Image 1 — I finally made a real friend at school >X3
Image 2 — I finally made a real friend at school >X3
Image 3 — I finally made a real friend at school >X3
Image 4 — I finally made a real friend at school >X3
Image 5 — I finally made a real friend at school >X3

I finally made a real friend at school >X3

Okay. So, the first person I tried befriending on the bus was just kinda where we talked for one day and that was it, which kinda sucks because I was already running low on star beads and decided to use them for her bracelet. On the other hand, last Friday a girl told me that I looked cool, so that Sunday I made the bracelet shown above, this is probably the biggest kandi thing i've ever made ngl! And this time, we're actually friends!!! This morning she gave me a piece of opossum jaw and are already discussing cosplays we could do together!! I THINK I'VE FINALLY MADE A NEW REAL FRIEND THAT WON'T ACT LIKE THEY DON'T KNOW ME AFTER A YEAR THIS IS SUCH A BIG ACCOMPLISHMENT!! >:3

u/_SoapyChocolate_ — 1 day ago

Where to buy ethical tails?

Do y'all know of anywhere where I can get an ethical swift fox tails and raccoon tails that aren't too expensive? Preferably similar to my other ones in the picture. I don't really have anyone around where I live that I can ask or anything, so it'd have to be online shops

u/_SoapyChocolate_ — 4 days ago

Made this lil guy piercings >:]

They aren't my ESSA (while they are weighted, they don't help me that much because imo bigger but thiner plushes help) but I just thought y'all would appreciate this. The other day I found wire that i've been saving and so I made them piercings then remembered that I owned spiked bracelets sooo yeah. They don't have a name yet, i'm thinking Berry but if y'all have any other/better name ideas you can lemme know :3

u/_SoapyChocolate_ — 5 days ago
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Need y'all's thoughts on what kandi I should make and if this decorated x-band is hard

So someone this morning told me that I dressed cool, so now I wanna make them kandi because idk, I enjoy giving nice people trinkets and stuff. The second image shows what I made someone else on my bus but i'm lowkey running out of stars and enjoy using stars a bunch but my moms tired of bringing me to Hobby Lobby soooo now is a good time to try stuff I haven't done yet! The first image shows what I thought might be good but I don't know how easy it'll be. So far i've only made a small ladder cuff, small stars, big stars, singles, and that bone bracelet, so I don't know how hard the x-band would be compared to these. Also, any other ideas of kandi I should try making I would gladly take! X3

u/_SoapyChocolate_ — 6 days ago

Which plushie do I bring?

Which plushie should I bring with me to church? I say just "plushie" because these aren't my ESSA, my ESSA is a giant cigarette plushie but one, it won't fit in my bag. And two, church isn't really an appropriate place for that imo. So, my mom is trying to change churches because she doesn't agree with one of the things being taught (aka she doesn't like the church we've been going to because they support LGBTQ+ and she believes it's wrong and that they shouldn't support that). I'm really anxious about this new church... usually, at my normal church they do things like costume contests around Halloween and trick-or-treating and having the hallways filled with confetti and I always felt good going in there in my own style and I wouldn't ever get judged for it (my usual day to day outfits outside of school usually consists of me wearing a whole bunch of kando bracelets and taxidermy tails), but I feel like this new church is gonna make me feel bland, insecure, and unaccepted because i'm bi. Anyways, I don't know who to bring with me. My fox plushie (soft af), a scalemate plushie my friend made me (my beatie is my favorite person ever), or Oliver (my fictional son)

(If this has the wrong flair please let me know! It was kinda a mix of question and vent so I didn't know which one to choose)

u/_SoapyChocolate_ — 11 days ago

Has this only happened to me and should I just never use it again?

I finally got the courage to message The Trevor Project people (recommend by someone from a Free Mom Hugs booth at an Expo) when it got bad again and it genuinely sucked for me... I started waiting in line at 6:36 PM, I waited until 7:21 PM. That's 45 minutes of just waiting. I didn't even end up using it for 30 minutes because it actually made me feel a tad bit worse. It sounded like they were just AI (ex. Saying "Thanks so much for letting me know. I hear where you're coming from") instead of a real person, there was no comfort, only just words. Once they told me "It sounds like it's been really hard to find anyone in your life you can connect with. What do you think you could do to navigate this situation?" Which... I came to them because I tried other things and they didn't work... did anyone else have these problems with The Trevor Project or was it just bad for me today and not give up on it?

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u/_SoapyChocolate_ — 11 days ago

Family stuff

My dad genuinely ticks me off so much whenever something ACTUALLY bothers me. When I got literally shoved to the ground by some teenager in my neighborhood and cursed out when I was in 7th grade? He said it was my fault even though I did literally nothing but run around playing with my friends. When I was stopped mid walking my dogs because my mom asked me to walk them by some full grown woman whose a SCHOOL COUNSELOR ran out of her car cursing me the f out because my dogs were walking on her grass, even though they were leashed. My dad said it was my fault again. I bought a spiked choker for cosplay but wore it outside of cosplay because originally my whole secret plan was to say it was for cosplay then have it to just wear around because I feel like it looks cool, and the first thing my dad said to me that day when he first even saw me with it on he said "Whose your daddy." clearly trying to imply that he thinks it always implies something sexual then continued to push when I said to stop and that there was nothing sexual about it and then he said "I'm not making it sexual" like... yes, you are. Now, me and my little brother are playing and goofing off, just trying to kinda push eachother around a tad, and I took a picture of him through some goofy ahh window because my parents are shopping for new windows. My little brother took my moms phone to take a picture of me back (don't worry, he didn't mind the picture I took of him and was laughing hard from how goofy it looked, if he asked or told me to delete it I would without question) and I kinda struggle with self image already but getting semi-better but I think pictures of me in general try to kinda jab at that insecurity but in all honesty I kinda think he's too young to really understand hating your body and i'm not gonna explain it to him so I was trying to grab the phone from him to delete it in a playful way because he was trying to keep it away, then I manage to get the phone and delete it and my dad sees us goofin off and goes "What? What's going on?" and I just went "Oh, he took a picture of me so i'm deleting it" and then he went "So what? We're in public. I'll take a picture of you right now." and I genuinely get a bit anxious about people taking photos of me in public that I don't know because i'm wearing my taxadermy tails and I feel like it'd probably just be taken of me to show their friends and make fun of me or something. He didn't take a picture but I felt really uncomfortable. But also, my moms really homophobic and my dad I think is a bit but not fully, he was the only one I could get comfort from whenever my mom gets mad about me with something LGBTQ+ related, she's still nice but things get tense when it comes to LGBTQ+. Idk, I'm just so excited to move out away from them and live my own life but even that's against me because everything's way too expensive.

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u/_SoapyChocolate_ — 12 days ago
▲ 16 r/kandi+1 crossposts

Just some kandi I made :3

Someone really cool looking sat next to me on the bus so if they sit by me again im planning on giving them this kandi in an attempt to befriend them because I don't know how to talk to people 👍

All last year they sat on the row opposite of mine and they looked cool then too and usually wore a GIR hoodie (lowkey jealous but it's fine) so I was contemplating making them an Invader Zim kandi too but I genuinely don't know if they'll sit there again or not and my mom doesn't know about (and 100% wouldn't like) Invader Zim so I can't even wear it myself sooooo yeah

u/_SoapyChocolate_ — 14 days ago

My evil plan 😼

I can't post the picture because it isn't a weekend but to school i've decided to wear my Sollux from Homestuck shirt... mwhahahha. That way, if someone's like "Oh hey, I like your shirt!" I'll go "Thanks, its from Homestuck" and they'll go "I know 😼" and then we'll be like besties and yippeeeeeeeeeee! I'm so tired 😭

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u/_SoapyChocolate_ — 15 days ago

Just me yapping about an Expo I went to :P

I just got home from a day at an Expo and it was great!! Everyone there was super nice and there were some great cosplays (not going to add their pictures because I didn't ask permission, but they were epic)! There were so many vendors and games, but I mainly felt like the majority of vendors were selling Pokémon or DnD stuff (FINALLY less 3d printed slop). Also, last year when I went I wanted to go to the Free Mom Hugs booth but just couldn't find it but this year I found it really easily, it was amazing. I'm not even lying when I say I was THIS close to breaking down in this woman's arms because she was so reassuring, she asked me if I could tell my counselors or anyone besides my two main friends and I can't so she recommend me something called The Trevor Project which I might use in the future. My mom's VERYYYY homophobic (she learned in the middle of a Mellow Mushroom that I was bi, didn't talk to me or seem to want to look at me for two straight days, then continued to brush it off and continue thinking im straight). I'll have to hide the very clear LGBTQ+ bracelets and the papers for the earings and suncatcher, but that shouldn't be a problem. Y'all, I also got to meet the voice actor of the hand unit in FNaF!!! I didn't get his picture or signature because each cost $50 and I wasn't about to pay that much just for that, so I took a picture of the booth when he was gone

u/_SoapyChocolate_ — 18 days ago
▲ 13 r/kandi

Tomorrow I finally get to give these to my friends!!

Tomorrow i'm finally going to be able to give my friends the kandi I made for them!!! The big stars are all based on my friends favorite characters and the small ones are some of their flags! (For my friend that has the Lassiter big star, she only had one flag and I didn't want her to have less kandi so I made her a Psych single)! Tomorrow i'll also hopefully find someone trans to give the star trans to >:]

u/_SoapyChocolate_ — 19 days ago

How to fix a torn up zipper?

So I need y'all's help BAD. I bought a big bag to bring with me to an expo so I had something to carry all my props for my cosplay and the stuff i'm gonna buy, but I've been also just carrying it around as a normal bag because yes. But one of my dogs ripped the zipper trying to get something in it while I was out. I managed to make the good portion of the zipper still functional and put a safety pin as a stopper, but I need to fix this bag by THIS Saturday... I was wondering if it's possible to just cut the bad portion of the zipper off and put a different zipper in that place or if I need to put in a whole new zipper. I don't have enough time to order another bag. I've tried looking online but all the tutorials but I wasn't able to find any

u/_SoapyChocolate_ — 22 days ago

Michael Afton cosplay!!

FINALLY FINISHED MY MICHAEL AFTON FOXYBRO COSPLAY AFTER AROUND TWO MONTHS OF WORKING ON THIS FREAKING MASK!! THE HOT GLUE BURNS HAVE PAID OFF! It isn't perfect, but I personally feel like it's peak

u/_SoapyChocolate_ — 23 days ago

What animal can I turn this into?

So this was one of the bases I was originally going to use as my Foxybro mask base but I thought the eyes were way too small for my liking so I remade it. I used this mask base as a way to practice gluing and attaching things before I did it to my main mask because I've never done this before, but I really don't wanna just toss this out, any ideas of what I can do to fix the eyes and what animal I can turn this into?

u/_SoapyChocolate_ — 25 days ago

Do I need wider elastic?

I'm wondering if I need a thicker/wider elastic strip for my Foxybro mask to actually stay or not, does it even matter though?? In tutorials I see them have wider elastic, but i'm going to the store tomorrow and would like to know if I should pick up a different size or not

u/_SoapyChocolate_ — 27 days ago

Ideas for gifts at an expo?

What kinda stuff should I make to give people at the expo i'm going to? I can sew, use perler beads, and use kandi beads! I don't know what to make out of them though. I might make some fandom something something incase I see someone nice from that fandom, but other than that I've got no ideas other than basic kandi things like stars

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u/_SoapyChocolate_ — 29 days ago

Should I paint my nails?

So, i'm cosplaying FNaF Michael Afton (Foxybro) and it's going along pretty well, but I don't know what I should do about my nails. They're currently longer than what i'm going to have them as for the expo (i'm gonna make em really short), but I don't know if I should paint my nails black or not or if the gloves with the bracelets looks dumb. I feel like the black nail polish may bring too much edginess and I have no problem keeping them unpainted, I just want y'all's opinion on it!

u/_SoapyChocolate_ — 1 month ago

Would this fabric work to line my mask?

So I just now decided that I would like to line my Foxybro mask to make it look a bit nicer from the inside and I found this fabric as I was trying to find something big enough to work. In the second picture it shows that you can actually see through it if you're close, I don't know exactly what material this is, but would it work to line my mask?

u/_SoapyChocolate_ — 1 month ago

Elastic band help

I've been working on a FNaF foxybro mask for an upcoming expo and now I just realized something... the mask is going to be on the side of my head the majority of the time... but masks have elastic to keep it on- so how the frick do I make it so there isn't elastic going across my face without the mask just falling off? I will occasionally pull it onto my face, but it won't be there the whole time. Will I need to change ideas and just wear it so it's like where I pull it down to put it on instead of from side to side?

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u/_SoapyChocolate_ — 1 month ago

Should I use a bit of makeup or not??

So I've been currently working on making a Michael Afton (FNaF) Foxybro cosplay. I feel like I've got the majority left, I just want to finish painting my mask and try to make my voice sound a bit deeper because i'm a girl (it isn't going that well so I probably won't do it but still😭). Anyways, I don't know what to do makeup wize. I keep seeing tutorials that are all like "even if you're cosplaying a guy adding makeup can make a huge difference". I'm a beginner cosplayer and I rarely wear makeup in general, but do I even need makeup? If y'all recommend it, is there any way I can use basic ahh makeup and tell me where to apply it? I have all the really basic things and brushes, but I also don't think a full face of makeup is the way to go. Idk, y'all know more about this than me

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u/_SoapyChocolate_ — 1 month ago