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Women that grew up in misogynistic families

I know logically that nothing I ever do will be enough for my mom. Her son could burn her house down and she will still say nothing to him. But how can I stop getting angry at her behaviour? I know that this is something that will never change, because of the genitals I was born with I am basically worthless in her eyes. But how do I get over it and live my life without seeking her validation?

How have you moved on from the stark mistreatment and disrespect you experience in relation to the male members of your family?

Thanks

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u/budgiefanatic — 14 days ago

What outfit would go with this hijab?

It’s a busy pattern, so I don’t know what to make of it. Simple white shirt and black dress pants maybe? Idk

u/budgiefanatic — 2 months ago
▲ 57 r/Hijabis

Credit to muhibthewriter

Posting this everywhere and you should too. There is simply no leadership at all. No one is looking outside at what is happening in the world

u/budgiefanatic — 2 months ago

He tried to strangle my mom today

Called someone to him put into long term care but holy shit. Writing that sentence out and saying what he did felt so surreal.

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u/budgiefanatic — 3 months ago

How did you get your conure comfortable with a harness?

I want to take them outside more, I put the harness on mine but I could tell he hated it so I took it off after 15 mins.

What was the process of getting your conure comfortable with harness? What steps did you take and how long did it take?

Thx

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u/budgiefanatic — 3 months ago

Mason Nuya Burkinis?

Has anyone here ordered from them, how did you like them?

If not what are your fav burkinis and where you get them from

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u/budgiefanatic — 3 months ago

I’m scared of him

This past week he has become way more violent and aggressive. I saw him hitting my mom and tried to stop it but he just grabbed me and tried to bite me. I kept telling him to stop, but it didn’t even feel like I was talking to a person. I’ve started the process for transferring him to long term care, but I’m just so tired.

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u/budgiefanatic — 3 months ago
▲ 2 r/l4d2

I can’t load into a game post update

Every time I try to join, it immediately sends me back to the menu screen, or I get “dropped due to non-VIP” or something. Is there a fix for this

Edit: hosting my own game works, so I guess I’ll stick with that for now 🤷‍♀️

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u/budgiefanatic — 3 months ago
▲ 1 r/subway

How to add subway rewards to Apple wallet?

My old pass expired for some reason, then today I couldn’t find the option to re-add the rewards to Apple wallet. Did they get rid of it?

I’m in Canada

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u/budgiefanatic — 4 months ago

How to unlearn trauma response?

Hello

I’ve been through a lot of traumatic things in my life where I was left on my own to figure things out. I had no support system, and at the time it felt impossible that I’d be able to get through it. The good news is, I made it out the other side! But unfortunately I’ve realized that the cost of that was my nervous system is still hardwired to find threats everywhere. Any problem and I will jump to the worst possible scenario. I constantly attach negative labels to people based on ambiguous information. It’s very exhausting to live this way, and I want to change this.

How can I retrain my nervous system/thought process to not catastrophize everything?

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u/budgiefanatic — 5 months ago