u/Unfair-Swan-8190

Hi everyone!
I’m looking for recommendations for **trusted plastic surgeons in Colombia**, preferably in **Medellín or Bogotá**.
I’m interested in getting a **360 liposuction and breast augmentation (implants)**. Here in Brazil, the total cost would be around **US$7,000–8,000** (I live here), so I’m wondering if it would be more affordable in Colombia while still going with a highly reputable surgeon.
If you’ve had a good experience or know of a surgeon you genuinely recommend, I’d really appreciate your suggestions. Thank you!

Hi everyone!
I’m looking for recommendations for trusted plastic surgeons in Colombia, preferably in Medellín or Bogotá.
I’m interested in getting a 360 liposuction and breast augmentation (implants). Here in Brazil, the total cost would be around US$7,000–8,000 (I live here), so I’m wondering if it would be more affordable in Colombia while still going with a highly reputable surgeon.
If you’ve had a good experience or know of a surgeon you genuinely recommend, I’d really appreciate your suggestions. Thank you!

**My boyfriend and I have been together for about 6–7 months.**
Recently, while he was asleep, I looked through his WhatsApp. I know it was wrong, and I’ve apologized for invading his privacy.
The reason I looked was because I had already been feeling insecure in the relationship. During our trip, I found used condoms in the Airbnb trash. On his phone, I also found conversations with prostitutes. When I confronted him, he told me he had contacted them because he wanted to arrange a threesome or another sexual experience for us as a couple. However, he had never mentioned this idea to me before, so I found that explanation very difficult to believe.
During our phone call, I cried almost the entire time. He was very upset that I had gone through his phone and said he doesn’t know if he can trust me anymore. I understand why he feels that way, and I apologized.
The problem is that, even after hearing his explanations, I still don’t feel at peace. I don’t trust him anymore either.
Now he wants to see me tomorrow, but I’m scared. Not because I think he’ll physically hurt me, but because I’m afraid of another intense argument. I still love him, I miss him, but I’m also anxious and I feel like I was deceived.

**Would you meet him in person? Is this relationship something that can realistically recover after both of us feel our trust has been broken?**

**My boyfriend and I have been together for about 6–7 months.**
Recently, while he was asleep, I looked through his WhatsApp. I know it was wrong, and I’ve apologized for invading his privacy.
The reason I looked was because I had already been feeling insecure in the relationship. During our trip, I found used condoms in the Airbnb trash. On his phone, I also found conversations with prostitutes. When I confronted him, he told me he had contacted them because he wanted to arrange a threesome or another sexual experience for us as a couple. However, he had never mentioned this idea to me before, so I found that explanation very difficult to believe.
During our phone call, I cried almost the entire time. He was very upset that I had gone through his phone and said he doesn’t know if he can trust me anymore. I understand why he feels that way, and I apologized.
The problem is that, even after hearing his explanations, I still don’t feel at peace. I don’t trust him anymore either.
Now he wants to see me tomorrow, but I’m scared. Not because I think he’ll physically hurt me, but because I’m afraid of another intense argument. I still love him, I miss him, but I’m also anxious and I feel like I was deceived.

*about the used condom, he said some friends went there, and one of them was with a girl, but like, how do you let people have s3x in your bed, lol? I really didn’t believe it.

**Would you meet him in person? Is this relationship something that can realistically recover after both of us feel our trust has been broken?**

I’ve been talking to a man from the US for a while now and I’m trying to understand whether I’m overthinking things or if my concerns are actually valid.

We already met in person before and our connection in real life feels very natural and strong. He’s extremely career-focused, works long hours, travels often and honestly seems deeply invested in his work/lifestyle.

The confusing part is that his communication changes a lot. Sometimes he’s very emotionally present — calling me, asking about my family, talking about future plans, helping me with my visa process so I can visit him, updating me about his trips/work, reacting to my stories, etc. But other times he becomes very minimal over text and it leaves me wondering if I’m emotionally investing more than he is.

I know long distance dynamics are different, and I also know some people naturally communicate less when they’re busy. I’m trying not to romanticize things, but I also don’t want to ignore my emotional needs either.

For people who’ve dated very work-focused/workaholic partners:
How do you tell the difference between someone who’s genuinely busy vs someone who simply isn’t that emotionally invested?