Piled on and I don't unferstand why!

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We have this online communication log at work (basically just a Google word document that everyone has access to). Last week I asked what I thought was a really innocent question in it and today on my first shift back I couldn't believe what I read undereath!

The first comment was by a very toxic coworker that everyone has problems with and although it was super rude it didn't really bug me because it is very typical of her (she does it to everyone) and I'm trying really hard to just not let her craziness trigger me.

After that, though, 2 other coworkers (who I had thought were nice people but I don't really know very well) made really rude comments basically berating me for what they must have perceived my question to mean, not what it actually said or what I meant at all.

It really hurt my feelings and made me sad but also angry because it feels like they took an innocent question and assumed the worst. I ended up bursting out crying at work and now I'm absolutely dreading the next time I see them.

I know I'm too sensitive; but man I hate mean girls. I left junior high a long time ago. I just don't get it.

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u/alteredgirl — 8 days ago

Piled on and I don't understand why

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We have this online communication log at work (basically just a Google word document that everyone has access to). Last week I asked what I thought was a really innocent question in it and today on my first shift back I couldn't believe what I read undereath!

The first comment was by a very toxic coworker that everyone has problems with and although it was super rude it didn't really bug me because it is very typical of her (she does it to everyone) and I'm trying really hard to just not let her craziness trigger me.

After that, though, 2 other coworkers (who I had thought were nice people but I don't really know very well) made really rude comments basically berating me for what they must have perceived my question to mean, not what it actually said or what I meant at all.

It really hurt my feelings and made me sad but also angry because it feels like they took an innocent question and assumed the worst. I ended up bursting out crying at work and now I'm absolutely dreading the next time I see them.

Do I bring it up and say that's not what I meant and it really hurt my feelings?

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u/alteredgirl — 8 days ago

Piled on and I don't understand why

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We have this online communication log at work (basically just a Google word document that everyone has access to). Last week I asked what I thought was a really innocent question in it and today on my first shift back I couldn't believe what I read undereath!

The first comment was by a very toxic coworker that everyone has problems with and although it was super rude it didn't really bug me because it is very typical of her (she does it to everyone) and I'm trying really hard to just not let her craziness trigger me.

After that, though, 2 other coworkers (who I had thought were nice people but I don't really know very well) made really rude comments basically berating me for what they must have perceived my question to mean, not what it actually said or what I meant at all.

It really hurt my feelings and made me sad but also angry because it feels like they took an innocent question and assumed the worst. I ended up bursting out crying at work and now I'm absolutely dreading the next time I see them.

Do I bring it up and say that's not what I meant and it really hurt my feelings?

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u/alteredgirl — 8 days ago

Piled on and I don't understand why

We have this online communication log at work (basically just a Google word document that everyone has access to). Last week I asked what I thought was a really innocent question in it and today on my first shift back I couldn't believe what I read undereath!

The first comment was by a very toxic coworker that everyone has problems with and although it was super rude it didn't really bug me because it is very typical of her (she does it to everyone) and I'm trying really hard to just not let her craziness trigger me.

After that, though, 2 other coworkers (who I had thought were nice people but I don't really know very well) made really rude comments basically berating me for what they must have perceived my question to mean, not what it actually said or what I meant at all.

It really hurt my feelings and made me sad but also angry because it feels like they took an innocent question and assumed the worst. I ended up bursting out crying at work and now I'm absolutely dreading the next time I see them.

Do I bring it up and say that's not what I meant and it really hurt my feelings?

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u/alteredgirl — 8 days ago

My "I'm super hungry but also super tired" girl lunch.

This plus 3 more 32 Oz. Drinks for the taste but also the caffeine! I have so many projects I wanna do today! Wish me luck!

u/alteredgirl — 12 days ago
▲ 364 r/vinted

Dear vinted sellers...

As a buyer only, I have a strong suggestion for 'hopefully' newbies selling on vinted.

Sellers please don't message "are you interested?" Or "do you want this?" Or something similar just because I favorite something. It takes all my resolve not to message something super sarcastic back like " No I'm not at all interested but my doctor said it would be good for my blood pressure if I favorite random listings on vinted."

Of course I'm interested! On ebay, Amazon, Etsy, and a ton of other platforms you like stuff and then come back to it later. If it happens to be gone by the time I get back to it, that's my problem.

It is a total turn off for me and actually makes me want to un-favorite the item when someone does this.

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u/alteredgirl — 12 days ago
▲ 4 r/vinted

Seller canceled and I don't understand!?

I just had a seller cancel a sale after I bought it, didn't bother to warn me or say why, hasn't answered me when I asked why. This was maybe my 10th purchase on vinted. Does anyone have a good reason why someone would do this unless they decided they had not charged enough for the item? It was a good price on a fairly new Build a Bear; I know because they've only been offering this design for several months or so.

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u/alteredgirl — 2 months ago

So I tried to sign into Pinterest on an older tablet I havecwhich I guess still hadhpre-saved settings of an account that I know at one time was banned because I was really upset about it.

Anyway, it opened right up to this older account and I seemed to have full access to it even though I don't think I appealed the ban or anything. So is Pinterest re-activating old once banned accounts without you doing anything now?

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u/alteredgirl — 4 months ago