▲ 12 r/askvan

Has this ever happened to you at wreck beach?

I went to wreck beach wearing lose tshirt and legging. and was sitting on the rock right by the ocean. I then have this naked man touch my shoulder and his thing in my face as I sit so I yelled disgusting and showed him the middle finger and he left. wtffff who does that. I was also sitting in the area where no people like I passed a few of those rocks things, I just brought fruit to enjoy by myself and listen to music.

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u/Tiny-Rhubarb-9834 — 10 hours ago
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I think my coworkers paid or asked people to do this? Am I crazy to think that?

so I started this job 2 years ago and I been bullied very badly by coworkers at this job(first job I didn’t get along with coworkers and being hated on for being nice to clients and doing my job) and one guy who loves pranks and very mean he tried to sleep with me and I refused and since then he been really targeting me. like mocking laughing about how I dresss etc. I also noticed he hates my confidence. Anyways I noticed something odd happening only around my work and it happens only when I leave work exactly or go for lunch where a group of teenagers would look at me and burst into laughing loud or they would say hi to me then laugh or take a picture. this never happens anywhere else only happened 6 times in those 2 years around my work.. but I take lots of transit and see many teens all the time around and none of them even look at me yet why is it when I leave office exactly at 5pm and walk sameway literally right outside they do this or very close. I’m starting to think maybe my coworkers do this because they are not good people and they laugh at others and prank people.

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u/Tiny-Rhubarb-9834 — 5 days ago
▲ 43 r/askvan

Do you often get cars start driving while your 60 percent through the pedastrian passing?

i walk a lot around and I noticed lately cars start driving as I’m in the middle crossing and they would start beeping then I noticed they are about to hit me and have to run forward

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u/Tiny-Rhubarb-9834 — 15 days ago
▲ 63 r/askvan

How are you surviving? Anyone who’s on a 70k salary?

I’m single female and no car and I get paid 70k… I decided to go get my nails and pedicure done and for breakfast and im literally f****d! I eat a lot of tuna cans and sardines and even that cost me a ton of I eat two cans of tuna a day that alone cost me $73 for 2 weeks. Just that! If I add those stupid sardines they are $4 each that’s a luxury at this point.

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u/Tiny-Rhubarb-9834 — 22 days ago

Any women started judo at 32? What should I expect?

I’m turning 33 soon and will be starting judo. I’m lowkey nervous because I really have no clue what to expect… I never done martial arts before. I guess I’m child free by choice and I need a purpose and I feel like this might be the one. any experience advice appreciate!

I’m fairly active and have decent endurance as I been weightlifting from age 21.. I’m 5’2 weight around 140 pounds and can barbell squat 250 pounds without a belt.

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u/Tiny-Rhubarb-9834 — 24 days ago
▲ 8 r/jobs

Back to work tomorrow after vacation to job I dread what some small things I can do tomorrow to make it less painful and somewhat enjoyable

I hate this job so much that seeing my boss and coworkers makes me sick to my stomach the office makes me sick to my stomach and I don’t hate anything more in life then my job. I just took 2 weeks of vacation because I’ll be quitting at the first opportunity I get I will even accept a lower pay at this point that much I hate it but I need some ways to make my day tomorrow a little bit less miserable. any tips? Because I’m trying not to have a nervous break down right now with the idea of tomorrow.

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u/Tiny-Rhubarb-9834 — 1 month ago

I’m trying to recover from narcissistic abuse from my job but I don’t even think I deserve to have friends

I’m currently trying to gain back confidence and it’s very hard. I moved to a new city and got this job and was basically abused at my job had to go to a psychiatrist because I thought I was losing touch with reality. Anywways I been trying to recover I don’t know if I am or not but I decided to start with looking for friends in the city on an app but I don’t even feel like I deserve to have friends.

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u/Tiny-Rhubarb-9834 — 1 month ago

33F single child free by choice introvert looking for friends

Looking for female friends in Vancouver. Moved to the city in 2021, then to Calgary, and moved back to Vancouver in 2024. Still trying to build a solid friend group here.

I’m more of a small-circle person (2–4 close friends over huge groups). I’m into hiking, trying new restaurants and coffee shops, book stores, psychology, philosophy, workout classes/spin, travelling, camping, snowboarding, and honestly anything outdoors. Not a huge drinker so not really into going to bar. Very big into health I love weightlifting.

I tend to connect best with people who are genuine, open-minded, non-judgmental, and not overly performative, status-focused, or into gossip. I work a 9–5 as an executive assistant and would love to meet people who enjoy doing things, exploring the city, and having real conversations.

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u/Tiny-Rhubarb-9834 — 1 month ago
▲ 0 r/AskMen

What is the most attractive female body to you?

curious what type of a body men find the most attractive on a female… I have similar to Tiffany Stratton but not now more like when she was a year ago … now she’s way more lean but the look she had in 2024 or 2025..but I’m almost 33 so I have to really work For it … like I squat double my body weight.

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u/Tiny-Rhubarb-9834 — 1 month ago
▲ 23 r/jobs

Please give me advice I can’t stand my job to the point where it makes me sick to my stomach

I never ever hated something so bad but everything about my job the people the office the location makes me nauseous I hate being an executive assistan! I also have to commute by bus for an hour that’s overcrowded also sucks I hate it so f much!! I’m on vacation now and I just wish I don’t go back to that place it makes me miserable!!! I always been a gym rat and now on my vacation Im so fit again because I got the will to live again. what are some jobs I can do I don’t think I want to do office jobs… give me suggestions please

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u/Tiny-Rhubarb-9834 — 1 month ago
▲ 2 r/Ghosts

What is the cat looking at that I can’t see she seems worried

so I came to visit my mom and she has a cat. this cat kept looking at something I can’t see as if something is beside me and she looked very worried then walked up to me super fast and started meowing at me. also I been going through a very dark time in my life etc and I don’t know maybe she can see or sense that I’m barely making it.

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u/Tiny-Rhubarb-9834 — 1 month ago
▲ 75 r/askvan

Question for 30 year olds and up? What do you do outside of work in your free time?

so I have no friends and no family here or boyfriend. after work I only do is gym, workout class alone, maybe go to movies, hike or visit a coffee shop book store or shopping it’s pretty lonely. wondering if anyone else is similar to me or if not what do you do ? I want to elevate my life… I’m not looking for friends(as most people don’t like me and strangers hate me here so I know it won’t work) I just curious what you’re doing in your free time. Thanks

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u/Tiny-Rhubarb-9834 — 1 month ago

Anyone else would get irritated if someone did this when you say by window?

would you get irritated if someone sitting beside u when u have window seat look into your window every 1 minute entire 2.5 hour flight…. to me I just felt like il being watched entire time I couldn’t focus on my phone or whatever as I could see her head constantly looking my direction…. I was so irritated I closed to window. she then proceeded looking into the one a bit infront still her head in my spade made me uncomfortable and hard to focus.

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u/Tiny-Rhubarb-9834 — 1 month ago
▲ 28 r/Advice

I’m 32 female and I feel like my life is over

so I’m single feels like dating apps no normal guys message me or some just want hook up.… I don’t want kids so it’s harder to find a guy also because of that..(some assume im shallow because I don’t want but it’s just not the lifestyle I want)I’m alone in a city and have no family or friends here, all I do is work and workout a lot but still despite that many strangers are so rude and mean to me I don’t know why… and my job is toxic and I work as an executive assistant the city I live is expensive so I have roomates and I just feel like there is zero joy in my life beside my fitness. I feel alone. I’m also introverted so don’t know how to socialize either.

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u/Tiny-Rhubarb-9834 — 2 months ago
▲ 39 r/askvan

Anyone bikes to work even during rain? I can’t do transit anymore

so I just can’t do this transit thing the whole bus being packed and needing to take two is just so exhausting to me…. I’m planing staying at this job for another 3-4 months before I find something downtown but I’m thinking of getting a bike and biking … anyone else does this even during rain? what’s your experience?

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u/Tiny-Rhubarb-9834 — 2 months ago