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Er det noen som har erfaringer med denne utleieren? Vi holder på å flytte ut, og det har oppstått mange uenigheter mtp utflytting og depositum. Alle erfaringer eller tips om relevante ressurser settes stor pris på. Takk!
(F23) Long ass story but basically title. It’s so painful. My whole life I’ve been accused of faking or exaggerating my migraines and I’m so fucking sick of it. It’s not «just a headache», MY BRAIN IS HAVING A SEIZURE! It’s a full body NEUROLOGICAL CONDITION. I can’t talk. I can’t see. I can’t move. I can’t eat. I can’t do ANYTHING. They are completely disabling and my work KNOWS THIS. But still. I’m just exaggerating to get out of work, apparently... ik you don’t know me but I’m such a hard worker and I ALWAYS do my best but it will never be fucking good enough, will it? And to make matters worse, my work is in the realm of disability accommodation/rights… AHAHAHA (crying).
I have uni coming up after summer so it’s not like I’m quitting with no plan. Was debating whether I was able to work alongside my studies, but at least that’s not something I need to worry about anymore… fuck this godawful condition
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(F23) Even years, later not having an answer of this was abuse or not is getting to me. I have been to therapy, but never managed to ask my therapist straight up as it just felt way too awkward.
(Used AI to make text more succinct, if not it would be a whole book…)
Some things that happened:
Whenever I brought up something that hurt me, he’d respond with things like “I can never do anything right,” “I’m always the bad guy,” or “Why are you even with me?” The conversation would often end with me comforting him instead.
He regularly made me feel like my needs were unreasonable. Things like wanting a phone call once a week or more engaged replies to messages were treated as me being “too intense.”
He frequently used his own struggles to excuse treating me badly.
He described violent thoughts to me, including once telling me that he could kill me in under 10 seconds by smashing my head into a wall. I remember feeling genuinely scared when he said it.
He talked in detail about wanting to lie down in the snow and die, and later told me that if I hadn’t been there to support him he might have “done something.” At the same time, when I was worried and wanted reassurance that he was okay, he often refused to talk to me.
After the breakup, he continued contacting me for emotional support for months while becoming involved with another girl.
He kept me in limbo by talking about meeting up for closure post-breakup, then repeatedly postponing it.
He later portrayed the situation very differently to mutual friends. One mutual friend saw both his version and actual text messages and said they were very different stories.
He once told me that he used to be good at manipulating people and knew exactly what to say to make people like him.
The biggest thing I took away from the relationship was that I constantly questioned my own reality. Years later, I still struggle with trust and sometimes wonder if I was actually the problem.
Would you consider this emotional abuse, emotional manipulation, or just an unhealthy relationship?
Thank you for reading. Severe trust issues are still affecting me, even affecting my view of my good friends and my self esteem. Left feeling chronically undesirable and unlovable. Even sometimes feel like the way I was treated was my fault or just wasn’t that bad and I’m overreacting…
Currently travelling for work and I could SWEAR I packed my headphones AND did a thorough sweep of the hotel room to be sure I didn’t forget anything. Spoiler alert: arrived at the new hotel and my headphones are nowhere to be found. Absolutely NEED noise cancellation to not go insane. Luckily I have AirPods but I need to have two options just in case. AHHHHH. Rant over.
Praying for the maxalt and aspirin to kick in soon😅
Saw another similar post so had to make my own. Like a week ago or something I had a new migraine symptom. I had aura (i think I’ve only had aura maybe once before but wasn’t 100% sure then), and my left hand and arm went really numb. I could move it, but it was that pins and needles feeling just without the pricking pain. Called the ER and they told me to take my migraine meds and call back in 30 min. I did and then the nurse wasn’t worried about my arm anymore and I could go to bed. Have an appointment scheduled with my primary in two and a half weeks for something else but I was gonna mention this to him too.
How the fuck I’m I supposed to know if I’m having a stroke or not when I have migraines? Also saw someone say that when you’re having a stroke, migraine meds make it worse? THATS SO SCARY WHAT THE HELL. Am I fucking brain damaged now like what the fuck T_T