u/Worldcitizen_48

I'm 23F, not thinking about having kids soon, but in 10 years maybe. I was diagnosed with high blood pressure when I was 7. Honestly I think my high blood pressure is due to anxiety when I'm in hospitals, but I take meds since I'm 11 and it's controlled now. I'm just afraid that if I get pregnant I can die because of my medical history. I want to ask the moms here if being hypertensive caused you additional complications during labour? Did you keep taking blood pressure meds? Is it dangerous to become a mom will being hypertensive?

I'm a cup D so I don't think my boobs are big big, but they are above average. I've always hated having big boobs while growing up but now that I'm 23 I think it's kind of fun. I don't have any back pain and I like to use low-cut clothes and notice them jumping a bit. I find it kind of cute 😅 Finding a bikini or a bra that fits them perfectly is not easy but I'm starting to enjoy not using any bra at all. I think they just fit my body perfectly because I'm tall and I have a hourglass/ inverted triangle body.

I just feel happy to finally see the beauty in my boobs. All boobs are beautiful girlies, sending you all so much love 🫶🏾😚

I'm a cup D so I don't think my boobs are big big, but they are above average. I've always hated having big boobs while growing up but now that I'm 23 I think it's kind of fun. I don't have any back pain and I like to use low-cut clothes and notice them jumping a bit. I find it kind of cute 😅 Finding a bikini or a bra that fits them perfectly is not easy but I'm starting to enjoy not using any bra at all. I think they just fit my body perfectly because I'm tall and I have a hourglass/ inverted triangle body.

I just feel happy to finally see the beauty in my boobs. All boobs are beautiful girlies, sending you all so much love 🫶🏾😚

I'd move mountains, navigate turbulent seas

so I could heard the sound of my laugh.

When I smile the whole darkness dissipates

and turns into bright gold.

I could give me all the flowers in the world

and the beauty of my soul

would still be the most colorful thing in the universe.

I wish I only lived under the moonlight

so I could feel l'm looking deep into my eyes.

If I had to choose the dumbest thing someone can do,

it would be losing me.

I cannot feldon the idea of someone having me

and not cherish me the way I cherish myself.

The purest love lives within me for the others are a reflection of that love.

During my school years, I was the girl who would not get any attention from the guys. I saw my friends going on dates and boys having crushes on them, while I was just there existing 😅 I understood from a very early age I would never fit the beauty standard, so it made me realise I didn't even have to try, because the attention would never be on me. The girls who get all the attention from the boys were far more insecure than me because they knew they were an option they knew they were in the "game". They would often change their look, their behavior to perfectly fit the standard set by society. As I understood I was the only person that saw my value I started to love myself unconditionally. I didn't need to change how I looked, I didn't have to change my behavior, because not matter what I did I would always be invisible to them anyways. I freed myself from the complexity of fitting a beauty standard that should've never existed.

During my school years, I was the girl who would not get any attention from the guys. I saw my friends going on dates and boys having crushes on them, while I was just there existing 😅 I understood from a very early age I would never fit the beauty standard, so it made me realise I didn't even have to try, because the attention would never be on me. The girls who get all the attention from the boys were far more insecure than me because they knew they were an option they knew they were in the "game". They would often change their look, their behavior to perfectly fit the standard set by society. As I understood I was the only person that saw my value I started to love myself unconditionally. I didn't need to change how I looked, I didn't have to change my behavior, because not matter what I did I would always be invisible to them anyways. I freed myself from the complexity of fitting a beauty standard that should've never existed.

I think it is time to address the elephant in the room and shut up the people that say "you'll only find love when you love yourself". That's totally false because romance is something that happens between two people. You can do all the work, love yourself unconditionally and still not find anyone. Life happens, people who are not a match to us keep appearing and there is nothing we can do to control it. What we can do it stop overrating romance as if it is a necessity for a human being. Human connects are important and we are social beings that's for sure, but we can still have amazing human connections that are not romantic. Romance is not a need it's just something that can or cannot happen during your life. We should stop treating it as if it is omething that is bound to happen to everyone.

I've been thinking this past few days and how do we consider normal living with the same person for years and years? For example, all of us reach a point that, even if we love our parents, we want to have a house of our own. So how are we supposed to live with the same person for many years and not getting tired of seeing them 24/7? I think that more marriages would work out if couples did not live together or at least did not share bedrooms. As an introvert this traditional idea of marriage would not work with me, I need my space. Even for my friends, I love them but I can't be 24/7 with them. I need at least two days a week only for myself. Moreover, when you are married people expect you to take your partner to every party or event. It seems like "yourself" doesn't exist anymore because you're a couple now.

I'm genuinely tired of almost everyone being so superficial when it comes to dating nowadays. It's all about hooking up and situationships. Some people even post cute photos on social media trying to portray a perfect relationship when sometimes they are miserable. When did the dating world become so dystopian to the point that you're made fun of for dating someone society thinks is "ugly"? Like, are we dating because we love each other or are we dating for others approval? When did these stupid rules ("3 month rules" or "if they do this they don't love you") started to be taken seriously? We are humans, shouldn't feelings be our strength? Because that's the only think that currently distinguishes us from technology.