u/Weekly-Sand-9787

Okay, this might be a little spontaneous, but why not. 😂

I’ll be in Boracay this weekend with my family and thought I’d see if anyone from here happens to be going around the same time.

Not looking for anything super specific… maybe we grab food, get drinks, watch the sunset, explore a little, or just hang out and see if we vibe. I’ll be spending time with my family too, so no pressure to be attached to me the whole trip. 😂

Also, I work from home, so fair warning: I’ll probably still be working until 5 AM while I’m there. 😭 If you’re a night owl too, maybe you can keep me company while I pretend to be productive. 😂

**About me:** 27F from Bicol, around 5–5’1, short wavy hair, midsize to chubby but active na sa gym!! 🥹 Psych graduate working in the professional/mental health field. Has natural aegyo (or pabebe kasi shy shy shy minsan) Certified panganay energy, observant and emotionally attentive. Soft-spoken at first but madaldal once comfortable. I love sitcoms (im a real nerd about friends, himym, tbbt, b99 etc), 2nd to 3rd gen kpop, dramas, movies, music, and random good conversations.

**About you:** Ideally 26–32, 5’7+ 👀, single, emotionally mature, kind, respectful, and can actually hold a conversation. Emotionally available please, I beg. 😭 No mind games or disappearing into the void, thank you. 😂 Bonus if you’re into music, movies, dad / corny jokes, or late-night kwentuhan.

Could be friends, could be a date, could just be a fun story to tell after the trip. 🤷🏻‍♀️

If you’re also in Boracay this weekend and open to meeting someone new, feel free to DM! Tell me a little about yourself!! let’s skip the “hey” and actually have a conversation. 😂

*And if you’re not in Boracay but just want to talk and see if we vibe online, that’s welcome too!*

Okay, this might be a little spontaneous, but why not. 😂

I’ll be in Boracay this weekend with my family and thought I’d see if anyone from here happens to be going around the same time.

Not looking for anything super specific… maybe we grab food, get drinks, watch the sunset, explore a little, or just hang out and see if we vibe. I’ll be spending time with my family too, so no pressure to be attached to me the whole trip. 😂

Also, I work from home, so fair warning: I’ll probably still be working until 5 AM while I’m there. 😭 If you’re a night owl too, maybe you can keep me company while I pretend to be productive. 😂

About me: 27F from Bicol, around 5–5’1, short wavy hair, midsize to chubby but active na sa gym!! 🥹 Psych graduate working in the professional/mental health field. Has natural aegyo (or pabebe kasi shy shy shy minsan) Certified panganay energy, observant and emotionally attentive. Soft-spoken at first but madaldal once comfortable. I love sitcoms (im a real nerd about friends, himym, tbbt, b99 etc), 2nd to 3rd gen kpop, dramas, movies, music, and random good conversations.

About you: Ideally 26–32, 5’7+ 👀, single, emotionally mature, kind, respectful, and can actually hold a conversation. Emotionally available please, I beg. 😭 No mind games or disappearing into the void, thank you. 😂 Bonus if you’re into music, movies, dad / corny jokes, or late-night kwentuhan.

Could be friends, could be a date, could just be a fun story to tell after the trip. 🤷🏻‍♀️

If you’re also in Boracay this weekend and open to meeting someone new, feel free to DM! Tell me a little about yourself!! let’s skip the “hey” and actually have a conversation. 😂

And if you’re not in Boracay but just want to talk and see if we vibe online, that’s welcome too!

I’m turning 27 soon, and this has been on my mind lately.

I’ve always been midsize. It wasn’t really something I constantly thought about because I was in a long-term relationship for a decade. I felt loved, accepted, and honestly thought I was okay.

Then the relationship ended.

Part of the reason was that my ex realized he couldn’t settle down yet and wanted to explore and meet other women. I understand that’s his decision, but I’d be lying if I said it didn’t affect how I see myself. It really shook my confidence.

Now that I’m entering the dating scene for the first time in almost a decade, I catch myself wondering if my body is something people immediately write off.

I’m actively working on my health and fitness. Not because I think I need to earn love, but because I genuinely want to feel stronger and more confident in my own skin.

So I wanted to ask the guys here:
Would you genuinely date someone who’s midsize or plus size & still working on becoming more confident with her body?
Does a lack of confidence affect your attraction more than body size itself?
Or is physical appearance simply a dealbreaker regardless?

And for the women who’ve been through something similar, how did you rebuild your confidence after a breakup that made you question your attractiveness?

I’m not looking for reassurance or compliments. I know everyone has preferences and that’s completely okayyyy. I’m just genuinely curious about other people’s perspectives because this has been something I’ve been trying to navigate lately. 🫂

Edit: I’m from Bicol btw hahahaha sorry na agad in advanced if I’m malayo 🙇‍♀️

From Naga, Camarines Sur✨ First time getting in to the dating scene after coming out of a long-term relationship, so I guess this is me finally taking my shot here.

My last relationship was with someone almost completely opposite of me, and while I learned a lot from it, I realized maybe I’d work better with someone who’s somehow similar to me in values, lifestyle, and energy.

So to be more specific, I’m looking for someone:

-Who can let me shut my brain off, as an eldest daughter haha!
-Who can carry conversations naturally
-Preferably taller than me (i’m 5’2)
-Cute and confident!
-Who is not mayabang pls
-Who loves OPM and soft rock for music and series such as HIMYM, Friends or the Big Bang Theory
- Would also love someone I can be adventurous with someone down for random side quests, spontaneous plans, trying new food spots, road trips, or simply creating fun little memories together. ((If you’re from here or willing to visit each other’s places if you’re from somewhere else hehe))
- Bonus if you’re funny, emotionally aware, kayang sumabay sa deep conversations AND kanal humor with a little aircon humor too because I can be both depending on the day HAHAHA.

About me:

-5’2, fair skin, short wavy hair
-Psychology graduate working in the professional/mental health field
-Not sexy nor skinny 😭 and honestly not fully confident with my body shape right now (but it’s something I’m actively working on)
-I think i have natural aegyo haha
-Panganay energy through and through
-Can match both kanal and aircon humor depending on the vibe 😭
-I like making jokes, especially the corny/unfunny ones so sana mapagbigyan niyo ko HAHAHA
-Very observant and emotionally attentive
-Soft spoken at first but gets madaldal once comfortable

Idk how this really works but i guess message me? :)