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Just left the gym. Saw this guy who I blocked because he’s weird. After I ghosted him today because he asked why I did, I blocked his friend too. She was my friend, but she ignored me and followed my ex talking stage, like what? And guess what? I saw my ex’s talking stages friend at the gym too.

Right now I’m sad because I ghosted this guy who followed me.(different from the one I just mentioned) I don’t know if he likes me or not. I don’t know his intentions, but I like him. I feel like throwing up so many emotions and am sad. I want to reach out, but I already unfollowed him.

He followed me like 5 days ago, saying he’s seen me around school. Keep in mind I don’t have any pics on my Insta, and he wanted me to text him after I was done late-night studying, but I didn’t. The next day, he mentioned hanging out. I didn’t say yes or no, so idk if he thought I was soft-rejecting. Then, two days go by, and I give him my number. He says he’ll text me. He never does. Then, I post a pic.

He replies. I start a convo. He’s pretty dry but responding. Then, I unfollowed him yesterday, and he texted me finally. 🙄 saying “Why’d you unfollow?” Ugh. I want to text him, but I’ve ghosted him. Now I’m embarrassed and sad. I may or may not have been stalking his following in those days, and he followed a girl I follow, like? Maybe I’m just insecure.

So it’s summer. I’m not close with anybody. I graduated high school. I follow some people on Instagram who I’ve never talked to. Is it weird if I reach out to people and ask if they’d want to hang out? I’m a girl, and there’s a guy who I always saw at the library at school. I’ve seen him hang out with this other girl as friends. I don’t know, guys. I’m planning on getting a job this summer. Maybe I’ll meet people. 😓

Guy, I never talk to, but he goes to my school followed me a couple of days ago, and for those three days, he was texting me. It felt dry, but he also said things like, “Let’s hang out sometime.” I didn’t say yes or no because it’s too soon like it’s been two days. He also wanted me to text him after I finished studying even though I mentioned it would be late. I didn’t😓 I don’t know if he got mad because it felt like I was soft rejecting, but I didn’t mean toooo. It isn’t really a talking stage because we went two days no texting. Convos are dry. Then we didn’t text for a while, but I reached out because I wanted to talk to him, and I said, “Here’s my number because you mentioned hanging out.” He said, “Okay, I’ll text you,” but he never did. He also followed this girl I follow, which made me a little jealous, even though we’re nothing. Then, I posted a picture of myself, and he replied with a text and I started a convo, but I was dry. Hurt my feelings a bit. Maybe I am too sensitive.
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So. today I blocked him 😓 because if someone likes you or if he just wanted to be friends he could be clearer with his intentions .I don’t want to question them and he texted me like 3 hours ago asking why I unfollowed. Should I reply. My stomach hurts from thinking of replying. But I feel so much better not worrying about a guy. I’m very sad though because I liked him. 😔😔 sorry guys for this drama. It’s a little dumb 😓

So this guy that I go to school with, but we’ve never talked, followed me about 4 to 5 days ago, and we had a bit of a convo. The next day, he even told me to text him when I’m done late-night studying, and he was the one kind of reaching out a bit, I guess. Then the next day, he even said we should hang out sometime, and I didn’t say yes or no. Like two days ago, I sent him my number and just kind of mentioned the hang out, and he was like, “All right I’ll text you”, no text I have received, and it’s been two days. I guess I’m kind of butt-hurt about this because I wanted to see where it would go. Maybe he got hurt that I wasn’t being as responsive, but I feel like I kind of was, but also it was too soon. He was doing a little too much too soon.🥲

So this guy I go to school with and have never ever talked to, except for a couple of days ago, he said something to me and randomly followed me on Instagram three days ago. That same day we talked a bit, he texted me later that night. I mentioned studying late, and he said text me when you’re done. Then I didn’t do that 😭 because I felt like it was too forward. Like😭😭? Then the next day he tells me we should hang out sometime. I don’t directly say yes or no, then we’re texting a bit at night and it stops. The next morning he says he fell asleep. I’m like, “It’s good” and he doesn’t reply. Then today I gave him my number after not texting for a day, and he was like, “Okay, I’ll text you.” And our last messenger was his saying that’s good to be replying to. “How are you?” Is he mad ? I’m so sad he’s being so dry. I hearted his message, but he hasn’t texted me on my number… why would he follow my account and message me and now this 😔maybe he felt rejected by me, but damn. This always happens I swear maybe I’m the problem.

Edit: I Think he followed this girl 😭 and he followed him back. Guys, what do I do? I’m embarrassed for giving my number.

Guys are so weird, well at least in my experience. I have definitely not found the right one, and it’s kind of sad. This guy I’m texting ??? He hasn’t told me if he likes me?? He said we should hang out, though. Like, what? Maybe ask me out on a date? He said he fell asleep last night and said, “ mb.” Idk it just rubbed me the wrong way. I wish someone would like to show me genuine love and interest. You know what I mean? What happened to that? My luck, I feel like every guy I talk to just doesn’t want a relationship. Everyone is so dry. Does anyone feel the same way? And we’re talking on insta like he can ask for my number😔😒 idk why it hurts a little. Idk if I should reply and see where it goes?

This is an edittt!! Should I ask for him number? I said it’s fine to his last reply 😗😗😗

Another Edit: Um, he never replied, and I never did anything . I kind of didn’t really say yes to his hangout. I just said if he was going to a school event, I may see him there! Yeah, I’m the problem. 😔

I have graduation soon and my hair is so dead from dying it. Is there any hair masks or places I could go to to get a little treatment?

Hi guys, I would so appreciate any advice you have. So currently, I use e.l.f. primer and the Haus Lab Concealer, some random blush, curl my lashes, and some Maybelline mascara. I started using powder, don’t remember what it is called, to hopefully make my concealer last, but it’s not. Do you guys have any tips? I find it looks like I’m not wearing any makeup, and my skin gets so oily, like horribly oily. Meanwhile, other girls’ makeup lasts, and you can tell they have it on. Why does mine disappear? lol I tried the NARS Concealer, thinking of getting it again. Maybe I don’t know the right places to put my concealer or blush. Idk

Hi guys, day two of getting in a gym feeling great Honestly,but food-wise I’m conflicted. I’ve lost weight before ( 50 pounds) no tracking, but I started restricting towards the end and then I started binge eating. I’m currently recovering in therapy for it , but I want to lose the 10 pounds I gained from BED. I’m female, 18, 5’2, 130 pounds. I honestly don’t know what to put for the calorie calculator for activity level and should I even be reducing my calories? Can someone help me figure out how many calories to eat and possibly where I can get a meal plan or something to help make meals easier.

Okay guys, I got a gym membership. I struggle with binge eating and have gained 10 pounds in a year. Previously, I lost 50 pounds just by walking no changes in diet or calorie tracking. Right now, I’m 18, female, and weigh 130 pounds. If anybody has any advice, please let me know. Also, would anyone else like to be accountability buddies possibly? I’m stuck on how many calories to eat because calorie tracking increases my binging and restricting.

Binged yesterday, but today I obviously want to stop the cycle. It’s so hard now, too. Someone gave me a dirty look, and my mind is spiraling. It’s like shame. Like, is she judging me because I’ve gained weight from binging? Like, is it because I’m bloated? Also, anytime my mom’s mean to me or I’m alone, I want to binge. Should I try to replace it with things? I got a gym membership and will go today to distract myself. I also want to get books. It’s just so hard to have a positive outlook. Can someone please give me tips on how to have a positive outlook?

I think my BED is caused genuinely by my fear of calories and restriction. I can only go like 4 days without binging, then binge on the 5th, and when I do, I eat all the foods that I label as “bad.” I lost a lot of weight before and then became restrictive and had bad eating patterns. Right now, I’ve gained weight by binging, but genuinely, I don’t know what to do. What’s the worst if I just start eating normally, no calorie counting? I want to get rid of some of this weight gain, though I don’t know. Guys,

Tips?

Simple tips or habits to begin my weight loss journey after dealing with BED. I am in therapy and have been struggling less with BED and would love to lose weight. I walk as my main exercise, but I do want to lift a bit at home. I’m 18, female, and weigh 130. I would love to hear any helpful advice. I previously lost 50 pounds before developing BED and I didn’t count calories. I feel like that’s a trigger, but I know calories in, calories out.

Hi Guys, not sure if this is the right place to ask, but I’m pretty sure it’s okay. So basically, I got therapy probably in February-March this year for the first time. I see her once a week. I struggle really bad with OCD and an eating disorder as well as body dysmorphia. My therapist obviously knows this, but I never really get help during the sessions. She’ll ask about my week. I’ll talk about it, and then she just gives me simple advice on what to improve on about my week, never about like my actual struggles. Should I get a new therapist? I feel so guilty though, and like I’m restarting. I feel awful like I’m the problem. Any advice helps. Thanks, guys!

Hi guys, I’m a senior in high school graduating soon, so basically I applied to some popular schools near me, got accepted into all but rejected for nursing and some like the one I’m currently debating on allow me to go for two years, and if I maintain my grades, then I’m guaranteed a spot to take all the nursing classes junior and senior year. But can’t I just save money and do the prerequisites at community college, then transfer? But then I’m debating what if I just go to community college and get an associate’s degree, then later get the BSN? Please give any advice based on anything and even your own experience. I’m lost and need to decide soon. I feel kind of like a failure for not being accepted right now.

Hi guys so basically I’ve been struggling with binge eating For over a year, I am in therapy. Basically, before I started binging in April of last year, I was at my lowest of 120 pounds. I’m 5’2. I’m currently fluctuating between 127-130 because I gained it from binge eating . I don’t know what to do. I’m trying to walk for weight loss, but I don’t know if I should try to strength train at home. I did lose 30 pounds just walking an hour a day. should I do that again, but at that time, I didn’t count calories. I’ve always been thicker in the thighs, and right now, I just tried on my shorts, and my thighs have gotten bigger. At 120, they were slimmer. I’m very sad and don’t know how to go about this. I know a calorie deficit is important, but I just don’t know what to eat on it. I’m sorry. Any advice would help. Trying on my shorts just ruined my night. 🙁

Hi guys I’m 18 female fluctuating between 127-130 right now. A year ago, I weighed 120 pounds yet was still skinny fat. Right now, I’ve gained weight from binge eating. I want to lose this weight; however, calories are very triggering. Even though I know they are the only way to lose weight, before this, I lost 50 pounds by walking and not counting. I just need advice on food and exercise. Right now, I just try to walk, but as a student, it’s hard to make time. I definitely should start lifting weights. Maybe gyms offer weight lifting classes ? Any advice helps. I all want to mention perhaps I don’t need to loose weight but reshape my body right now I’ve I have more belly fat, thigh fat, and arm fat. My old clothing fits tighter. 😔😔 😔

Just binged again. I want to cry so bad. I’m stressed with school, so that contributed. It’s been a year since I’ve struggled with binge eating. Please guys, I’m begging. Who do I reach out to help? I’m in therapy, but honestly, she’s not helping too much. Do I tell my doctor? I don’t know. I’ve tried a dietician, but I also want to lose the weight I’ve gained from binging, and nobody understands that. I’m so done, genuinely. I know tomorrow’s going to suck. I’m so shocked I binged again, even though I shouldn’t be. I just want to cry and curl up and sleep. I don’t want to do anything else, and I still have the school work to do. This disorder has ruined my life. I’m so jealous of people who can just eat normally. I just want to not restrict food, but I’m scared of weight gain, and then I binge. I’m so tired of my own thoughts.