u/blue_eyes_forever

I was wondering if anyone ever heard of travel nanny or live in nanny jobs that allow the nanny to have a small dog? Or is that unheard of?

I generally create a family, choose a new career I haven’t done in a while, and make them hustle while I slowly improve their house. I get bored quite easily and never get to the point of my sim kids growing up anymore. I think I’d like to try playing a townie just for something new - which would you pick?

I was in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend. We saw each other a week every month/ couple months. Of course because the time was so limited we really tried to make the most of it. One thing I did was dress up for my bf. He really likes me to wear dark eye make up, dark lips, a choker and lots of cleavage. Recently he bought me a black lipstick. Now I have moved countries to be near him and it seems he expects me to still do this all the time. It seems he expects me to dress up just for him to come over for dinner and have sex, for errands, even when I’m sick etc. If it was only when we went on dates (like once a month) it would be different- but he expects it all the time. I don’t want to dress as a slutty goth girl all the time. I love pink and girly look, and I feel the goth look really ages me. Not to mention I just want to be comfy sometimes and I don’t want to spend an hour doing my make up every day or just for him to visit me for a few hours. Especially since he does not dress up or does effort. I don’t understand why he didn’t just pick a goth girl if that is what he loves so much. It’s making me feel really down too, as if I’m not good enough the way I am. I have tried to talk to him about it but he just says that I used to love dressing up for him- and I did love seeing him so happy, and seems hurt that I don’t feel that way anymore. But now it’s just too much and I resent that it’s an expectation. How should I handle this?

Hi everyone, I just moved countries and I am essentially starting from zero. I would like to do something artsy- I have been going through depression and really lost my enjoyment in life. What are some fun crafts I can do that don’t have a lot of start up costs? For example I loved scrapbooking but to build up all the supplies for that takes some time. I also loved ceramics but can’t afford the classes right now. I basically have some scissors, paper, water color paint, and lots of cardboard/tin cans/jars saved up. Open to buying things I need!

Hi everyone, my boyfriend and I recently started introducing our dogs to each other. They are both four- his is a hunting breed and mine is a small rescue. My dog is very sensitive and shy with strangers (we just moved countries to be near my bf so that also is affecting her) and his dog is just so energetic and playful. His dog does not seem to have any boundaries or understand dog language at all. She just wants to play with my dog so bad, and my dog gets really freaked out. His dog does not care about personal space, and even if my dog is growling at her, she doesn’t back off. She will literally just lay in front of her staring at her (while wagging her tail) for an hour+. We are walking them together, and it seems that is going well, but I am a bit lost on how to deal with her not respecting my dog. My dog can’t get away from her- she just follows her wherever she goes. Thank you.

I was just wondering if there is a way to know what is a normal amount of shedding? I have an autoimmune illness that made me lose a lot of hair as a kid, and I had to cut it short and let it grow out again. Since then I have always had long hair, mostly until a bit above my butt, it is thick and I am very proud of it. My hairdressers always say I have enough hair for 3 people. Recently I was looking at photos of my hair from 5 years ago and it looks like I had more than I do now. I am not sure if it is because my hair dresser gave me this awful cut 1.5 years ago where he made a ton of layers and somehow made it way thinner than it was- even though it’s grown out a lot now or if the autoimmune issue is affecting me again. It might also not be as noticeable if I am losing extra hair because I had a lot of hair and it’s so long. Any advice welcome! Thank you