u/Ty1oo

What can I do once I am 18?

What can I do once I am 18?

What can I do once I am 18?

What can I do once I am 18?

What can I do once I am 18?

What can I do once I am 18?

There is a bunch of posts breaking the rules with people scamming, etc. It would be a benefit to us all if you guys used the report button to help me target posts/comments breaking the rules. Thank you!

My best friend has been dating someone for about a year who I genuinely do not like. Nothing dramatic has happened, no cheating, no abuse, nothing I can point to and say "this is why." I just have a bad feeling I can't shake and every time I'm around them together something feels off.

Little things mostly. The way he talks over her in group settings like what she's saying doesn't matter. The way she seems to shrink a little when he walks into a room. She used to be the loudest person at the table and lately she just kind of fades into the background. I've noticed she cancels on us more than she used to, always a different excuse but it's become a pattern.

She seems happy when I ask her directly and I have no reason not to believe her. But I also know her better than almost anyone and something about the version of her I've been seeing lately feels dimmer than the one I grew up with.

Do I bring it up and risk blowing up our friendship if I'm wrong, or do I stay quiet and risk regretting it if I'm right?