u/Wonderful_Echo_6318

Leaving it here kasi wala akong mapagsabihan and no friends to talk to.

The context is, I have a college best friend. We are very close and she usually sleeps and visits our house back then. After we graduated, we still connected and updated communication. No drama but pure friendship.

From finding jobs and all.

I got a job, a career, a love life and independence/freedom.

As time passed by, she unfriended me on socmed. I look for her and ask why she did that. It takes weeks before she eventually replies to me.

She said, she became envious of what I have. She's not happy that I got those things and she thinks all of the achievements I have are fake and ridiculous. She felt sad everytime she saw my posts online being happy and living the best of my life. Yet, she's not happy for me.

We reconciled.

Sinabi ko sa kanya na dadating yung time for her to get everything that she wants.

We talked for almost a year and the same routine.

But eventually, she blocked me and unfriended me once again.

After that, di na ako nagpaligoy-ligoy, I'm sad and hurt. So, I blocked her also sa lahat ng socmed ko. And I don't want any connections about her. And I don't think it's healthy for both of us. I ended the friendship that day.

And this year, she messaged my husband saying to reconcile and saying she missed me. She also added that my husband should take care of me and ipa-kumusta sa'kin but wala na talaga akong amor and wala na akong balak pang ibalik yung connection and friendship na meron kami dati.

Am I right with my decisions?

Leaving it here kasi wala akong mapagsabihan and no friends to talk to.

The context is, I have a college best friend. We are very close and she usually sleeps and visits our house back then. After we graduated, we still connected and updated communication. No drama but pure friendship.

From finding jobs and all.

I got a job, a career, a love life and independence/freedom.

As time passed by, she unfriended me on socmed. I look for her and ask why she did that. It takes weeks before she eventually replies to me.

She said, she became envious of what I have. She's not happy that I got those things and she thinks all of the achievements I have are fake and ridiculous. She felt sad everytime she saw my posts online being happy and living the best of my life. Yet, she's not happy for me.

We reconciled.

Sinabi ko sa kanya na dadating yung time for her to get everything that she wants.

We talked for almost a year and the same routine.

But eventually, she blocked me and unfriended me once again.

After that, di na ako nagpaligoy-ligoy, I'm sad and hurt. So, I blocked her also sa lahat ng socmed ko. And I don't want any connections about her. And I don't think it's healthy for both of us. I ended the friendship that day.

And this year, she messaged my husband saying to reconcile and saying she missed me. She also added that my husband should take care of me and ipa-kumusta sa'kin but wala na talaga akong amor and wala na akong balak pang ibalik yung connection and friendship na meron kami dati.

Am I right with my decisions?

Leaving it here kasi wala akong mapagsabihan and no friends to talk to.

The context is, I have a college best friend. We are very close and she usually sleeps and visits our house back then. After we graduated, we still connected and updated communication. No drama but pure friendship.

From finding jobs and all.

I got a job, a career, a love life and independence/freedom.

As time passed by, she unfriended me on socmed. I look for her and ask why she did that. It takes weeks before she eventually replies to me.

She said, she became envious of what I have. She's not happy that I got those things and she thinks all of the achievements I have are fake and ridiculous. She felt sad everytime she saw my posts online being happy and living the best of my life. Yet, she's not happy for me.

We reconciled.

Sinabi ko sa kanya na dadating yung time for her to get everything that she wants.

We talked for almost a year and the same routine.

But eventually, she blocked me and unfriended me once again.

After that, di na ako nagpaligoy-ligoy, I'm sad and hurt. So, I blocked her also sa lahat ng socmed ko. And I don't want any connections about her. And I don't think it's healthy for both of us. I ended the friendship that day.

And this year, she messaged my husband saying to reconcile and saying she missed me. She also added that my husband should take care of me and ipa-kumusta sa'kin but wala na talaga akong amor and wala na akong balak pang ibalik yung connection and friendship na meron kami dati.

Am I right with my decisions?

Leaving it here kasi wala akong mapagsabihan and no friends to talk to.

The context is, I have a college best friend. We are very close and she usually sleeps and visits our house back then. After we graduated, we still connected and updated communication. No drama but pure friendship.

From finding jobs and all.

I got a job, a career, a love life and independence/freedom.

As time passed by, she unfriended me on socmed. I look for her and ask why she did that. It takes weeks before she eventually replies to me.

She said, she became envious of what I have. She's not happy that I got those things and she thinks all of the achievements I have are fake and ridiculous. She felt sad everytime she saw my posts online being happy and living the best of my life. Yet, she's not happy for me.

We reconciled.

Sinabi ko sa kanya na dadating yung time for her to get everything that she wants.

We talked for almost a year and the same routine.

But eventually, she blocked me and unfriended me once again.

After that, di na ako nagpaligoy-ligoy, I'm sad and hurt. So, I blocked her also sa lahat ng socmed ko. And I don't want any connections about her. And I don't think it's healthy for both of us. I ended the friendship that day.

And this year, she messaged my husband saying to reconcile and saying she missed me. She also added that my husband should take care of me and ipa-kumusta sa'kin but wala na talaga akong amor and wala na akong balak pang ibalik yung connection and friendship na meron kami dati.

Am I right with my decisions?

Hi, I'm 26F and my husband is 36M. We've been married for almost 3 years. Before kami magkakilala, we are both from long term relationships, ako 4 years, siya 7 years. Those relationships ended in bad terms.

So, eto na nga, may asawa yung ex ng husband ko sa unang asawa niya, both girls (10 & 15)

It just happened na ini-stalk ako ng anak nung ex niya sa TT, nasa recent profile views siya. Hindi ko alam na siya 'yun, so curious ako kung sino, and to my surprise yung anak na bunso ng ex niya, around 9 or 10 years old. I stalked her too. I saw all her reposts after she stalked me, she hated me raw for ruining her family and even mentioning my full name on that repost, not like naka-tag sa repost. She also said that he already misses her stepdad, and she hates me for breaking their family apart.

And even curses me.

I was so sad and nervous, kasi I never knew na ganun pala ang tingin nila sa'kin, inagaw ko ang asawa ko sa kanila.

Add ko lang, nagkilala kami ng asawa ko 5 or 6 months na silang hiwalay nung ex niya. Ako naman 1 year ng single that time.

I opened it to my husband calmly, and he said he would explain and message her to clear my name. And even said na he would admit na kasalanan niya pero hindi naman talaga kasi yung ex niya naman talaga ang nagloko. LDR kasi sila that time and everytime na babalik ang asawa ko abroad, may ibang lalaki ang ex niya and even dinadala pa sa bahay nila. Nalaman ng ex ko, 2 years pa after mag-chat yung lalaki nitong ex niya sa husband ko na gf niya daw tong ex niya. And nagkabukingan.

Actually, dinadala pa sa bahay nung ex niya yung lalaki and alam ng mga bata. And no one dares to speak up and magsumbong sa husband ko.

Nagalit ako sa asawa ko kasi gusto niyang linisin ang pangalan ko kaso ayoko na silang may connection. I already gave him a year to adjust and settle his relationship with them clearly and cleaned.

He even gave food, shoes and everything na gusto ng mga bata lalo na tong bunso.

I already gave him that kasi matagal din ang 7 years and napalapit na ang mga bata sa kaniya.

I gave him that to close and set that boundaries. Pero ganito ang nangyari.

I even unfriend them sa socmed ng asawa ko after a year as a respect nalang sa'kin as his wife.

Mali bang nagalit ako na mawalan na sila ng communication ?

Anong mas maganda, mag-DIY travel nalang papuntang Hanoi-Sapa Vietnam or just book a tour package?

Anong mga pwedeng gawin kapag DIY lang.

Any tips?

Just wanna hear your thoughts here.

Mababait daw tao dito eh.

Ito na nga

May lote kaming nabili and pag mamay-ari ng SSS. May mga naunang nakatira dun, na-open yun for bidding and nanalo kami. In some way, yung dating nakatira is binenta yung 1/4 ng lupa sa isang cancer patient and pinatayuan nila ng tirahan. Nakaalis na yung nakatira dun na nagbenta netong lupa, napaalis na namin. Pero itong binentahan nila ng lupa, ayaw umalis and gustong magpabayad ng almost million leave there permanently.

We already filed this sa barangay, however ayaw pa rin makipag-cooperate sa amin, nakikipagmatigasan siya kasi nabili niya raw. We hired an attorney to settle that issue. However, ang pricey ng attorney. Hinahabol kasi namin yung discount na 10% ng total amount ng lupa if mapaalis namin sila dun.

We already tried to settle it with money worth 100k but somehow ayaw niya. Gusto niya mas malaki. Which is yung million na gusto niya is ka-price lang nung lupang binili namin.

Nakapag-hearing na kami and after that she decided to get the 75k settlement para umalis na siya and babayaran namin yung first half this month and 2nd half once nakaalis na sila.

Nanghihinayang lang ako kasi, sana pala si SSS nalang nagpaalis sa kanila. Yung gastos namin is much higher than 10% discount ng SSS. Di na sana hinabol. Arghhh. Gastos sa attorney and gastos sa pag-file and settlement is super costly.

Anyway, di ako ang nagde-decide, mother niya. Btw, she's the representative ng asawa ko.

I already inform my husband, but somehow, mas nasusunod pa rin naman gusto nila. Ayoko ng makialam.

Nakaka-stress.