask him to say sorry for Friday night. This was the fuck up. He IMMEDIATELY got defensive. He said he apologised if he made me upset but he was angry at Jack and not me. I tried to explain that he always makes others feel stressed out and or sad by proxy, and I thought he was okay. But then he suddenly said something along the lines of how next time I say don't want something he'll listen. I asked why and he just exploded about how he feels underapreciated and how he has to apologise to his own son. I tried explaining that it was like accidentally insulting someone and apologising even though you didn't feel like you did anything wrong but he just kept going and going. It eventually moved to the topic of my mother and my brother??? And to sum it up I finally spoke my mind on what happened. Told him that my brother not listening to him (AT AGE 14) doesn't justify hitting him and telling him to get out. Also that he had to have done SOMETHING to make my mother fall out of love with him. I also recorded the latter half of the argument because this isn't the first time he's gotten like this and I wanted proof. I haven't listened to it because I don't want to go back through it but I know I said some nasty stuff that I probably can't take back. I know it ended with him saying that I was yelling (which I was) that the neighbours could hear it, and that I was ratting him out. After that he just went back into his room. I was in shock at what I said at the dinner table. After a few minutes he came back and we ate in silence with really thick tension. We're closer than the average father and son and I'm scared that I just fucked things up between us. It certainly doesn't help that his surgery is tomorrow. As for the audio I've posted it in the link below. If you think I was in the wrong please tell me.

https://drive.google.com/file/d/1Bon4LZ5bvYhIqj9SG92IYdDuJEhrxnV7/view?usp=drivesdk

TL;DR: I snapped and finally told my dad about how he never takes accountability so I may have just fucked our relationship up for life.