u/VeryBerry_Hibiscus

I tried skin1004's hyalu-cica and mixsoon's centella sunscreens and both made my skin feel tingly around the eyes and nose. Haruharu's airyfit didn't sting but it does leave my skin looking oily later in the day. Goodal's calming sunscreen broke me out. I don't think I'm acne-prone either so I don't know what happened with Goodal.

Roundlab was fine for me. My favorite was Innisfree Hyaluron Moist Sunscreen (discontinued). Does anyone have any recommendations for what I should try next? I think my skin is combo/dry and sensitive due to rosacea.

I tried skin1004's hyalu-cica and mixsoon's centella sunscreens and both made my skin feel tingly around the eyes and nose. Haruharu's airyfit didn't sting but it does leave my skin looking oily later in the day. Goodal's calming sunscreen broke me out. I don't think I'm acne-prone either so I don't know what happened with Goodal.

Does anyone have any recommendations for what I should try next? I think my skin is combo/dry and sensitive due to rosacea.

So our kid's daycare told me at pick-up that they had sent multiple kids home, and parents confirmed multiple kids had HFMD.

They told me I could bring my son in tomorrow, but my concern is that not all kids will present symptoms at the same time, and they aren't closing the class in the meantime. The kids who are sick won't be attending, but I'd imagine that other kids could still get sick in the meantime, since symptoms could present in a few days.

I think that if it takes 3-6 days for symptoms to show, I'd have to monitor my kid for about a week to see if he has anything. Then wait for symptoms to pass. Is that another week, or up to two weeks for things to clear up?

The school isn't closing/pausing my kid's class and so they won't offer a tuition credit. They also didn't send out written communication. Their protocol is to keep the class open and send kids home as they show up with symptoms.

I called around other schools in the area because I found their response odd. One school said they close classes if 2 kids show up with certain illnesses as part of their safety to reduce infection spread.

Is my current daycare's response appropriate or am I overreacting? Should I look at other schools?

1. we have a kid so we are limited on alone time
2. he says he’s stressed from work and we are both recovering from a cold
3. we haven’t had much sex for about a month or so
4. when we have had sex, he has like post nut clarity and then feels stressed again so I don’t get to enjoy it as much as I used to

its not necessarily an issue but i feel like sometimes he’s so in his head that he only has work on his mind its to a point where he can’t connect with me or he’s not in the mood because he’s stressed about work. I have needs so I thought I’d ask you all for ideas for how I can initiate in a way where it breaks through his stress if that makes sense.

I don’t think it’s a dry spell or long term issue. but i have tried initiating or being flirty, touchy, and he rejects me due to work or not feeling well. I get it. I just want to figure out how to get my needs met and I’m not good at doing it myself. I need him.

anyway, thank you in advance and I’m sorry if this is wrong board. i did try finding an appropriate one and i got overwhelmed lol

we are going to start couples therapy. I’m going in considering separation because I dislike his recent behavior + built up resentment + he doesn’t seem to take me seriously. I’m fed up with it. He crossed a line that to me, feels like betrayal. he didn’t cheat but I feel cheated anyway

now he’s finally seeking therapy and a psychologist after I’ve asked for 4 years but since I’ve asked for a divorce, he wants to save the marriage. Every time we have fought, he’s insisted we can work things out. I stayed hoping for the best but recently developments have me feeling like I need to quit

I feel like this is bullshit. I know I have my flaws but I’ve been clear for how I’ve felt for years. This isn’t a surprise to him. I’ve wanted a divorce since I had our kid. Our kid is turning 4 now.

since I’m the one who feels set on divorce, has anyone gone through this and found a way to forgive and try again?

we are going to start couples therapy. I’m going in considering separation because I dislike his recent behavior + built up resentment + he doesn’t seem to take me seriously. I’m fed up with it. He crossed a line that to me, feels like betrayal. he didn’t cheat but I feel cheated anyway

now he’s finally seeking therapy and a psychologist after I’ve asked for 4 years but since I’ve asked for a divorce, he wants to save the marriage.

I feel like this is bullshit. I know I have my flaws but I’ve been clear for how I’ve felt for years. This isn’t a surprise to him. I’ve wanted a divorce since I had our kid. Our kid is turning 4 now.

since I’m the one who feels set on divorce, has anyone gone through this and found a way to forgive and try again?

Hi. I saw some text messages that I thought were inappropriate between my partner of 10 years and another woman. When I say inappropriate, I mean I would never talk to a married man the way that she did. Joke or not.

I checked the bank statements, messages from his phone, and social media accounts. If he cheated, I want out. I suspect emotional cheating but I am not sure if that's it or more. I don't know what else I am missing or what else I could check. I don't trust his words right now because we wouldn't have argued had I not seen the messages. Leads me to believe this would have progressed had I not found out.

He suggested couples counseling and I don't feel comfortable. I feel like I have to ease my suspicions by checking everything I can. What else is there left for me to check?

I already tried buying colognes and deodorants. Sometimes he skips it when he’s home but his arm pits are so strong that the smell lingers in my hair and our bed sheets. It’s uncomfortable for me.

I’ve given him compliments when he smells good. I have also asked before if he’s wearing deodorant when I can tell he skipped it and sometimes he’ll be like: oh do I need some? (obv yes)

I don’t want to hurt his feelings but the smell is too much for me. He showers 1-2 times a day so it’s not like he’s dirty. Idk what’s wrong.