▲ 621 r/autism

Wile E Coyote is a lifelong special interest and I'm overjoyed

It's so rare to experience art that you had nothing to do with creating but that you know will make people understand you better having seen it, but that's how Coyote vs Acme has me feeling.

What I've always loved about the character is captured and articulated so clearly on screen, and this whole week with this movie coming out has felt so validating and like an otherwise private, personal piece of myself is being embraced and shared by others for the first time. It's overwhelming! ♥️

u/bakerstreetrat — 2 months ago

Ribbon drop!

Come to the "What Exactly is Kirby?" panel Sunday at 10 to get a Kirby ribbon!

u/bakerstreetrat — 2 months ago
▲ 1.8k r/tadc

You don't actually hate that Jax is trans.

You hate one or more of the following:

  1. You hate that the signs pointing to Jax being trans that resonated with others, particularly trans people, throughout the series did not resonate with you - potentially because you haven’t consumed much media that does not center or speak directly to your lived experience.
  2. You hate that the creator’s words on the character have been brought into the fandom discussion space as a response to 1), but mistakenly believe it’s being brought in as evidence that Jax is trans, because of 1).
  3. You hate that there is a large outpouring of celebration and support for Jax being trans when that is not one of the aspects of Jax’s complex character that resonates deeply with you.
  4. You hate that there is a large outpouring of celebration and support for Jax being trans when you feel that Jax, on the whole, does not deserve to be supported or celebrated at all due to her actions.

But if you hate that Jax being trans ruins the other aspects of her character, or the series on the whole, for you, or you hate seeing trans characters and/or people period, then congratulations! Its is, indeed, transphobia.

Thank you for your time.

u/bakerstreetrat — 3 months ago
▲ 19 r/lgbt

Question about transphobia

I'm a costumer/cosplayer. As such, I pay a lot of attention to how well pieces of clothing fit the person they're on (usually, myself). Crafting or purchasing items that fit my specific shape (almost) always look better than buying pieces outside of it, or one size fits all pieces. I never, and would never, tell a person they're not allowed to or shouldn't wear the costume they want, and I likewise would never tell a regular person that they weren't allowed to or shouldn't wear the clothes they want. It just comes down to what highlights and compliments what already makes you beautiful!

But I've encountered a few times the notion that pushing for clothes that are tailored to someone's specific shape/size is a form of transphobia, when - at least for my part - I see it as helpful and banal advice that I would give anyone. Same with makeup (both in terms of coloring and application). Does anyone else encounter this? Can you share why this is frowned upon?

Thank you! <3

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u/bakerstreetrat — 3 months ago
▲ 46 r/lgbt

I scheduled bottom surgery today!!

It's not until April, but it's in there! It's in the calendar! I did it! It's happening! Happy Pride!

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u/bakerstreetrat — 4 months ago
▲ 41 r/autism

Why do people keep thinking I'm a chatbot??

This is more of a rant than an actual question. In online spaces, I've been running into the accusation of being or using AI because of the way I communicate in my writing. I try to be very clear and precise in what I say, in general, but it's extra important online because of how easily tone and intention gets lost in writing. And due to my autism and its associated social difficulties, I'm at a high risk of being misunderstood, and I HATE being misunderstood.

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See I love "it's not x, it's not y, it's z," and using three adjectives with an Oxford comma to describe things, and dashes, and validating people's opinions before disagreeing with them. The list of things I do that have become "AI tells" keeps growing! I find myself editing my work by making it more incorrect - removing capital letters, apostrophes, commas, etc. Is this happening to anyone else?

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u/bakerstreetrat — 4 months ago
🔥 Hot ▲ 18.1k r/Shrek

It's actually not about the animation.

I think that's why no one is actually getting anywhere when trying to articulate what's wrong, and why they're getting so lost in the weeds about eyelashes and brow shapes and irises. It looks wrong - and it is - but it's hard to explain why, visually.

The animation is fine. The problem is the lack of realism. The guys on the left are very well animated cartoon characters, and as such, they do not look grounded in reality. They don't look grounded in physics, accentuating more cartoony, rubbery features closer to the animals in Madagascar than the vikings in How to Train Your Dragon. Immediately, that lowers the stakes. If the Donkey on the left was hit with a frying pan, I'd expect his face to smush and his eyes to roll around. If the Donkey on the right was hit by a frying pan, I'd expect him to bleed.

The new style takes away the humanity of the characters, and seeing the humanity in "fairy tale creatures," ogre or otherwise, is the entire heart of the franchise. That, I think, is why this is such a disappointment. It's not the animation, it's not nostalgia, it's a betrayal of actual human connection.

u/bakerstreetrat — 4 months ago