u/aristuurtle

what the title says.

i recently turned 18 and my mom has an astrologer/pandit whom she asks everything. she recently consulted him regarding me and what i should do in the future. she's very big on astrology, reiki, wellness etc and consults him on all big occassions so this was normal behaviour.

BUT the pandit told her that i have to HAVE TO marry when i'm 22 years old and woh bhi only and ONLY marry a guy 7 years elder to me. the pandit ji offered no explaination for this and honestly my mom didn't ask also. she blindly believes whatever he says and she seems really serious about this. he also said i should steer clear of boyfriends. wow.

i just KNOW that they're screwed

if students get their answersheets and the scanning and marking errors are made public then CBSE is done for

i'm starting uni next year and i have somewhere to be around may 15ish 2027

so you know how sanjay kumar said that 13000 answer sheets had scanning errors and were checked manually?

well i think that those 13000 sheets were the ones that we checked properly and all of those students scored well.

after this manual checking happened with 13000 kids, too many errors came up in other answersheets also and instead of having those sheets checked manually, CBSE told the teachers to just give random marks (as said by many teachers) to save time.

ive noticed this pattern in alot of schools that in pcm/pcb, only 1 person has very good marks and the others are stuck in 70-80s.

i'm giving the iiith admission interview in june but there isn't much info on the internet about it, especially for offline interviews.

can you please explain the entire interview process; like from the email they send with slots, to the documentation needed, to the security check in at the university to the interview and the questions asked.

thank you so so so much

i love you please batado

i got 91% overall in top 5 subjects ( PCM with CS and economics) but my PCM marks are 74.33 percent so i'm missing the BITS eligibility criteria by 1 mark

i'm almost certain that i can have a mark increased via reevaluation and can score better in improvement exam

i got 323 marks in BITSAT session 1 and i'll get CS at pilani but i'm so scared that reevaluation/ improvement result won't be out by the time counselling starts.

can someone please explain the counselling process with dates etc and by when the reevaluated marks are released. i just need some hope to not fall into depression

my uncle works in the ministry that decides travel infrastructure and funds and he told my parents that in the coming few weeks, airfare prices are going to skyrocket because of the oil crisis.

our country is already edging towards recession (modi’s speech about not buying gold, not going abroad etc)

there’s a big possibility that even domestic flights will get really costly.

i live really really far away from hyderabad and on top of that, my parents are too busy to take me for the interview. i’m sure that alot of othere are also in the same boat where travelling sm will be inconvenient

so please can we request iiith to do online interviews??

this is a bit explicit i’m so sorry. please don’t call me stupid.

i (17f, 18 in like 2 days) have been dating my bf (20m) for around 3 years now. we’ve been apart for the past two years because he’s in college and i’m finishing school. he came back home three weeks ago for his sister’s engagement party and we hung out alot. throughout that week that he was here, he was touchier than usual and initially, i didn’t mind it much, infact i liked it. then he casually told me that he really wanted to have sex with me. first i thought he was joking because the max we had done till then was making out. we hadn’t even reached the 2nd base. but he said he was serious and told me that all his friends are in sexual relationships and he feels “left out” in their convos (i found this so so so weird because why do they talk about sex in a group)

idk why but to me, his words sounded alot like he was saying “have sex with me or i’ll find another girl” i’m a little bit of an overthinker. i asked my friends and they also thought the same thing but told me not to get pressurised into doing it with him. i should’ve listened to them but i didn’t

on the last day before he went back, i decided to just go for it. i was already stressed about him cheating on me and he wasn’t talking to me properly either. i just wanted this weird tension to end. i went through alot of reddit threads about first times and i genuinely felt like i would be okay. i really love him and theres really no one else i can see myself with except him.

so i went to his house and he was obviously really happy when i told him i was ready. i felt happy that he was happy but the whole experience was so fucking weird. before we did it, he watched porn and jerked himself off. i asked why he was doing that and he didn’t reply, just pulled me along and made me also watch the video. we used protection and lube and even did foreplay but it still hurt so so bad. it felt like he was trying to copy the porn vid he watched like he even tried to cover my mouth. he was going way too fast and rough and i literally told him to calm down because it was hurting and he just said that it was hurting because he’s big.

afterwards i literally bled and i freaked out because i didn’t know what was happening. he said it was just my hymen breaking but i have read about hymens breaking and on google it says that it only happens if someone penetrates too roughly. i knew i would be okay but idk i felt really emotional so i cried and he literally scoffed in my face and said i was making a big deal out of nothing. i told him he was being mean so he dropped the mean act and became nice.

but his version of nice was also just saying weird shit like “lets go another round” “i love your body” i’m not clueless about sex, i’ve read my fair share of smut but honestly, comments like these are only nice when read in books. i felt like absolute dogshit when he began complimenting my body.

its been weeks since this thing and we haven’t discussed this even once. he keeps sending me reels about sex and making out and i feel like vomiting when i watch them.

he had exams going on rn so he hasn’t been texting much and when he does text me, its always these horny reels.

i feel so disgusted with myself for giving myself up so easily. this is probably the worst first time i could’ve had. i love this guy so much. i worked like an actual dog to get into the same university as him and i succeeded also but now, after this shitty and odd experience, i have no desire to be with him.

i keep on crying thinking about that night and i feel so disgusted with myself. i can’t talk to my friends because i don’t want them to judge me. talking to mom is out of question, she would kill me. my sister has her own problems to deal with.

what should i even do? break up? talk it out? idk? how do i deal with how im feeling? like the disgust with myself

I HATE MY SISTER'S IN LAWS. they are the absolute worst. my sister (25) got married to my jiju (29) last year. she is about to finish her MBA and has a really nice offer from accenture. she accepted the offer obviously. she told her in laws about it over lunch and instead of congratulating her, they just said "kya zaroorat hai job karne ki jab husband itna kama raha hai?" (what's the need to work when your husband is earning so much) my sister was expecting them to be happy for her but she was let down.

my sister has endometriosis and her husband and mother in-law know about this. jiju is fine with it and he never forces her to discuss kids etc. but his mom is obsessed with the idea of grandkids. initially when my sister told her about her endometriosis, she literally said, "defective maal pakad laya hai" (you've brought home damaged goods) to jiju INFRONT OF MY SISTER. jiju obviously told her to apologise to my sister but she didn't. she even got mad at jiju for siding with my sister and ignored him for a week. then my sister had to go behind her husband's back and apologise and beg her mother in law to not ignore him because she felt bad that her husband had fought with his mother because of her. since then, my sister mostly avoids telling him when his parents do something.

her MIL also keeps sending her pregnancy announcement photos, baby videos and concieving tips all the time. the baby videos are fine but the concieving tips are really weird and uncomfortable. one of them was literally about what position they should do it in to concieve the fastest. she also keeps saying that my sister is "infertile" when she isn't. endometriosis and inferitlity are completely different things. one day at some family party, her mother in law was sitting with her friends. my sister went to greet the women and her mother in law started introducing the women to her but not in the normal "this in sunita" way but like "this is sunita, she has 2 grandkids, her daughter just had a son" which was so fucking weird. then she also announced to those ladies that my sister has endometriosis and she has a low chance of having kids so she has given up her dreams of having a grandson one day. SO stupid.

her sister in law is also a piece of work. she's SO bitchy. she has two young kids (3&5 years old). one day the kids were at my sister and jiju's apartment because their parents had work. my sister was looking after them and they said they wanted icecream so my sister took them for icecream. when sister in law came to pick up the kids, they excitedly told her that mami had taken them to have ice cream and the sister in law started yelling at my sister for spoiling the kids? it was literally only ice cream. i understand that my sister should've asked her but she thought it would be alright because it was low cal ice cream. the sister in law said so much shit to my sister, called her irresponsible, careless and what not. my sister literally called me and cried for a solid hour. the sister in law is also always trying to gaslight my sister into having a baby and becoming a stay at home mom.

she doesn't tell her husband any of this and that's the worst part. jiju is really nice and he would genuinely put an end to all of this at once. but my sister doesn't wanna tell him anything bad about his family. idk her moral compass is too nice.

she doesn't even share this with our parents. she only tells me and my twin brother and we're only 17 so we have no clue how to help aside from call her and console her. how do i tell her to confide in her husband about all of this? he's the only one who can help.

so he’s a para SF officer( cue retarded TD fans calling him shashwat in my comment section😍🙏🏻)

i wanna name him either Eklavya or Ved

but idfk man my brain isn’t working

Eklavya Rana

i love this name but i think that Rana is a very overused surname on wattpad

other options are:

Abhimanyu Rana

Shivaditya Rana

should i add a singh in the middle?

Eklavya Singh Rana?