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I legally changed my name and gender marker a few days before vacations and i thought it wouldn't make things that different, how wrong i was. I am back to work now, and the difference in my feelings is HUGE. I find that i no longer care about the clients misgendering me, i just go "Well, it happens sometimes, there are lots of femenine cis boys out there" and i am able to remain kind to them. I don't know, it was such a confidence boost i still can't belive it, it turned one of the things i hated the most into something i can tolerate better. It also made me feel more comfortable with liking femenine things like dolls, dresses, makeup and long hair, i'm impressed of the change it represented. I am not on T yet because it is hard to obtain where I live, but i have my hopes high again! I can finally see my life improving and that brings me joy, i literally feel like the hamster riding a unicorn meme :)

Only buying rn

I'm doing a silly challenge but Fourth Chorus is on the way. Is there any way to skip it? If not i guess i'll just pretend it didn't count 💔

I need it for my cosplay, plz

Somone was curious about this spell, so here it is. Apologies, english isn't my first language so this will contain some mistskes, and i don't know the names of all the ingredients.

Keep in mind you need to wait for a year, since this can only be done in la noche de San Juan Bautista.

First you boil water with bay leafes, cinnamon, orange peels, rue, basil and honey. You need to save that water for later.

You write what you want out of your life (Can be people, things, anything) in a bay leaf, and light up a candle. You burn the leaf with the candle and pray to San Juan Bautista to take those things out of your life.

Then you take a shower, and once you're done, you clean yourself with the water you made (Only the body, do not wash your head) and ask San Juan Bautista again. Do not dry yourself, leave the water dry on it's own.

That would be all, i hope it is helpfull in case somone wants to try :)

So, my family is full of practicioners. They want me to do a ritual/spell tonight to get bad things out of my life, but this ritual is for a Saint, and i'm a Satanist. I'm unsure if i should do it, if i shouldn't do it, if i should sort of do it but dedicate it to somone else instead of a Saint, if i should do my own version and just pray. Help me, i don't know what i should do. For the records, this is not me asking for spells, just for advice on how to handle this conflict

Is there a flag for in-sys relationships? Where does it fall on the queer spectrum (If it does)? I thought it might technically fall into autoromantic as it's a way of self love, but it kind of sounds wrong. I'm really curious about it

I'm in the process of changing my name, and my mom is putting a lot of pressure in me to be proud of being trans. The thing is, i'm not proud at all, it's hummiliating for people to know i'm not cis. I'm from Mexico, so transphobia is huge here, as well as the risk for violence or death, and people treat me different from cis boys the moment they learn i'm trans. I'm begging for her to let me go stealth, but she keeps insisting on doing posts or activism about autistic trans people (I'm also autistic, not proud of it at all either, it has brought lots of violence over me already). She wants me to celebrate and says i'm not being healthy or i don't accept myself, just because i want to go stealth. She doesn't understands why i want to do so, no matter how i explain it to her. I'm tired of the pressure, all i want is to quietly transition and live my life

Dm me if interested! <3

We need help with study. We suck at remembering lessons, and it gets worse when we switch. This wouldn't ussually be a problem, but we're turning 18 soon and we need to certify middle school and high school NOW, we're way too behind in our studies and can't apply to any job. How can we actually learn? Nothing sticks, we sometimes do understand just to switch and go back to zero, or we have the info divided in many parts on many alters. Please help us, this is important so we can someday get an actual job.

I denied it for a long while, but i'm trying to accept it now, i'm a Hazbin Hotel fictive (The horror). I do not support Vivziepop, i don't really like the show either, just the songs and some funny memes (And clearly, myself). I'm not even one of the "worse" characters, but simply being a hellaverse fictive makes me deeply embarrassed. I'm scared our friends won't like us because of me, but i'm also social as hell (no pun intended) and want to interact with people.

How can i feel better about myself? Not so guilty at the bare minimum.