Baby sleeps during day up at night
This is long sorry, Hi ftm I have a 2 month old that as the title says sleeps during the day and up at night. He went to bed at 9am this/last morning. My mom watched him from a out 3pm to 9pm yesterday and she always lets him sleep all day so I'm thinking that's what she did yesterday because the day before he kind of sleep at night. He was up for 2-3 hours total but for the most part he was asleep which was the most sleep at night he's had in a while so I assumed he'd be up yesterday but apparently my mom let him sleep which led to him (I thought he was sleeping for the night but apparently he was napping) sleep at 1am-3am and napped maybe an hour or two but was up until he finally fell asleep at 9am.
He's been up at night sleeping during the day for I think a few weeks now. And how I now his sleep schedule is messed up is because when he "sleeps"/naps at night he'll wake up super easy or just straight up wakes up and won't go to sleep even when I leave him be or hold him,feed him etc. but during the day I can't keep him up at all. I've kind of wiggle his body and yell his name, nothing. I've banged on the counter in my room, played YouTube at loudest volume, the TV even banged on a pot and pan and it's like he was dead. Something he would never do at night that's how I know it's his actual sleeping. Plus he'll sleep 3 almost 4 hours during the day so that's obviously his night time. And after I feed him during the day he passes out like he's dead and I can lay him down wherever and he'll stay down and asleep.
How do I get him to do that but at night? I can't keep him up at all he's literally dead during the day. Idk how it got to this but it got to the point where I can shake him a little and he doesn't even move or put him down which he hates and he's sound asleep. Has anyone's baby gone through this? I literally can't sleep until he does which is from 7-9am and I'm a single mom I'm the only one who watches him at night and trying to go back to work soon what can I do please help