u/belle_onsteroids

A guy tried to shame me just because we have been having casual sex for a minute. Like thats the only thing I wanted from him ; of course I’ve asked money from him sometimes, we can go for drinks and stuff
But after we depart from our activities, I basically just forget about him and he’s the one who will reach out always,, trying to make plans for us to meet up and stuff but I “ghost “ him until I feel like the need to get with him.
So he starts to talk trash to me ? Aje sasa bro.
Its so funny because he wants me to get attached to him or something. Basically I am the one who “controls the relationship”
He should just accept his place because he’s acting like he the only man in my life suddenly after 8 months of just our casual relationship
Heeh

Haha we don't talk about men with daddy issues enough.

Why are you ass licking the likes of Kibe,Amerix etc .....

Why y'all need a man telling you how to live your lives lmao

Na on top of it its just hate on women and misleading a whole man who considers himself the head lmao,,mnanimalizanga

Hey y’all. I’m 22F (pretty face,chocolate skin,curvy,5’2) very Bi but I stopped dating guys like 2 years ago,I only dated one
Being honest I’m so much into girls(femmes and stems)
Single and searching for one
Hit my dms ladies

Can I really find a true soulmate here...I'm very scared of jumping from one relationship to another..I just want one person and forever

I'm (22F)

"MEN ARE POLYGAMOUS ....IN NATURE" ok yeah what a way to put in words " I lack sexual discipline and all I see in a woman is sex"

Okay....I never argue with a man who claims he is polygamous..but make me understand, why does it make you go crazy when any of the women you are sleeping with..sleeps with another man??

Since you claim you're all polygamous, why does it make you so angry and to some extremes do the unthinkable when your fellow polygamous man practices polygamy with the women you are being polygamous with....

Wow??

Do you get what I'm saying???

Ama who are y'all men practicing polygamy with?😂

Make me understand.

Hey guys,I need serious help.

Bought a iphone 12 last month and it recently updated ios and now the screen is showing that it is being controlled remotely.

The MDM on device management is a DEP lock

How can I bypass it

I hadn't noticed my friend's iPhone was on installments... I use Samsung yeah, but sometimes I prefer taking photos with her phone

So now she is telling me she can't use her phone because the installments tracker locked it

How does this thing even work? Is it something she can remove or?? I'm confused

In the spirit of Mother's day...I will never understand shaming a single mother.Why? Its the most stupid shaming someone would do to downgrade the other one. Deadbeats will always walk out here scott free..no labels...no shame..no responsibility..no burdens but yeah lets laugh at the women who men left their kids with...

Its always such a stupid take especially coming from men..worse someone raised by a single mom himself 🙄🙄. The funniest part is how angry some men get when single mom finds a man willing to take care of her and the kids and wife's her..it boils their blood.

Shaming the parent who stayed?? Wonders of the world fr..

Happy Mother's Day

This hasn't happened once,or twice

This is the third time I have been sexually assaulted by a kid and its crazily traumatizing me.

The first time it happened...I can recall it clearly,,I was walking by the road at around 7pm..its not a remote area,,that is a main road,shops are everywhere, vehicles and people passing by ..

I was heading out to get dinner..I was already wearing my pajamas

I saw these 2 boys,,they looked around the age of 10 - 12 I guess,,they were just normal kids;atleast I thought. Caught them staring at me ,didn't think much of it,, so as I was coming back,just casually walking,,I felt someone touching my ass,,it wasn't fast,,just a slow touch all the way down to almost my V area

Got shocked ofcourse, turned around and saw the 2 boys running away,,I stood there shocked for a minute,I couldn't run after them,they had disappeared already. I swear my brain couldn't digest what had just happened...I texted my boyfriend about it and he consoled me,,made me feel better a lil bit but its still something I cant seem to understand what made those kids think about doing such a thing...still traumatizes me

The 2nd encounter was just a few days ago...I was walking to school ( if you are in UoN that hill from St Pauls church that leads to mamlaka road past hall 12) these young boy approached me,I thought he wanted to ask for money so I immediately told him no..he was actually telling me about how I look good,,,within a blink he touched my ass..there was another boy sitting at the fence,laughing at the scene

Being in a state of shock,,I immediately pointed at him ,my hands were shaking,,I asked him why did he do that,,this boy replied " madam unakasirika juh nimekushika haga" 😭😭 I stood there shocked,, I stared at the other boy sitting on the fence...they were both laughing at this point

There was another woman approaching she had seen what had happened from a far...the boys wakaanza kutoroka..they ran so fast the woman wasn't able to chase after them

I stood there still in shock as she tried to comfort me ...I didn't even realise at this point I was already in tears...

She promised to report it to the security guards around...

Since I was going somewhere and had something to do...I just had to clear that in my head at that moment

What is wrong honestly??? I am so traumatized!!!😖😖😖 Young boyss??? Whattaaaa???

From the latest case of femicide..men have been having some cruel sexist misogynistic takes. They have really blamed the victim...I have not seen anyone coming front to point out the criminal murderer..You have laughed ,made memes about it ,,,and that's how the perpetrator will go scott free,mind you this guy has a history of serial killing and his target are those classy ladies.

Funny thing is...the same men trash talking the lady saying she went to get a "mubabaz" to sponsor her luxurious life...are the same men always making memes about how they can't wait to get older and sleep with the younger girls?? Interesting right🤔

Why are they advising women to be careful yet men are the most cunning, pretenders and liars..they can mask their behaviors perfectly for years..instead of confronting men to STOP KILLING WOMEN

There is absolutely nothing that justifies murder..

Should I switch from android to iphone 11 in 2026

This guy I was dating used to tell me stories of how traumatized he was since he was a kid.His mom was a single mom,4 kids, 4 different dads.

They're all boys. He's the first born.His mom was abused while he was young,like beaten up,raped,cut with blades...and he blames himself for not defending her,,,I used to remind him that he was just a kid and there's nothing he could do. I hated it that he kept crying over that shit likee bro get over it....your mom is fine now,ata the mom doesn't talk about it that much.So he's always stepping up to help the mom with everything ata kama she hasn't asked to,,yet himself he doesn't want to grow. He gets alot of money but yote anapea mamake...that shit didn't make sense to me. His mom on the other side is somehow "taking advantage " of the fact that the son can never say no to her,she doesn't care about his growth.He never liked anything about life,always negative.I would suggest we go on concerts,night outs,hiking,parties, picnics,,he just sayed no and I couldn't convince him to. We'd go on several dates tho...that wasn't enough for me,I like having fun.

Personally, I struggled to understand him... until I had to call that shit off.I broke up with him after cheating on him multiple times.

Bro is still trying to be everything the family needs at this moment. His siblings even call him Dad. yoow

Traumatized men?? Never again

Haha men are here crucifying me because I cheated on a broken man who never cared about himself.Men cheat on their sick wives,dying wive,pregnant wives,the women they abuse and do nothing for,,men's cheating is vile and evil for no reason na mko hapa aty I'm evil for cheating The point of this post was to highlight how dating men with daddy issues is hard na kitu mmeona hapo ni I cheated Yeah you guys deserve the hate and loneliness Mjidishi btw

I (F22) want to make a purchase but I'll be left with close to no money in my account. I've been saving up for sometime,and finally the money is enough to make that purchase.For context, I stay with my parents,I don't pay any bills, my dad gives me money frequently and I have no source of income( atleast yet because I want to search for a job). But its something I've always wanted and I saved up for it,,but I'm skeptical if its okay to leave me with quite a few coins ad zero in my savings?

Kindly advice

I (F22) grew up with a naked mum.She would call me into her room while completely naked, and she wouldn't cover anything.I never saw it as anything but mentioning it to my friends it sounded crazy to them,more like a taboo.I wonder if there are boys who grew up with naked moms and how that affected them....also the girls if it had any effect on you as a child, and now, as you're an adult🤔