Should I ask a guy out or just leave it alone.

I recent went to a local gig with one of my friends and saw one of the band members I thought he was very attractive and sweet but I'm not sure if he would be into me and if I should approach him .
I'm a poc btw if so how should I do it without being weird or creepy.

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u/Umikoutete — 19 hours ago
▲ 3 r/Crush

Should I ask a guy out or just leave it alone.

I recent went to a local gig with one of my friends and saw one of the band members I thought he was very attractive and sweet but I’m not sure if he would be into me and if I should approach him .
I’m a poc btw .if so how should I do it without being weird or creepy

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u/Umikoutete — 19 hours ago
▲ 2 r/OSDD

My religious family won’t help my sister

I don’t know who can help me and give me solutions but please try it’s really making me sad. Btw my parents are very strict and religious 🫤

Mid 2024 I used to go to a boarding school with my siblings which was abit strict and allowed limited visits.

There’s a random time in the middle of the night when my sisters (16)friends came to me telling me she was sick.
When I went to check up on her she was crying and really sad and said there was some voices speaking to her and saying that there were coming.
I tried to put her to sleep but she started screaming, shaking and rolling her eyes in a weird way and crying this happened for a solid like 2 minutes

This then progressed to her splitting I think I’m not so sure but she suddenly turned into another person or character this character was her mom and switched again to a small little boy and started acting like a small boy playing with toys.

The character then switched to her mom permanently.she started claiming and telling me everything that our family did and that she misses her child meaning my sister and a lot of stuff that scared me!

She switched back to my sister and my sister that she was draining her and she would go away if we prayed in we did which eventually did stop the switching.

But days passed when she used to just fall or faint and switch characters and I didn’t know what to do
I believe they were four of them and claiming some weird stuff.

I eventually got her transferred to another school because my school didn’t really care about what’s going on .

I think what triggered this was the way my dad was treating her at home and she doesn’t feel loved by either parents.

She’s been really struggling with school for the past couple months after and Idk what to do or tell my parents since final o level exams are coming and scared she will fail.

Idk can someone help me recognise what this issue is or if it can be fixed or what to tell my parents thank youuu!!!

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u/Umikoutete — 8 days ago

How do I tell my parents my sister need help

I don’t know who can help me and give me solutions but please try it’s really making me sad. Btw my parents are very strict and religious 🫤

Mid 2024 I used to go to a boarding school with my siblings which was abit strict and allowed limited visits.

There’s a random time in the middle of the night when my sisters (16)friends came to me telling me she was sick.
When I went to check up on her she was crying and really sad and said there was some voices speaking to her and saying that there were coming.
I tried to put her to sleep but she started screaming, shaking and rolling her eyes in a weird way and crying this happened for a solid like 2 minutes

This then progressed to her splitting I think I’m not so sure but she suddenly turned into another person or character this character was her mom and switched again to a small little boy and started acting like a small boy playing with toys.

The character then switched to her mom permanently.she started claiming and telling me everything that our family did and that she misses her child meaning my sister and a lot of stuff that scared me!

She switched back to my sister and my sister that she was draining her and she would go away if we prayed in we did which eventually did stop the switching.

But days passed when she used to just fall or faint and switch characters and I didn’t know what to do
I believe they were four of them and claiming some weird stuff.

I eventually got her transferred to another school because my school didn’t really care about what’s going on .

I think what triggered this was the way my dad was treating her at home and she doesn’t feel loved by either parents.

She’s been really struggling with school for the past couple months after and Idk what to do or tell my parents since final o level exams are coming and scared she will fail.

Idk can someone help me recognise what this issue is or if it can be fixed or what to tell my parents thank youuu!!!

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u/Umikoutete — 8 days ago

How do I tell my parents my sister needs urgent help ‼️

I don’t know who can help me and give me solutions but please try it’s really making me sad. Btw my parents are very strict and religious 🫤

Mid 2024 I used to go to a boarding school with my siblings which was abit strict and allowed limited visits.

There’s a random time in the middle of the night when my sisters (16)friends came to me telling me she was sick.
When I went to check up on her she was crying and really sad and said there was some voices speaking to her and saying that there were coming.
I tried to put her to sleep but she started screaming, shaking and rolling her eyes in a weird way and crying this happened for a solid like 2 minutes

This then progressed to her splitting I think I’m not so sure but she suddenly turned into another person or character this character was her mom and switched again to a small little boy and started acting like a small boy playing with toys.

The character then switched to her mom permanently.she started claiming and telling me everything that our family did and that she misses her child meaning my sister and a lot of stuff that scared me!

She switched back to my sister and my sister that she was draining her and she would go away if we prayed in we did which eventually did stop the switching.

But days passed when she used to just fall or faint and switch characters and I didn’t know what to do
I believe they were four of them and claiming some weird stuff.

I eventually got her transferred to another school because my school didn’t really care about what’s going on .

I think what triggered this was the way my dad was treating her at home and she doesn’t feel loved by either parents.

She’s been really struggling with school for the past couple months after and Idk what to do or tell my parents since final o level exams are coming and scared she will fail.

Idk can someone help me recognise what this issue is or if it can be fixed or what to tell my parents thank youuu!!!

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u/Umikoutete — 8 days ago
▲ 5 r/SocialSkillsAdvanced+1 crossposts

I try being social but it feels everyone doesn’t want to speak to me

I was trying out this new club at university it’s a film club .then I decided to go alone because I don’t have a lot of friends and I’m trying to make more friends.

As I arrived at the club there they were people by the door I wanted to ask if this was the correct club but they seemed deep in their conversations.
so I decided to get in but no one said anything.

And I asked one of the girls if I’m the right club then she said yes .
I asked if anyone was seating next to her because she seemed alone or lonely then she said yes ,which is like a bit okay and like she didn’t try to speak to me or anything because I was trying to get into a conversation.
i ended up seating by myself and felt too awkward I decide to leave
Should I have done anything else.this has never happened to me I usually get at least a conversation from people.

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u/Umikoutete — 14 days ago